So the title is a little ambiguous but it's something that has struck me over the last year or so.

My wife is aware of this side of my personality and is slowly coming round but perhaps still not fully ready to meet Ally in the flesh 😭😂. Believe me I'll take any little win I can along the way as I fully understand it's weird and not what most partners are expecting to hear.

Still the more I talk with my wife about feminine things it does seem to make it easier as it's never been about hurting my most loved friend but just being honest with someone that I consider my soulmate. Soppy I know but that's just it.

Davina I like this forum as you can be open and honest and not be shot down in flame's unlike some other forums. Let's hope we can keep it going with more posts.

Anyway back to the title ambiguous as it is. I have over the year bought a few items that has then reinvigorated my wifes clothing choices, and so I just wonder if others have found this?

I have since lost a stone in weight since my profile pic and my wife 2 stones so managed to try a few items I'd not previously considered.

I bought a body as I'd always liked the look but of course made a mistake in my size so offered it to my wife and so it started a whole new wardrobe choice. I've since got several and love the feel and look of the hug they give.

The other item that we both love wearing is leggings as they are just so comfy, sexy and versatile. I know for some traditionalists these are the end of feminine fashion but I just love the look.

So hopefully I've not marked my card with these fashion choices but have others had similar break throughs with partners. For me it's just about finding any level of acceptance.

So what's your little wins or break throughs?