Planning and making / taking opportunity

So with the kids older your own freedom of movement and time is less.. as a Parent you put the kids first and foremost and your life on hold for them running them here there and everywhere and making sure theyre ok and happy and on the straight and narrow and also doing well in their education and not too stressed and in good mental health.

I'm doing this us parents park our own wants and needs and sometimes don't de-stress or look after ourselves and our own mental health in a circle of sleep up kids work home kids and hor or so after they go to bed then sleep and repeat..

When kids get older with more freedom to come and go your own freedom diminishes for a few years.. when in school it's not so bad but college and uni with lectures prone to cancellation etc as a crossdressing parent it's too risky to dress if you don't want them to know..

Luckily Jan 25 one in school one work placement and left work diary pretty free after Christmas 9 days working as Davina.. nothing in Feb 25 and now work is up past my eyeballs but I have a 2 week window I know the house is empty 0800-1500 so this week and next I have to make the most of it leave some days free of meetings and chill working as Davina..

The plan is no meetings Tuesday 0800-1300 so a few hours, Wednesday I've left free so maybe 8-1430 so that's a plan.. need to make it happen as my opportunity after the next 2 weeks dwindles significantly as we approach end of uni term in May thru to September..

So frustrating.. I've not found a way to make Davina time to just chill..

Davina