By: New Here

Subject: Hi

Thanks for all your advice

I thought I'd better post an update seeing as this blog has helped us so much.

So finding him dressed in my wedding dress has been mind blowing made even more mind blowing by him wearing full makeup and having a wig which was a bit psyco as it looked like he was trying to look like me.

Advice taken after both reading every letter of the blog advice and Davinas personal blog which has opened my mind to reasons why men dress up and why my husband may dress us.

We've not really talked much but have text eachother a lot on Friday night using some of the questions posed on the blog.

I'm satisfied hes not Gay and it seems its just something he has done snice young and enjoys doing albeit for years he's been tryingon womens clothes and it seems anyones clothes he came across and opportunity to dress up starting with his mums and his sisters and other various relatvies even neighbours and friends mums OMG.

I took him shopping Saturday and said he had to buy some things of his own if he must continue to do this but I have told him he dresses in his own time I don't want to see him or be with him dressed up and I will let him know when I'm on my way home so if he is dressed he can undress.

First stop was Boots and I picked him out some foundation, blush, lipstick and eye shadow makeup removal crème and makeup wipes and made him pay for it which made hm blush and even worse to come for him in Primark we walked round looking at dresses him so coy and so not like him I picked out 2 dresses to nods of approval from him then picked him out some high heels to a few grunts from him edging me towards the highest heels there and a pair of stockings hold ups. We then went upstairs and into the lingerie section where he grunted me towards knickers, bras and basques and some chicken fillets OMG it was so weird picking up racy lingerie and knowing it was for him and later he told me he had an errection the whole time especially in the lingerie section.

Then I made him go scarlett by saying go on then pay for it to which he said no way they might think its for me and I said ok lets put it all back lol he was so embarrassed but went through with it with me stood off to the side as the girl at the desk scanned racy lingerie stocking heels dress etc.

he's not dressed up yet but text me he was dying to try things on and is hoping he can get home from work early today to dress up before I get home which is really strange but he seems so excited about it but also ashamed.

I guess if we want to make things work and as ive read this may be an inexplicable part of him we will have to see how this goes as long as he keeps it to himself. Like Davinas wife if he wants or is dressing I feel I need t know hes doing it so I can avoid having to walk in on him dressed again and we need to be able to talk about it and remember to delete our texts.

Thankyou all for the advice and Davina thankyou for the blog it has helped so much although my head is still spinning.