By: Sindy
Subject: Personal chat
Interesting answers. I feel I know you all a little better already.
Here's another one:
How often do you crossdress? How does this compare to what your ideal amount would be?
Where do you dress, and again, is this where you want to dress or where you have to dress?
Does your wife ever tell you how she feels when she knows or sees you dressed?
My husband dressing when away on business and this works well for our family life. I'm sure he'd rather be home but even he wouldn't relax or enjoy it now as the kids are literally everywhere and into everything! Even nighttime isn't a reprieve.
I'm sure he'd also like to dress more than the every month or so he gets now. But again, kids.
And how I feel when I know he's dressing is a mixture of relief that he's getting it out of his system, lol, mild rejection that he's creating this 'other woman', and a lingering resentment that he still needs it all these years later.
Look forward to your answers. x
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Personal chit chat
Sometimes it's struggle to think back that far! We've been married for coming up 24 years but when we were first together she was a size 12 from memory. Maybe even slipping to a 14 at times. I used to play a lot of sport at weekend but still liked the occasional beer!
My wife lost quite a bit of weight when she had the boys. It was quite a dramatic time as they were in hospital for 9 weeks (just over 3 pounds each at birth) and looking after twin boys was pretty frantic. I helped out as much as I could but she also suffered from the baby blues so it was a tough first year.
Her weight dropped and she is now a size 8/10. She does take pride in her appearance and even following her latest hair disaster (cut too short) still looks good. Most people can't believe she's 50.
She does have her housework gear as I have my DIY gear but even in her skinny jeans she looks good especially when combined with her biker jacket! I don't need to see her in a dress and heels but then maybe I'm spoilt because she tend to wear that to work anyway.
I'm still a little overweight but trying to get it down. It always seems to be going so well but then a curry night with the lads comes around (tonight) and a few pounds always seems to gets added on!
As I said before I'm down from an 18 to a 16 but could maybe do with getting to a 14 to be my ideal weight for my height and build. It's easier in dresses sizes and maybe not as bad as moving form XL to L!
I like to stay active and run a football team so quite often the coaching involves joining in. Easy when they were younger but they're all quicker and more skilful than me now!
Anyway I don't think that either of us have changed dramatically (grey hair for me is the biggest change). The kids do keep us young and outdoors as much as possible. Ostensibly the same people just older!