Maybe something for wives and partners if you've just found out your other half is a crossdresser..

If you met me for the first time, I don't think you'd look at me and think, “I bet he's a crossdresser.”

And that's probably one of the things I find most interesting about my own journey and that of lots of other men who escape for a while by Crossdressing.

I'm a fairly traditionally masculine bloke.

I'm a husband and a dad. I'm involved in sport and coaching. I've played sport, I keep myself reasonably fit, I walk most mornings and go to the gym.

I'm competitive, I like football, rugby and cricket, and I'm a heavy metal fan.

Ms Krista and I were chatting on Discord and I promised to get up at 01:50 to take part in her podcast.. Shes lovely and understands why some men Crossdress. Her Podcast Kinks & Drinks covers a variety of topics and this one for me I just had to be part of as it was titled Why to men want to be Feminine..

So here's my Crossdresser’s Perspective on Femininity, Escape and Identity plus Ms Krista of Enchantrix Empire.

I found it genuinely interesting. What I particularly enjoyed was hearing some of the myths around crossdressing challenged and, hopefully, seeing some truth emerge about why men actually crossdress.

There probably isn't one single answer.

For some, it may be sexual. For others, it might be identity, expression, curiosity, fashion, relaxation or simply enjoying something society traditionally tells men they shouldn't enjoy.

From Private Escape to Positive Conversation: What Crossdressing Has Taught Me

Over the last few weeks, something rather unexpected has happened.

I've been writing more openly about crossdressing on X, sharing thoughts about my own experiences, relationships, acceptance, stress, femininity, masculinity and the strange but wonderful escape that being Davina gives me.

And the response has been incredible.

My X following has now grown to over 1,000 followers.

For an account built around something that many people still keep deeply private, I'm genuinely proud of that.

Hi everyone,

Just a quick update to let you all know what I've been up to.

I'm still regularly adding new articles and thoughts to my personal blog, so it's worth checking in from time to time as you may find something there that helps you, answers a question, or simply offers a different perspective on why men crossdress and the experiences that come with it.

I haven't been posting as much new content directly on the forum recently, simply because there's already so much valuable information here across the different categories.

Whether you're new or have been here for years, there's a wealth of discussions, advice, and personal experiences waiting to be explored.

It's also been really encouraging to see my posts on X continue to reach more people. I've now built a community of over 1,000 followers, and one of the most rewarding things has been hearing from…

I've posted this on my personal blog and worth sharing here too.

It's Father's Day here in the UK.

I'm writing this sat in the garden early in the morning, coffee in hand, listening to the birds singing and enjoying the sunshine before the day properly begins.

Like many dads today, I'll receive a card, probably a gift, and spend time with my family. I'll call in and see my own father, enjoy a family meal, maybe have a beer or two in the garden later, watch some football and reflect on what being a father means.

As parents, we never really see ourselves through our children's eyes.

To our kids, we're often larger than life.

Cross dressers thoughts for any tgirls to post thoughts and spark chatter about why we Crossdress or any topic really

Another Saturday afternoon and evening spent wandering around Cardiff with my wife, doing one of our favourite activities: people watching, then a meal, live music and drinks.

Cardiff was busy, it's always busy this myth that online shopping has stripped city shopping centres of shoppers, ok may be true for some parts of Cardiffs main strip of shops at the Queen Street end but it's always busy with shopper's on a weekend.

The bars and restaurants were also full, shoppers were everywhere, and there seemed to be a noticeable increase in women wearing black fishnet tights / stockings, heels and bright red lipstick.

It didn't take long to work out why.

The Rocky Horror Show was in town.

Suddenly it all made sense.

It’s a strange experience hearing your own words read back to you via Spotify.

But exciting hearing Olivia saying she loved my email .. Although I didn't expect it to feature a whole podcast.

I listened to it again recently on one of my early morning walks and reflected again.

Hearing my email discussed, unpacked, and challenged by two intelligent and fun people like Olivia and Erika on the Weekly Hot Spot - Still makes me think Wow!

It took my truth to another level.

What struck me most listening back wasn’t just that they read my email, it was how deeply they engaged with it.

What happens when the person you thought you knew completely reveals a hidden side of themselves?

Taken from a podcast by Jenny Raven transcribed and described my thoughts in red..

For one woman from a small town in the North of England, that moment came on what started as a completely ordinary Friday night. 

Eight years into a happy marriage, with kids in bed and a takeaway on the table, her husband said the words that would change everything:

“I need to tell you something.”

What followed wasn’t an affair, or a devastating diagnosis — fears that raced through her mind in seconds. Instead, it was something she had never expected: