By: Wife - Sindy Jiggler
Subject: Porn name
I utilized a porn name generator and I'm apparently now Sindy Jiggler. I figure it's better than wife as I died laughing reading your post Davina with my husband calling me that. This is someone's reality, I'm sure lol.
Anyway, I'll quit bombarding the guest page until I have more thoughts to add. I haven't involved my husband here yet. It's a source of conflict in some ways...I don't think he wants to discuss it anymore and I'm not sure I want to either. It's better when we don't and honestly he has been open as much as he can and its really only me that is struggling.
I think I'll chat here myself and show him if I think he'll benefit. I mean, he knows all this already. You all do. It's us wives who are lost in confusion.
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Porn name
I'm not suggesting therapy is a cure for crossdressing. There isn't one.
All I was saying that wife found it helpful to be able to talk to someone about how she feels and the questions she needs answering to try and make sense of it all. I think that some people will use a therapist as this sounding board.
I also found it useful answering wife questions as it made me think about how I feel about crossdressing. I've tried to understand it from my wife perspective and knowing what is going through wife head makes it easier for me.
I know that we crossdressers can get a little oppressed about ourselves and forget about our partners. My wife may be having the same questions going through her head as wife but as wife says it is hard to talk about it with a partner sometimes.
As wife said she found it really useful, especially as she feels her husband is a 'Davina type crossdresser'. To be a be to relate in that way must be reassuring especially when there are so many different types of crossdressers (tampons .....).
By: Davina
Subject: Re: Re: Porn name
I've never considered I need therapy as I know who I am and what I am and I'm confident enough to trust myself and keep self control..
However if my wife had said we need to see a therapist about your Crossdressing I would have done it seeing it as an opportunity to speak openly with someone and educated them on Crossdressing..
I may well have enjoyed it.. But there isn't a therapeutic cure for Crossdressing.. Crossdressing is what it is and is so harmless
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Porn name
I guess the reason people go to therapists is that they find it hard to open up to their nearest and dearest. Talking to a stranger, with anonymity, can let you say the things you've always wanted to but fear that it may upset the ones you love.
It's good for us too to express who we feel. It' also good to get positive feedback that our views aren't totally alien.
By: Davina
Subject: Re: Re: Porn name
Apparently My name generates "General Peachybut" and Davina becomes "Lana Quickie" lol
By: Davina
Subject: Re: Porn name
Wow Sindy Jiggler let me see you Jiggle lol..
If you keep commenting as Sindy Jiggler as this post disappears into the Mire off the page people will actually think that's your name and surmise you are in fact a porn actress lo..
Have a think and keep posting as I've had a few emails from people who don't like to publically comment saying this has been a good week for the blog and for help and advice so Yay!l