First time dressed since MAy 2023 and i feel so chilled out and relaxed its indescribable.. A chance opportunity taken for a few hours this evening and stress busting escapism as a t-girl has worked again..
I'm very well and rested after being on holiday for 3 weeks.
It's so nice to get back to being able to dress again. Sorry - I know that must irritate those of you who aren't finding the opportunity at the moment.
Had an hour dressed today.. house to myself garantee for the first time since March I was busy with work but thought sod it I'm showering shaving and dressing.. I only dressed for an hour as so much work to get on with but no e to be dressed for a bit.. can still do makeup.. tried a green dress of Esmes on. May dress the next few days make the most if it although being dressed working from home is better than nothing it's a bit meh.
Glad you managed some time - occasionally a quick session can still be great escapism. How long does it take you to get make up done - for me it’s nearly 90mins! So defo need a gap of at least 3.5 hours to leave 30mins for removal and tidy up.
One child just finished exams and secondary school and off to college near by in September and one now off on summer holidays until September so dressing working from home is now impossible.
September may give some opportunity to dress but the local college is a short walk away and oldest could pop back any time between lectures.
I need to grab whatever opportunity I have for my fix.
Really missing my escapism time ..
Missing putting on makeup transforming male to fem, the wig, lingerie, hosiery and heels and nice dresses and how it makes me feel and stress level is ridiculous.
Need to get my arse in gear and up and out every morning again as was doing so well with diet and exercise but put what in lost back on..because of work work work..
Need a control for my metabolism and a drive to lose weight again.
How do I find time to be Davina.. "She's" not gone away but there is no time let alone quality time for Cross dressing and chilling out as a T-Girl.
Others tell me it will have to be away from home, t girl events or just book time away to be dressed which adds expense..
So that's me currently a workaholic and a lil depressed.. Groundhog day.
Hi all, how is everyone? I've botnhad opportunity to unwind and escape male me since mid May 😵 with work manic and a club I help run in part of the year where its admin intensive so like having two hobs at the moment.
My oldest had prom last night makeup done dress the lot probably 150 all slammed up in prom dresses heels and makeup.. I wonder out of an equal number of boys how many were secretly thinking I wish I could do that lol.
So here's me checking in turned back into a workaholic, need to get back out walking first thing and get my diet back on track and work our a way to get myself some quality time where I can transform for a few hours.. Still not figured out how yet 🤔 but I am interested in whatever makeup tips Esme picked up from our oldest getting her makeup done 😄
Enjoyed a full day dressed yesterday. Went to national space centre in Leicester then called to get something to eat on way home before getting changed back to male mode in car
Enjoyed a few hours dressed Wednesday so much just relaxed in a red n black dress i vowed to dress Thursday and friday too given lack of video meetings planned, parents away and boss on annual leave so no surprises but thursday and friday turned out to be packed with work and video calls so just the one day dressed this week...
How will i manage this when my oldest finishes school in May then summer hols and then local college in walking distance.. no working from home home alone as Davina ... Need a plan.
Look at me in my new red and black dress and glasses .. And in at #39 to the Top babes of TVchix Davina Legsssssss... Its a long way back to that number one spot I held for 2 months back in Jan and Feb 2021.. 😂 Nice for the ego..
Hey everyone!! Is there anyone still on the Forum or have all your problems and queries been answered and you've left me all alone?Rainy Sunday what better to do than to go round shops with your wife and kids seeing things you'd love to buy for Davina lol.I managed to dress weds week before last and last Monday for a few hours and may dress working from home tomorrow as its half term the week after.Hoping everyone is doing OK and getting some fem time cross dressed.. Davina
Miss some of the wives and girlfriends chatter in here not heard from Emma or Hannah for a while and a few others who would tell me publically or privately to stop working silly hours and make time to dress and chill.I've worked hard the last Month and a bit too hard and got things done and made progress in work for the better only to find out work due to covid and government instruction and restructure is forcing redundancies .. So much for levelling up a 3rd year of no pay rise nor the bonus which was part of what attracted me to the job and part of my pay deal.. Yet still required to hit a high level at performance review for zero reward.. I'm knackered today my brain just wants to rest as next week is just as hectic and if I'm not careful I'll burn myself out.And amid all this diet and exercise in 4 weeks 11lb gone but still feel the effects of covid..The last 2 weeks all I've thought of is I need to dress, put on makeup and just chill.. Only opportunity video meeting free was Wednesday and I dressed but so much on in work hard to chill and enjoy being dressed so was only "Davina" for 2-3 hours and changed back.. My oldest declared she's got 2 months left in school and then free until college which will bring an end to dressing working from home.. For a few years and by the time she's finished college the next one will be approaching the same stage in life so I'm going to have to figure out how I balance work and life and other things I'm responsible for with my need and it is a need to cross dress.. It has become something to balance my mental health and being a bloke I hide my stress and tension and angst and sometimes depression from the world.. I need some quality time as Davina and a plan for the future and need to take my foot off the gas in work. So that's me at the moment..Hoping everyone else feels in a better place.
