What a rubbish last 15 months..
I've heard from some here by email and some have written here and some have chatted via TV Chix.. Some able to work from home and dress whenever they want and some have had 15 months without this escapism as their wife or Gf is also working from home and some by choice have buried their cross dressing not wanting their other half to know and some have debated telling wives and Gfs that they dress.
We've gone quiet here the last few weeks and I kinda ran out of things to add here assuming most of the members here have got what they need from all our posts and theories and moved on.. I've dressed twice since the kids have been back in school even with the freedom being home working there's the incessant Teams Video Confrences that go on for hours at a time and as I play a big part in most have to be on cam.
Would be novel and diverse of me to say sod it I'm working from home my electricity and gas etc I'll present how I like but the world isn't ready for that.. The consequences depending on other factors are too life effecting in 2021 so Davina stays hidden in mine and Esme's closet.
I hope everyone is coping through this pandemic and loss of freedom of your feminine expression for want of a better description.. This feminine side we keep well hidden from the rest of the world.
Looking forward to reading more here as remember its not my Forum I just set it up its everyones .
Have a read of Katie's latest post as its a good metaphor..
Davina
LizT I might have taken you up on that a couple of months ago! For me lockdown was stressful for a number of reasons. My job often involved travelling and meeting people, whether colleagues or clients. It was something I did not realise gave me pleasure, meeting new people, seeing new things and having face to face meetings. The lack of contact, being stuck at home 24/7 was difficult and I seized any opportunity to get out, such as driving 200 miles to take a daughter back to university so I could spend the night away (and dress!). My wife did not know at the time and people I used to go visit to dress were isolating, meaning I was not dressing for months on end and suffering stress from work as well! Fortunately my managers at work are being very good at getting me out of the rut and back into a productive attitude, which has made a huge difference.
My wife of 20 plus years has now found out about the other side of me, and although not happy is making enormous efforts t understand and accommodate me. We still have kids at home and they must not know, but just knowing my wife knows and I am not lying to her is a massive relief! We are now talking, coming to compromises about what can and can't be done and how we move forward. Contrasts this with her attitude when we first married "if you were like that, your out the door" and I massively relieved and grateful.
Yes it has been quiet, not just on here but for many people, and silence can be dangerous!