By: Sindy

Subject: Body hair

I've had this thought niggling for a few days....something Davina, and I think Katie, both said.

You like to shave your bodies so you feel 'clean'.

I found this a confronting description. So, the hairy male body is dirty? That's quite the psychological minefield there, isn't it. I know crossdressing is fun, and light, and relaxing, but if you feel the male body in its biologically natural state is undesirable and even dirty, I can't help wondering as a sofa shrink (haha) what happened to you both (and my husband) that lead you to feel this way.

Remember, you're naturally men. You're naturally hairy. I know women remove their hair as well but I suspect if we were as hairy as you lot and this was the cultural norm, that we wouldn't bother. We would just find ways to style it or something haha.

So, don't you think it's NOT the norm to feel this way about your male body hair, and that there IS some heavier underlying reason why you do this? I'm not saying I know what, but maybe your sister called your hairy legs gross one day, or your mother favoured your 'cleaner' prettier sister or maybe Daddy was just a loser and a terrible role model. I don't know. Maybe you really are born liking a clean body...though I can't see how as razors weren't always around. This wouldn't have been not that long ago.

Anyway, just to keep the civic duty rolling...I know wives puzzle about this body hair hatred a lot. It's different from the metrosexual dudes who do this out of pure vanity. I really do think there's something deeper at play with Davina Dressers. I have a tiny niggle that there's a part of even the most occasional casual crossdresser that doesn't entirely like being a man.

Thoughts?