By: Katie

Subject: Spotting a crossdresser in his natural environment

Quite often it is easy enough to spot a crossdresser out whilst dressed as a woman. Size, shape, hand etc. There are some crossdressers who can pass really well but I think that maybe they are in the minority. You don't always spot them or say 'Are they a man or a woman'.

What is harder to spot is the closet crossdresser in his male mode. I read comments about nobody ever being able to guess he was a crossdresser or that if he told them he'd think he was joking. I know when my wife found out she said it was probably the last thing she would have guessed about me.

On the basis 8-10% (assumed) of the male population crossdress in some way or another it means that there are many more of us around that are obvious. As I said before the chances are you know another crossdresser amongst your male friends.

In a premier league football stadium there are going to be potentially a couple of thousand crossdressers. If it's a big pub / restaurant the chances are there is going to be another one in there.

I often wonder who that might be.

Sometimes whilst browsing the women wear section I wonder how many of the men in there are actually shopping for themselves! I know that I will always try not to be too interested which is the typical male mode. So who else is feigning disinterest?

I think that the chances of finding out who is a crossdresser and who is not are pretty slim. They're not easily spotted. So unless a crossdresser is either out and about or makes fundamental error they are never going to be outed. We're all pretty expert at covert operations (spy names) and we put a lot of trust and faith in our wives and partners who share our secret.

I think the point I'm trying to make is that some of the fear that we have are unfounded and that unless we decide to announce it otherwise nobody else is ever going to find out that we are crossdressers. And of they do they probably won't believe us lol.