So this happened when Esme asked to dress me as a woman and me thinking she'd sussed I was a crossdresser when in fact she just wanted to see if I'd let her dress me up for a bit of fun.. would her mad alpha hubby let her do it..
Reality is she can dress me up any time she likes lol but back then I was wrong in my assumption that she knew I was a crossdresser and it led to me coming out to her that I was so here's Geminis answer..
That sounds like a fun and exciting opportunity to explore your feminine side! Here are a few things to consider:
* Communication:
* Express your feelings: Let your wife know how you feel about her offer. Are you excited? Nervous? Curious?
I was very excited her offering to dress me as a woman thinking this was her way of saying I know you crossdress and this is my way of showing you I know and accept it.. I was wrong here .. Nervous yes I was as far as I thought sussed and having to come out to her as a Crossdresser and was going to be standing in front of her fully transformed.. Curious also yes as I was curious to know how she discovered I was a T-Girl and her level of acceptance etc.. but I was wrong she hadn't sussed me out.. lol
* Discuss boundaries: Talk about what you're comfortable with and what your limits are.
* Planning:
* Choose a comfortable setting: Find a relaxed and private space where you can both feel comfortable.
* Gather materials: If needed, gather any makeup, clothing, or accessories you'd like to use.
* Enjoy the experience:
* Relax and have fun! This is an opportunity to experiment and see how you feel presenting in a different way.
* Focus on self-expression: Let your creativity shine through and enjoy the process of transformation.
* Reflect afterward:
* Consider how you felt: Did you enjoy the experience? What did you like or dislike?
I did enjoy it immensely having my wife do my makeup and dressing me until the penny dropped she hadn't sussed I was a Crossdresser then it became awkward.
* Discuss it with your wife: Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
Remember that this is a personal experience, and there's no right or wrong way to approach it. The most important thing is to communicate openly with your wife, respect each other's boundaries, and enjoy the process.
I hope you have a wonderful time exploring your feminine side!
So I asked Gemini why my wife may have asked to dress me as a woman.. she says she just wanted to see if I'd let her .. here's the Gemini response..
There could be a number of reasons why your wife might want to dress you as a woman. Here are a few possibilities:
* Sexual Exploration: Some couples find it sexually arousing to explore gender roles and experiment with different forms of expression.
I know it wasn't this Esme's told me she doesn't fancy Davina in her words "I'm not a Lesbian"
* Role-Playing: It could be a form of role-playing or fantasy play, allowing you both to step outside of your usual roles and explore different personas.
* Curiosity: She might be curious about what it's like to present as a woman and wants to experience it through you.
Funny one from Gemini as my wife is a woman lol
* Support and Encouragement: If she knows you enjoy crossdressing, she might be offering her support and encouragement by helping you with your presentation.
Ahhh here's what I thought was happening interesting to read Geminis thoughts aligning with mine that my wife may have been showing support of my crossdressing.. but she had no idea I was a crossdresser.
It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your wife to understand her motivations. This will help you both feel comfortable and enjoy the experience together.
We've done this she's more or less forgotten or put it to the back of her mind as something she wondered if I'd let her do.. glad we did it as it allowed me to come out as a Crossdresser..