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Sep 18, 2021
I have to agree with you on this! Whilst my wife and I are still feeling our way forward we have come to some compromises. The other night we had the house to ourselves and I raised the subject of dressing. After the last "wobble" she is not really ready to be around me when dressed, but knows I need to! We agreed I would dress in the bedroom, and this I did, but no makeup or wig (she has not seen me in wig and make up yet) and I spent a couple of hours watching a film and relaxing. After a bit I was dying for a drink but did not want to go downstairs to get one! In the end I changed into my bed shorts and T shirt, went downstairs and we sat and watched a programme we wanted to watch together. When I told her I was gasping for a drink she said "I did wonder if you wanted a coffee but did not want to disturb you". She also asked what I had been wearing and I told her a blouse and skirt, and said I was getting lonely with no-one to speak to! I hope that the next time she will have a coffee with me and we can be a bit more relaxed together. The time I spent dressed made a significant difference to my stress levels (the job is stressful, working for two conflicting line managers) and I felt a lot better. Once she is happy with me dressing and becomes a bit more relaxed then I would like to start wearing a wig and make up but only if she is comfortable with it.
Step by step .. Very similar to what we did It took 8 years for Esme to meet me as Davina but was a eureka moment for us both and developed further from there.Emma on here on the other hand the wife of a tgirl took this advice by the balls so to speak and met her husband dressed in a matter of months and found that eureka moment but each couple is different and sou D's like you're on the right track 👍
16/09/21 First time dressed since June.. I've just added a post in Crossdressers thoughts about it as it felt so beneficial to my health and wellbeing as i was on the slippery slopes of work stress.
What an amazing feeling it was to be dressed again fully made up wig stockings heels and fitting in a dress that last time i tried on i couldn't get into.
If you get opportunity girls especially after a long time no dressing don't let the doubt and the feeling of sod it I won't dress cloud your judgement do it its worth every minute of inexplicable stress-busting escapism.
I think like lots here this site has helped Tgirls and partners so much like a breath of fresh air in a google world of why does my husband cross dress.
I think lots of tgirls and wives have come here some read and some comment but most find what they want satisfy themselves and move on.
I've had a quick read through some of the posts and see there are some new tgirls here and one or two new wives since I was here last.
Hoping everyone is OK. We're still having fun with crossdreasing and have been quite bold going out especially now nights are darker earlier for a drive and a walj somewhere with him dressed for some fresh air and the thrill of being out cross dressed for him. Always so nervous leaving the house which I find quite powerful to see him panic a bit in case he's seen.
Thanks for the message and nice to see you back posting Em x
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Aug 27, 2021
I know the feeling! Apart from a brief 20 minutes as Sarah I have not dressed for weeks. This weekend should have been an opportunity as both kids out but what my wife does not know is that my oldest daughter is coming home from uni for a week, starting tonight. It is hard enough to find time when two kids are out of the house let alone 3! However, it does mean I can spend time with my daughter and wife as again she does not know I have next week off work!
I've had a bit if a change following a request ... the forum should show latest posts and also categories which i hope will make it easier to find info on the Forum.
Not dressed since June and despite a week away fairly stressed out and head shot in work and really looking forward to unwinding as Davina in 2-3 weeks time working from home avoiding work video calls as Davina lol
Myself and Esme haven't had a girls night in for a long time due to Covid and in the mean time they've grown up 18 months.In those 18 months they're now of an age where we can pop out and leave them home so they will challenge us with we don't need to go and stay at baby sitters any more so that's our girls night in at home gone for the foreseeable.
