Go on Davina you have a good story to tell and have done a great job with your blog and this Forum wanting to help others and then maybe I'll go on and tell Sophie and her vlog watchers how i came home discovering mine all glammed up feet up cup of tea watching loose women 😂
Hi Davina, If at any time you do have a change of heart and wish to do an interview or anything along those lines just let me know. The chances of being "found out" are remote and would always beg the question of why would that "person" be watching the video in the first place. However, I totally respect your thoughts and would never encourage anyone to do anything that would put them in a potentially difficult situation. Good work with this site by the way.
I will maybe mention it to my wife as I think lots of us have a tale to tell "why do men crossdress?"... "Why do I crossdress?"
I know if ever found out I could sit someone down and explain it, but the secret to that I surmise is getting in there quick before it gets out further then it spreads to rumour and it becomes harder to address.
The story I have to tell may be common, family man, open minded, very sporty and competitive, believe in a big society looking out for one another and fairness and social justice, uni education in something practical (Civil Engineering) and followed that through a successful career path to a National level enjoying a fair bit of national and international success as an Engineer in my field of expertise .. basically for anyone who knows me as a bloke, someone no one would ever expect would be a crossdresser.. Work don't know how many times they've paid for a hotel when I've had to attend a briefing, conference or forum away from home facilitating Davina time.. the knocks on the door from colleagues to see if i'm coming to the bar for a pint when I'm the other side of the door done up to the 9s in high heels red lips and a blonde wig lol
I'm thoroughly normal and a typical Alpha male but I crossdress.. that does not change who i am one iota.. I would love to be able to educate people on crossdressing and dispel the myths about dressing. I've been told I should write a book and one day may get round to it,
I know from chatting to t girls for over a decade on line some of he myths are true and some things make it harder for us and put the misconceptions front and centre when a wife is faced with you admitting to crossdressing but in the main i find most t girls i chat to do this for the fun of it, the escapism and to feel different for a period of time.
Hope we can chat some time and I'll think about doing something.. will depend on my wife
Same Emma would love to do more on social media "As Davina" but know Esme would say no for the same reasons as you family, friends and work although diversity and inclusion is big in work i know if i wanted to i could rock up on a Teams call as Davina.. would be a hell of a shock for them but could be done.. but i wont as would spoil my Darth Vader image in work,
For those that don't know, Sophie does makeovers at Translife in Brighton. I've been a couple of times, including a night out/B&B stay. I've found her makeup videos very helpful.
Your story is a good one Emma not only did he have to tell you why he was cross dressed but I bet you first asked him what the hell he was watching.
Go on Davina you have a good story to tell and have done a great job with your blog and this Forum wanting to help others and then maybe I'll go on and tell Sophie and her vlog watchers how i came home discovering mine all glammed up feet up cup of tea watching loose women 😂
Emma (Wife)
Hi Davina, If at any time you do have a change of heart and wish to do an interview or anything along those lines just let me know. The chances of being "found out" are remote and would always beg the question of why would that "person" be watching the video in the first place. However, I totally respect your thoughts and would never encourage anyone to do anything that would put them in a potentially difficult situation. Good work with this site by the way.
Watched this and a few others earlier another good Video.
Davina you should let Sophie interview you and tell your story.
I'd love to let her interview us but don't want to appear on social media outing ourselves because of work and family reactions.
Emma (wife)
For those that don't know, Sophie does makeovers at Translife in Brighton. I've been a couple of times, including a night out/B&B stay. I've found her makeup videos very helpful.