Over the years, I’ve spoken to countless crossdressers and partners.
One thing that stands out is how varied our experiences are.
For some, crossdressing begins as a hobby—a playful escape, a bit of fun with fabrics and fantasy.
For others, it becomes something deeper: a need.
It offers peace, relief, or a way to process emotions. And for a few, it forms part of a core identity, almost like meeting your real self in the mirror.
I personally find it shifts over time.
What began as a secret thrill evolved into a sanctuary—a place I feel grounded.
So… where do you fit?
Has it changed for you?
Is it fixed or fluid?
From my point of view, it’s difficult to say. I’ve tried over the years to work out what and why I do it, but can’t really pin it down. The closest I come to is “answer d”… all of the above 😁