Same here for me and Chelle her son lives with us and works odd shifts so we never know when going to come home. Then at weekend he has his daughter so no chance then either
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Aug 06, 2021
Since my wife found out about Sarah we have had a number of nights where I was able to dress, I have been able to buy a couple of dresses (one of which was awful so returned it!) and it makes a huge difference knowing I can discuss some things with her and she is not going to find things I have hidden. At the moment the only time I can dress is when both kids are in work, which is very limiting but I have agreed to one thing. We alternate between one night where we have a night for us (I massage her feet, we sit and watch something together and have a meal) and one night for "Sarah" where I dress.
Everyone OK?Kids off for Summer hols so no dressing and work is full on to the point where I can't even see a gap in my diary where I can take a few days off with the kids.We do have a week booked off Camping soon and can't wait as need a stress release .. Counting Down to September before Davina can make an appearance working from home. Hope you're all getting some escapism time.
Lol my wife was dodgy 🤣 Chinese phone strikes again.. WiFi!!
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Jun 12, 2021
You might want to edit that first sentence! We have only just gone onto Teams, they tried Skype but it does not work for us, seeing colleagues in the flesh can be a bit disconcerting, I feel like saying "get a shave and put something half decent on" and the men are not much better.
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Jun 11, 2021
Funny enough are lot are very PC, so if I did "come out" nobody would dare say anything! However we do a lot of meetings on Teams, and it is expected we have cams on (they supply very good kit) and with teenagers in the house it would be impossible to hide away, so I do envy you. What I have noticed is the amount of men who now they are working from home slip into the "unshaven slob" mode with tatty T-shirts and jeans on they would not have worn in the office! Most of the ladies though have managed to maintain standards!
WE're on Teams too but my wife was genuinely dodgy today they couldn't hear me speak so had to type my messages I could have rebooted the laptop I suppose but was happy I'd got my makeup very good and my fav dress on chilling.. Actually worked on another project on the other screen as they waffled away on the laptop screen I could see all them and a pic of me instead of video.. a bit surreal lol.
Tape over web cam again today my team had a team brief my WiFi playing up gave excellent excuse not to have my web cam on and tape on just in case and had another 3 and a half hours as Davina nice and chilled out working as they babbled on in the team meeting.. If only they knew I'd have to take out my diversity and inclusion card 🤣
Dressed today yay only 2-3 hours but felt nice and gave me a bit of escapism.. Esme let me borrow a dress and I may grab a few hours dressed tomorrow too.. With tape over the work webcam.
Checking in still here from time to time..Work has been hectic last 2 months I've worked silly hours and not made any time to dress more than the once since Easter with the kids back in school ... Opportunity at home but constant work meetings on video calls. In that time work work work stress high and diet out the window need to lose some weight so back at it again up early and out from today walking or running and diet..Really have the urge to shave and get made up and dress working from home.. Thursday maybe best opportunity. Hope everyone is OK and finding some normality resuming. Davina
So today should have seen both back in school and right now i'd be running a bath (I am actually) and preparing to shave and get myself ready to transform with makeup, wig, hosiery heels lingerie and a nice dress and chill working as Davina for a few hours avoiding the work web cam.. Alas my oldest had a problem with an abcess which she had to have an operation in hospital to remove and is now living with a packed open wound to recover from which worries me a lot.I can't wait for the nurse time tell us its healed well and closed up.So that's a few more weeks not dressed for me on the cards at least past Easter.Work stress levels are one thing but when your kids have an op and have to go through this sort of healing process is another thing altogether.So no Davina for at least another month. I'll have missed 1/4 year probably before I can dress and unwind and no idea when we'll ever have a girls night in or out.
My parents had both jabs they're not intending to mix.The plan is still wait for the late spring and into summer and meet in the garden and outdoors.All we're doing mixing is shopping and with mask and keeping distance. It will be typical if the kids go back to school next week and bring covid home from some selfish family.I'll be livid
We noticed on the way back front an early morning 8 mike walk church car parks full and people in church.. That's not allowed but guessing people have had jabs and think it safe..
