By: Katie
Subject: Skin suits and control
Just flicking back through the posts and a couple of interesting points raised.
Sindy asked whether a female skin suit would do it for a crossdresser. From a personal point of view I would say no. It's always been about the feeling of the clothes against my skin. If you put a layer a silicon in the way then you can't feel anything so what's the points. I'm guessing it'd be like wearing a flesh coloured wetsuit! I enjoy scuba diving but when you're out the water you can soon heat up - imagine starting to get hot and sweaty in a rubber suit. Not for me. I did watch a programme called 'Living Dolls' with my wife. She can accept the crossdressing but not the skin suit.
Emma made a point about when she helps her husband crossdress she feels in control. I'm guessing she knows when he doing it, what he's wearing and how he looks. Do other like that control and does it make it easier?
By: Emma RG
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Skin suits and control
Nothing Kinky going on with our crossdressing girls nights in although he would like it to get kinky if you know what I mean but I've not been drunk enough to let him so far lol.
By: Emma RG
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Skin suits and control
OMG Skin suit silence of the lambs omg freaky
My other half does not do this it's his own skin and makeup and clothing etc.
He still dresses alone working from home and occasionally when we're together like we've had a few nice girls nights in which have been very enjoyable.
I don't control his crossdressing
I think masking is a bit freaky too very Friday 13th
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Re: Skin suits and control
It's called 'Female masking' as far as I can make out. If you google it you'll find out more! I guess that there are some similarities to crossdressing in the whole escapism thing but I'm not sure that all female maskers would have started as crossdressers.
I wasn't thinking control as in laying out the clothes on the bed and saying you can wear these until 9 o'clock. Probably more of the 'subtle' control - you'd look better int this or if you wanted to dress up tonight I wouldn't mind.
By: Sindy
Subject: Re: Skin suits and control
I figured the skin suit was different...and I didn't even know they literally existed. I was thinking of the guy in Silence of the Lambs lol. Wow! I wonder what skin suit wearing is called as a pastime for its clearly not crossdressing, it's...crossbodymorphing. I just made up a new word!
And I don't want any involvement in my husband's cross dressing anymore as he tried to give me control and it backfired and made me feel like I had an extra child asking for permission etc. Couldn't handle it. Emma has a different scenario going I think though...it's a little more 'kinky' if I'm reading between the lines right. I might be wrong but that sort of subtle 'control' would be more fun if you're into it and having fun, and far more than a man asking outright for permission to crossdress and what he's allowed to wear etc. To me, that's annoying.
I hope the other ladies answer as they're far more evolved than me with all this. I'm an old fuddy duddy mom I guess lol. Still get a lot out of reading/posting here and antagonizing you all with my questions. x