Another useful video as I work from home watching on Youtube
Misconception:
Transgender is not the same as Transvestite or Crossdresser - Shes right its not we may have some dysphoria when we can't indulge in crossdressing depending on what degree you actually crossdress as in trying things on or moving up the levels to makeup, wigs and presenting as female as possible..
Crossdressers are GAY! - Again shes right why would a gay man who's attracted to other men dress as a woman to attract gay men who are attracted to men.. it doesn't make any sense but it's the first question out of a lot of wives and girlfriends mouths including my wife "Does this mean you're gay?" That's illogical and I'm willing to bet the majority of crossdressers aren't gay. Noted some are Bisexual or over time depending on circumstances become Bi which seems all the rage in younger people hearing one of my kids exclaiming that her friends new girlfriend is Bi and one of her friends is Bi.. How doe they know at such a young age where is this sex ed coming from it is cool to say "oh by the way I'm Bi" - Maybe its a new generational thing of sexual acceptance but most Crossdressers arent Gay.. if the stigma was most are Bi this view may be more feasible but that's complicated having chatted to 1000's t girls who don't identify as 100% straight but don't fancy men so not Bi.. it's a complicated one and i'll move on to the next misconception.. This is a whole new thread on sexuality which we've touched on in bits on this forum which maybe someone else can take up the mantle and write about as like i keep saying i can only write about what i know.
Crossdressers are kinky - Back to the oh its a fetish thing. Again for some it will be a kink for others sheer escapism and enjoyment being crossdressed feeling different, stress relief. it's not a kink for me sex isn't part of it I can think of nothing better than to just have time to chill play with makeup try different looks, outfits, feels the lingerie, nylon on my legs and heels and just relax as Davina nothing much kinky about that.
Shame - I'm not at all ashamed for being a Crossdresser although we all go through guilt and shame at a stage in our crossdressing "career" but that's more so due to how society views us and how we're told boys blue, girls pink, boys a toy gun, girls a doll, boys football and rugby, girls netball and hockey... That shit has to stop.. To an extent we need to retain a level of men and women but we're in a much more equal society now than we were in the 1900's and 2000's so anyone saying you should be ashamed of yourself presenting as a woman needs to point to the women dressed as men daily.. it's nonsense.
Only feminine men crossdress - by this she means feminine looking men but i'll hand grenade in feminine acting men which is nonsense as i'm far from feminine acting as a man and most t girls i chat to live their daily lives as man presenting manly .. some t girls can pull off looking really feminine when dressed and unfortunately some can't transform as well but i've equally seen some manly looking women and commented here before some women tarted up look more trans than t girls so this is the 5th nonsense - ALL types of men feminine to Alpha crossdress..
Onto the video