Anyone else have a girls night in this weekend?
We had ab early start at 17:00 bathed and shaved (him) then took time with makeup following contouring vid on youtube with a cheap contour kit.
Told him to dress casual as if we were popping to the shop as thats what i had in mind lol.
A dress fashion tights Ankle boots and one of my winter coats and scarf.
Out of the house in the dark to the car i drove no one saw us everyones curtains closed.
Drove to the shop i went in got some wine and beer and crisps.
Instead of going straight home went for a drive round for a bit he was calm.
Went onto a shopping centre everything closed apart from restaurants over the far side.
Parked up i got out he said what you doing i said window shopping no one about.
Talked him out of the car we walked around looked in dorethy perkins, H&M, windows then after about 10 mins back to the car and drove home.
We didnt bump into anyone as id expected and he said it was a rush to be out with me dressed and said thankyou. Awww so sweet.
Went home chick flicks wine and beer nice night in winter a good time for tgirls if they want to go out.
Emma (wife)
Omg that cartoon is so close haha
Same have fun with your night
Emma (wife)
Aww sounds nice nothing to worry about.
Rebecca (wife)
My expectation is a night crossdresses house to ourselves early.
Maybe bring the suitcase down from the attic and have a try on and sort out to thin it out a bit, try different looks.
See if we can suss out contouring (need to buy a cheap contouring kit) and watch a chick flick or Christmas film.
Wine and beer and something to eat.
Why what did you think my expectation was?
Hi ladies,
I don’t know why I’m nervous really, I suppose it’s wondering what his expectation is and it’s been quite a while since we’ve done this.
But like you said take control and enjoy,
We are going to have a fun filled night.
Will Keep you posted 😜
Thanks
Esme
Omg Am that cartoon is you and hubby haha and Katie why hasn't he got on wig and a dress lol if you go out look the part
Hannah (wife)
Don't go popping out in the garden on the 15th. You never know who's watching!
Haha Emma and husband girls night window shopping lol
Sometimes it's the expectation that can be so crushing when it doesn't quite work out as planned. Familiarity does make things a whole lot easier so it should be fun.
Thanks Katie i was nervous first girls night and 2nd wife wanted to watch me transform and complimented me on how i did my makeup I'm not nervous her seeing me dressed anymore.
If it was me and my wife on a girls night in I know I woudln't be able to sleep the night before. Mixture of nerves and excitement. Too much going through my head. Knowing my luck one of the kids would be ill and sleepover cancelled ........... Hope you both have a great evening.
Katie
Yay girls night in we have another this Friday with Christmas films and prosecco.
What are you nervous about?
You don't have to do what I did and take him out in the car but if he wants to feel the cold send him out the back garden if no one can see him.
Have fun with it you may even learn makeup techniques yourself they're pretty good at it you'll find.
Emma (wife)
Hi Esme
Cool you have 15th booked something both can look forward to.
And do look forward to it it can be fun helping him transform to look female.
What are you nervous about hon? It's your husband still.
Don't worry about going out you control that it's something they all come to being bored dressing at home and want to feel the outdoors not necessarily in public just out side somewhere even the garden lol as a starting point and also want to talk to others like they do in tvchix chat rooms but in person.
You can control this and if you do t want him to go out so be it or control it like emma.
But don't be nervous about the 15th it should be a fun night imagine he's your best friend which he probably is but he's dressed as a woman like a best girlfriend.
Hannah (wife)
Hi Rebecca
Night in sorted for the 15th dec, too much going on with girls and Christmas lol.
Looking forward to it, bit nervous, not gonna lie.
Don’t think we’ll be going out just yet, I’m not ready for that. 😬
Hopefully have a bit of fun dressing up and make up etc etc. 💄💅🏼💃
Esme
I'm following Hannah's lead and being more dominant about his dressing get the silly guilt issue out of his head.
Have you sorted your girls night in yet?
Will you leave the house as Davina? Like Emma had done with her husband?
Same with my phone in here keeps messing up what I type and text appears so slow wi isn't as good as the adverts on the telly.
You may be right Rebecca wives better off taking charge.
Glad it's not just me having spelling errors in here on my iPhone which came up biphone Lol a phone which swings both ways.
I think us wives need to take control otherwise they never follow through on what they want to really do as tgirls ie have a makeover or go out dressed or sex dressed we can co tell this and makes me feel a little bit Dom over him for a change.
Rebecca (wife)
Good on you Emma take co tell take him out of his comfort zone and outside as a t girl.
Bet he enjoyed it and bet you felt empowered and nice to help him fulfil something he wanted to do but was too scared to actually do.
Hannah (wife)
Get out the garden to cool down on your girls night in lol
Emma (wife)
And Emma the gardens not very secluded but in the winter nights no one would see me if I was dressed and stood out by the back door.
I've put stones down along side the house so there'd be a crunch crunch crunch noise if I put the bins out and they'd ruin my heels lol
Davina
I would have been ok if my wife had confided in someone although I wonder what advice they'd give her, probably run for the hills he's a weirdo or pervert.
I suppose it would depend on who he confided in and how they'd react in relation to them knowing me as the man I am.
I remember her friend telling us about her bf my mate dressing up in her stockings and lingerie a few times and her ridiculing him thinking omg no here's her best friends opinion and it's not good.
But at the same time her best friend would probably say wow no way I've gotta see this if my wife told her I crossdresses if you remember I've already told them knowing they'd think I was joking.
I think we've covered confusing in another post on here. Probably is best to keep it under wraps due to the misconceptions but it's what's best for the wife or gf as it can be a shock and a big secret to keep.
Davina