Scary times..
I suppose every I be was worried about Brexit and what that may mean for jobs and our rights etc as new laws were written and a new dawn as a Nation on our own in the world and no one in the right mind thought a pandemic originating in China would see the world in lockdown and fear and the devastation we've seen and the devastation to come.
It certainly puts cross dressing in perspective. This thing we do for varying reasons for kicks or for a bit of fun, relaxation and escapism or the turn on and get off.
For me it has become my stress relief.. I'm lucky I can work from home and Esme similar and I could dress whilst the schools are still open and I'm home alone but at some point we know the schools will close and means my opportunity to dress has gone and then for those of us who use it partly for stress what will we do?
I've chatted to others and one option I was given to consider in family time is to open up and discuss my cross dressing but I don't think that's something Esme would want me to do. No idea what the kids would make of Batman being a tgirl .. The other option is the one I will follow and that's being the Alpha male Dad and Husband for as long as it takes to see us through this horrid virus and guessing most of you here will have to do the same.
Anyway this Forums here for help and advice and also a place anyone of you can come to chat or leave a message or check in.
Hoping none of us are greatly affected by this virus.. I'll keep a look out on here more often.
Davina
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Yes we're coming out slowly in Wales everyone still needs to be cautious tho.
Fed up of the virus now think its more sensible in Wales Davina than here
I'll tell you one thing with work stress still quite high with whats going on in work and anger at whats happening in work or not happening like the NhS we've not got the front line workers wipes, gell or ppe to protect them expeting them to keep the wheels of industry turning and worry about family and friends stress levels could do with a bot of crossdressing to bring the level down.
Maybe as this is only early doors i'll need some resolution to dressing somehow.. will i tell the kids .. i dont think Esme would want me to do that but saying that the other night before lock down my oldest put makeup on her bf.. lol
So we're ok our only risk now shopping for family who are vulnerable and delivering their things .. staying away from everyone apart from us 4.
Hoping everyone is ok
Davina
Bad times
Hope you'll get paid Cat this 80% scheme the government talked about.
Hope its not just talk as so far they've made this epidemic far worse than it should be be their inaction the last few months.
Davina do you think your children would be OK their macho Dad admitting he's a tgirl?
Would work out well for you if they accepted Davina but its not your decision its Esmes so if you do decide to tell them both need to be 100%.
We could be in lockdown for the rest of the year.
Hioe everyone here is OK
Emma
As of Friday one of or bigger customers has shut down, not sure how long for but I'm not sure where that leaves me now, I may be layed off for a period but just don't know as of yet.
If I am I'll have spare time to dress, I bought grains and hops over the weekend to start making my own beer again now the pubs are closed and I've got the raw ingredients to make my own hand sanitizer, so I'm prepared and doing these things makes me feel I'm doing something as we all may have a lot of spare time on our hands.
I look around at people and how they behave and seem unfazed by the situation, they aren't looking at government websites and listening to doctors advice on staying healthy, its all very simple stuff to do, but people aren't listening.
It will be hard to put Catriona back in the box but other things will take my mind off that, hopefully we can get through this as best as possible and see we're we are on the other side, thats all we can do.
Cat x
A pity the Virus ins'tin perspective for big swathes of the Nation who are ignarantly stockpiling and still out in public spreading the disease.
I won't get too political but the Governments dither and delay has cost and will cost lives.. The mix of instructions and half instructions and U turned advice and what ifs and might bes from the Government has induced the panic buying.
So Crossdressing for some of us that Important unimportant thing may have to go on hold for a while. i did message Esme Thursday that i should have dressed one last time before "Crossdressing isolation comes into effect" and I text maybe I'll tell the kids the oldest may enjoy giving me a makeover lol.
Lol was her response... but push comes to shove if the urge is that great would i decide to tell them Batman likes to Crossdress to Escape being Macho alpha me all the time??
We're both lucky we can work from home here. Hoping Esme can work from home fro Monday and the oldest has said bye to her BF for the foreseeable apart from Skype.
You've taken giant steps Cat in getting out in the last few months so will be hard to put Cat back in the box or a time to reflect on it with your wife?
Some with everyone else who is half in half out with the wife knowing but not ok with crossdressing an opportunity to talk and explain these urges we get. This important unimportant thing we do.
Yes the virus has brought things into perspective for me.
At this point in time none of us know how this is all going to pan out and affect us, i myself have had to cancel hotel rooms as events have been cancelled.
Various venues that all the girls go to are now under threat and may never open again but I'm hoping they do.
Unfortunately I can't work from home due to the nature of my job, so still have to travel to work.
At this present time myself and my wife are both ok and intend to stay that way for as long as possible.
Dressing wise I suppose I'll be going back to the few snatched hours on a Friday afternoon that I used to be limited to before I started going out.
That was a very short lived period of being able to go out in public as Catriona and my life had just started to take off!!!
But that's all gone now for the foreseeable future.
But saying that, I've sort of come to the decision that if I do get through all this and my family do I think I'll be coming out to them and telling them about Catriona, I've also decided that if people don't like it then that's their problem, the game has changed now and I won't be making any appologies for who I am.
I hope everyone stays healthy and safe, I'll be on and off here when I can and hope things dont get too bad.
Cat xxx