Ms Krista and I were chatting on Discord and I promised to get up at 01:50 to take part in her podcast.. Shes lovely and understands why some men Crossdress. Her Podcast Kinks & Drinks covers a variety of topics and this one for me I just had to be part of as it was titled Why to men want to be Feminine..

So here's my Crossdresser’s Perspective on Femininity, Escape and Identity plus Ms Krista of Enchantrix Empire.

I found it genuinely interesting. What I particularly enjoyed was hearing some of the myths around crossdressing challenged and, hopefully, seeing some truth emerge about why men actually crossdress.

There probably isn't one single answer.

For some, it may be sexual. For others, it might be identity, expression, curiosity, fashion, relaxation or simply enjoying something society traditionally tells men they shouldn't enjoy.

From Private Escape to Positive Conversation: What Crossdressing Has Taught Me

Over the last few weeks, something rather unexpected has happened.

I've been writing more openly about crossdressing on X, sharing thoughts about my own experiences, relationships, acceptance, stress, femininity, masculinity and the strange but wonderful escape that being Davina gives me.

And the response has been incredible.

My X following has now grown to over 1,000 followers.

For an account built around something that many people still keep deeply private, I'm genuinely proud of that.

Some never come out and live a life in hiding their crossdressing from the world.

However this is assuming you want to come out to someone..

It’s a question that comes up time and time again: when is the right time to tell someone you crossdress?

The last post I placed here on coming out Michelle suggested that we should be open and honest early on.

It’s a valid perspective, there's no right and wrong, but like most things in this space, it’s not that simple for everyone - What suits one relationship won't suit others.

There is no universal “right time” and it can cause a lot of angst and worry - The what if scenarios are like a tornado what if she rejects me, what if she leaves me..

A place to chat, debate, ask questions get advice from Wives, Girlfriends and men who Crossdress looking at the many reasons, worries, angst, fun, joy and escapism of why we Crossdress