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Coyote Ugly

So Esme declared were off out this afternoon.. So on the train to Cardiff, a drink in the Brew House with loud music.. I'm getting old its packed lots of hen party's and I'm thinking covid galore.. So outside we go.. Then a Nandos as I like Chicken and chips then as there's WWE wrestling and 70000 people in Cardiff watching that fake nonsense we decide let's try a pub we've not been in then get the 2030 train before the wrestling hejuts come out and Esme says let's try Coyote Ugly..

Big screen screening the WWE wrestling rubbish but giid rock music..

I look around predominantly women then the bar maids get up dancing provocatively on the bar.. Esme returns from the loo.. A women fell over and she helped her up then tells Eame she's just had her first Lesbian snog..

What's this got to do with crossdressing? Nothing but read on..

I need the loo.. The usual trough and two toilets I opt for a toilet and coming out two men go into the other toilet and close the door.. Weird thinks I.. Others on the train discussing this said probably drugs .. Maybe..

Now I'm mid 40 so y'all know I broke the seal and shortly need another "wee".. I visit the same toilet.. Theres a big dude in there lurking weirdly.. A guy goes into the other toilet and attempts to close the door and big dude stops him and says "can I wank you off?" The guy says no.. He didn't ask me as alpha male me must have looked way too straight and "I'll knock you out"..

Wind back 5 mins and me and Esme clock several blokes there alone just perving the women .. Before I went to the can I wank you off toilet one creepy guy lurking near us smiled at Esme gave her the creeps so my "wee" postponed as she said please don't leave me alone in here.. I followed him as I went to the loo and confirmed creepy and sleazy.. I can see that where's the security.. He wasn't alone plenty of middle aged and younger creeps..

We cross dress we're not creepy we just dress I just though in saw some perspective in this place tonight.

Also some aggressive looking lesbians in the bar.. Its just a sleazy place.. But good music.

Oh there was one guy in 2 inch heels a dress but a ginger and grey beard.. At forest I thought he was on a stag do but no he was alone and bothering with the creeps.. What a strange place.

Lots of Hen dos all the men apart from me sleaze bags.. Eame enjoyed a dance ..

That's my report of Coyote Ugly Cardiff..

Davina

4 comments

4 Comments

Suzzanne

Sep 04, 2022

Lol. Good to know. I'll be down in Cardiff with my daughter early Oct for the Uni open day. Going to be wandering around the city centre on the Friday afternoon/evening so this is one place to DEFINITELY avoid 😂😂

Davina

Sep 04, 2022

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and not a place for her to get a part time job as a student the girls who worked there all student age flaunting themselves on stage.. maybe they enjoy it but the letching blokes there was sickening definately some unsafe men there a prime location for the date rape drug and sleazy men in there i didnt like it .. it could be a fun place, great music, the girls dancing and the other women there on hen do's getting up on the bar dancing emulating the movie could be fair enough but it was sleazy.

As for the goings on in the toilets i've been in gay bars and not heard a guy offer a random guy to wank him off in the cubicle .. 2 men going into a cubicle too i may have to agree with a guy on the train probably doing drugs but if so its not policed very well by the security.

Suzzanne

Sep 04, 2022

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Davina. Nope, definitely sounds 'dodgy'. I'm hoping she gets a summer job back home like her brother. Cardiff is one of her options, already been to Liverpool (close to where I grew up) and then Manchester the week after Cardiff so we'll see how it pans out. 👍

ally4322022

Sep 03, 2022

You sound alot like me in that as I get older I find overly loud and busy pubs playing shit music annoying, and I'm 100% with you regards WWE and American football for that matter (not sport). At first I thought I liked the sound of coyote ugly as always liked the film, (genre that me and the wife watched when first dating). Never knew there was bars like it over here. Definitely like the rock type music and always happy to watch some good female dancing, sorry not trying to be sexist just male me. The point I'm uncomfortable is with the sleaze. I'm generally very laid back don't try to be all alpha but as soon as I feel protective of loved ones or out of my comfort zone then I'm completely don't even try me. I like your analogy though that despite the negative views that tgirls get we aren't a threat or at least from my perspective trying to be sleazy. Hey perhaps our superpower is trying to reduce the amount of masculine pretentiousness out there. I know that if there were more like us and general acceptance of maybe an androgynous lifestyle then perhaps we could be a happier planet. Sorry maybe too much gin 😊