Hi Ally here, just saying hello x
Just thought I should introduce myself to you lovely lot.
Like most had the urge to dress from a young age but hated myself for it until last year. I knew something had to change. I think I just got to the point where it was making me sad that I couldn't express myself fully. I had chats with my Wife about the usual I'm not gay, and I don't want to leave you, I just like all things fem. She has to her credit been understanding and has said she accepts that side of my personality but also doesn't want to partake either. I'm chuffed that I haven't lost her and will take things very slow.
Does this sound familiar to other members at all? Is there any hope that one day my wife might want to meet my alter ego? Davina, how did you get your wife on board?
Anyway hope I haven't bored you all.
Take care
Ally xx
Hi Ally, I'm a little late, but welcome :)
I found myself in a similar position to yours last April when I felt I finally had to confess my sordid secret for the good of my mental well-being. It was a terrifying situation I put myself in (!) but I was very fortunate with the outcome and have been a lot happier since.
I hope your wife will come around to accepting Ally into her life more fully :)