Have told you off about work Davina and now you're even working weekends for free and with no bonus or overtime and a two year pay freeze jeez you're a sucker!
Get what you need to get done done then start working your flat hours and look after yourself.
Now that's off my chest how is everyone good i hope.
Hes had a stressful week in work he even had an argument with someone on a Teams call raising his voice unusual for him so sat next to me now dressed chilling with a gin.
I see more yellow weather warnings on the way just what we need for the weekend to keep us locked indoors but a Mersey Derby and Wales v England to entertain us this weekend in the rugby I'm sure we'll see some posts here,
Evening all another busy work week rushed by and i think 11 weeks since i last dressed work is hyper busy and even though we've been told there's no pay rise probably for the next 2 years and bye bye to our performance related bonus stupidly i will be getting up early tomorrow and try to get a project finished so i can get on with other things i need to work on.
Hope everyone is ok .. maybe have the little one back in school 15th march if safe to do so but no idea of when the older one is going back.. worried about both their educations and mental health.
Hi sorry Davina we had a girly night also last night as he's had a stressful working week and i could tell so did my usual ran him a bath with instruction to shave and put things out on the bed for him to wear and he spent the night en fem and chilled out with wine and a film.
You're right i do need to step foot off the gas working silly hours seeing as they've announced due to the pandemic there's no pay rise or bonus this year.
Checking in still top babe in TV Chix Hannah and my score has accelerated me away from 2nd place and my chix mail inundated with messengers.. I'm all work work work.. I've got some control of things I'm doing ans some people o the run at the moment so striking whilst the iron is hot to solve problems and some quick wins and keep my status as the best in my field putting untold pressure on myself living on the stress of it which is dangerous times as this sort of stress and workload although driving me its driving my alpha side more than my fem side and even if i could when it gets this heightened i'd put off dressing in favour of getting work done..
Struggled to sleep last night and up wide away 0530 by 0615 i was on the work laptop catching up and emailing sad isn't it..
Lockdown sucks we're staying in working and weekends are so boring with trying to stay away from people. Tomorrow we're planning a walk up the mountain it will probably bucket down then there's Wales in the 6 nations, Liverpool v Man City and The Superbowl and knackered next week after staying up till 2 watching it.
Today has been boring took my mam for her covid jab then home and a quick stint on the xbox with youngest then gcse maths with the oldest for an hour showing her the bits her maths teacher skipped over in this on line tutorial.. this this and that then we get his and then that hang on how dis he get to that from this.. he missed a step that's poor teaching right there and think she learnt more form me and in hour about transposing formulae than hes taught her since spetember.
And thats me set to have a bath then watch westworld series 2 as Esme has the con and its crapolo tv on a Saturday night in her planner.
Most people seem to have fallen into work work work from home then collapse at the weekend.
Nice to read of some of you guys getting to dress and escape and unwind my husband is lucky in this regard too but feel for you girls who cant dress and even more for the girls whos wives have no idea and you're keeping it your deep deep secret must be frustrating.
January did fly didn't it and I'm so engrossed in work at the moment it's unhealthy and no unwinding crossdressing and the other thing is I'm missing alone time for me and Esme .. not had a husband and wife date for 12 months alone and then there's the bit of the other lacking as never alone.
P S Just read up and oh my Davina you made it to the top babe on TV chix i remember these polls you've done well and it sticks two fingers upto the stuck up girls who got you suspended from the site.
I've seen you dressed on cam so know you look passable and do a good job with your makeup so would vouch for you if we were still on tvchix.
I've got 300+ notifications of updates it's been busy in here and new topics I'm not even part of yet.
Husband had a frustrating week in work so I said to him we don't need to go out on the weekend and we have a yellow weather warning all weekend sweeping over us so let him get up Saturday shower shave and dress and he'll get up today and put his man clothes on after having all weekend fem. It was fun and I find he does more to help round the house when hes dressed but he has found out it's nice to take the bra off at the end of the day.
Sorry if that makes you jealous Davina I'm sure it won't be much longer and you and the other girls get to dress again.
A whole weekend dressed.. Would I warnt to try that? At the moment I'd settle for a few hours to dress and unwind. I guess it would be a nice experiment to spend the whole weekend end fem no male things at all.I wonder how the @lena_deepditch and @mrs_deepditch are getting on.
