Its so misunderstood isnt it that wives and girlfriends finding out their man is a crossdresser badly overlook what he may get out of it or what positive benefits there may be.

The oh my god its so perverted gets in the way when actually it helps his mental wellbeing or its become a hobby.

The benefits for me is a stress free husband not worrying about hiding it from me any more and chilling him out when hes dressed.

He's also excellent at helping me pick out an outfit and i can borrow some things off him if ive run out sometimes even a dress or a pair of tights lol.

More benefits i can think of than anything negative but you have to be open minded to see that once you get past the shock of discovering hes a crossdresser.

Emma (Wife)

All good points Davina and Katie

The main thing for you is its relaxing and fun and thats what really counts

Yoou cant really properly emphasise with us women the same as we'll never know what goes through the heads of you men and even you men who crossdress.

There are many benefits some for your health, some for a relationship if acceptance can bring you closer and some for the fun side of this "thing"

Humour and that private joke between husband and wife helps i find,

Hannah (wife)

1) We can sympathise when you ladder a pair of tights straight out the packet.

I would be gutted if i laddered a new pair of tights or stockings putting them on first time. Its a nice feeling putting on a new pair.

2) We appreciate how long it takes to put on your make up

We're also adept at a quick makeover from the days of hiding we dress where a quick makeover was required so we know ladies can get ready quicker lol. They've had years of practise.

3) We appreciate how much make up cost!

Yes and how cheap makeup can do a job lol.

4) We understand why your hair is so important to you

And have learnt how hard it is to manage a wig over time.

5) We appreciate that wearing heels kills your feet

But also appreciate how legs look in heels :)

6) We appreciate that trying to remain body hair free is a full time job

Most of us know all about this too not just because of crossdressing i hate hair on my body as a man.

7)We appreciate how a tight skirt can restrict your movement

And how different style skirts and dresses suit t girls. Sometimes a tight skirt for us reveals too much.

8) We how vulnerable you might feel in tight skirt and heels out on a dark night on your own

And some have experienced this when out dressed at night.

9) We appreciate the pressure to look young and beautiful

And we try our best to look as convincing as possible when we dress.

10) We appreciate everything you do to be a woman

But would like to see you in matching lingerie, stockings and heels more often lol or is that just me wishing this??

Davina

How about these:

1) We can sympathise when you ladder a pair of tights straight out the packet.

2) We appreciate how long it takes to put on your make up

3) We appreciate how much make up cost!

4) We understand why your hair is so important to you

5) We appreciate that wearing heels kills your feet

6) We appreciate that trying to remain body hair free is a full time job

7)We appreciate how a tight skirt can restrict your movement

8) We how vulnerable you might feel in tight skirt and heels out on a dark night on your own

9) We appreciate the pressure to look young and beautiful

10) We appreciate everything you do to be a woman

Katie x

Maybe but where's the fun in that 🤣

In the spirit of Sindy. Can you not be all these things without being a crossdresser?

Think that's the Davina type Cross dresser top 10 which covers you and most but not all?