Some seem lucky.
I know Lena on here's had unlimited time to dress at one end of the spectrum and her wife is fine with it.
The other end a few girls hardly dressed at all in the last 12 months and wives not in the know posing the questions is now the time to tell they cross dress but is the reason to create opportunity to dress more than wanting her to know.
Others non opportunity and don't want their wife to know.
I'm middle ground like a few here I've chatted to privately here wife knows but kids don't and with schools open then closed due to covid and spread hardly any time to dress..
1st week of December was my last opportunity to dress.
I was talking with Esme on a walk Friday about work and them wanting us back in the office and some will want face to face meetings.. I've not had a jab so going nowhere any time soon and certainly not on public transport I can do my job from home and MS Teams.
But I said bang goes my trips away for meetings and dressing in the hotel room for the night and no hope of dressing at home currently let alone a nice girls night in where I can have a good try on or my dresses abd skirts, different looks, different wigs etc.
Esme's response was we've all had to give things up.
I don't think our wives realise how much this escapism helps us to balance our mental wellbeing.
That sounds ridiculous right? But gone is my use of sport to get rid of aggression and being p'd off with work and replacing that is cross dressing and its served me well the last decade calming me down, letting down that alpha male guard (armour).
I am truly fed up of this pandemic and the groundhog day of work, the government handling of the pandemic, the people not sticking by social distancing as back to school we see a spike again in covid cases already.. It can only be because people aren't following the rules and are spreading it to people who have stuck by the rules throughout the last 12 months.
My mental health is crap at the moment but being a bloke I don't admit it.
A few hours made up in a dress and heels etc would work miracles for a few hours of escapism and that really does sound strange but it works.
Let's hope life can return to some sort of normal soon.
Well, opportunities are few and far between normally so things have been even worse with Covid and WFH with the kids (not really but hey) out of school and Uni and the SO furloughed from her part time work. Not had ANY chance for a very long time but I've still bought a couple of dresses in readiness. When work, fortunately, offered a recent opportunity to get some time away from home it was a relief to have something to look forward to. I had been hyping it up in my head but it somehow wasn't as gratifying as I had anticipated, probably as there was still a risk of not knowing if anyone would knock on the door to my room. I still took the opportunity though and managed to sort through a few things, try on my dresses, wigs and underwear and actually take a few pictures (just for me and though but did change my profile pic and add a few to my TVChix page - not the best but meh!).
I took it as a chance to see what I've actually acquired and what suited me so there was no getting dressed in one particular outfit, more a chance to check what I thought would look good on me and whether it actually did. I had more dresses than I though :) and I decided my boobs were too big so will make some adjustments to my underwear choices in the future and (really) try to stick to the size that I think suits me. Gone are my 44DD's and I'm down to 42D from now on.
Its hard for me to dress anyway so any chance is welcomed, I've a clearer idea of what suits me and maybe a few ideas for the future. I don't anticipate another opportunity in the foreseeable future to dress but when there is, I can now pick out an outfit and keep it on for an evening..I'm jealous of those that do have the opportunity to dress more frequently but stand alongside those who don't and know how difficult it can be to keep the urges suppressed. The roadmap is long but we will get there in the end.