By: Wife - Sindy Jiggler
Subject: Porn name
I utilized a porn name generator and I'm apparently now Sindy Jiggler. I figure it's better than wife as I died laughing reading your post Davina with my husband calling me that. This is someone's reality, I'm sure lol.
Anyway, I'll quit bombarding the guest page until I have more thoughts to add. I haven't involved my husband here yet. It's a source of conflict in some ways...I don't think he wants to discuss it anymore and I'm not sure I want to either. It's better when we don't and honestly he has been open as much as he can and its really only me that is struggling.
I think I'll chat here myself and show him if I think he'll benefit. I mean, he knows all this already. You all do. It's us wives who are lost in confusion.
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Porn name
I'm not suggesting therapy is a cure for crossdressing. There isn't one.
All I was saying that wife found it helpful to be able to talk to someone about how she feels and the questions she needs answering to try and make sense of it all. I think that some people will use a therapist as this sounding board.
I also found it useful answering wife questions as it made me think about how I feel about crossdressing. I've tried to understand it from my wife perspective and knowing what is going through wife head makes it easier for me.
I know that we crossdressers can get a little oppressed about ourselves and forget about our partners. My wife may be having the same questions going through her head as wife but as wife says it is hard to talk about it with a partner sometimes.
As wife said she found it really useful, especially as she feels her husband is a 'Davina type crossdresser'. To be a be to relate in that way must be reassuring especially when there are so many different types of crossdressers (tampons .....).