My sister said another friend volunteers in hospital. Her job is to hand out boxes of possession to the families of deceased parents. They're piling up. If these people were made to face people in the covid wards and speak to deceased peoples relatives I'm sure they'd soon change their minds. She also had a patient in one of the ward. New patient - quite young. He tested positive. Ward sister had been chatting to him earlier outside his door. Had a funny feeling something was up. Went back down to his room and he was fitting on the floor. Went into a coma. Now in hospital and still in coma.
I've lost 5 friends to Covid. I was told on twitter that statistically I cannot know 5 people who passed away with covid.A level of denial is still there.Kids at my childrens schools are still having sleepovers and they want to reopen schools with irresponsible parents and ignorant kids. It will spread again.My Dad had his first jab yesterday my mother's in next Saturday hope they get their 2nd pronto after but they will still isolate and stay away from other people.Me and Esme will probably get our first in the summer and second next autumn.Why the mass vaccination and lockdown if this is a big hoax. I hate these covid deniers.
Not that good really. Bad nights sleep. Knackered. Had a chat with my sister earlier. She works at a mental health hospital. Said loads of new patients in with breakdowns because of the lockdown 🙁
Im actually arguing with a covid denier now on Twitter.Apparently this is just flu and all a conspiracy.. This guys going about his business and mixing with others and "hasn't had it" and "doesn't know anyone affected by it" so its "not real"This ridiculous attitude is keeping us all locked down and mental health of the nation must be shocking.
53 days since I dressed last.. January 2020 through to September 2020 was bad and then September through to start of December was more bearable but impossible to dress but i didn't expect not to so far have had opportunity to unwind in 2021 so far.
It's hard to explain to Esme I need to dress the urge this time is huge for some reason, crossdressing constantly on my mind, work really exhausting my brain and weekends we cant do anything apart from go for a walk somewhere and with the rain and horrible weather its a nightmare.
My mental health is certainly affected its all work work work and play is out the window in terms of escapism with dressing and doing things we like to do.. look forward to the weekend all week then weekend comes and its boring and im already thinking of next weeks work and workload..
I've been playing Star Wars Battle front 2 on Xbox and really enjoying, re-watching the Mandolorian, There's the Masters darts only watching as two Welshmen doing well .. Price in the Semis and Clayton on a come back now i hope to get there too fingers crossed hes 7 6 down at the moment and then Liverpool v West Ham please let Liverpool take 3 points but seen the team no Mane and Bobby not starting so it will be a struggle.. time for Origi to come out of his shell and pepper the West Ham goal.
Everyone is struggling we've had a few slagging matches here between me and Esme who's mental health is also crap and with the kids over school and silly arguments over nothing everyone on edge and fed up of lockdown.
A session dressed would do me wonders but no hope.
Another groundhog day. Worked till 1830 last night having started 0730 on what's supposed to be a 7 hour day.. Work work work.. You know when you're an expert in your field and someone questions you or goes behind your back to get a piece of work done which you've told them is a no go at the moment and that rage that boils up which face to face you show in your eyes well I'm actually missing that part of the job. Some have added Darth to my first name in work such is my Alpha maleness and character for getting things done. But im fair and open minded and like to lead a team as US not me and them but do have this darker side if I'm let down or if someone opposes me when I know I'm right about the now and the future.. Working from home is nice but you do sometimes need that face to face 'listen here matey boy I'm telling you now what the risks are and you put your name to it and when it goes wrong don't drag me into sorting the mess out or going to court".. So much going on in work at the moment and my time is central tonits sucess not just here but across the UK and in lockdown groundhog day I will admit here my mental health isn't 100% noones is top notch I know but it doesn't help when ones sports teams who you look forward to watching lose either.. Need some positive news and some positivity around this virus soon.
And I need to ease off work but there is so much to do.. Filled in my tax return yesterday it doesn't sometimes pay to move up the pay ladder and progress your career when you have kids. The tax return estimate another kick in the teeth.
Got to take another lump sum hit and will make ourselves £250 worse off per year by cancelling child allowance but can't afford to pay this big lump back every year.
Money always worries me.
No hope of escapism as Davina jealous yesterday seeing Esme in my mustard dress.. Love that dress, its the one I bought and wore out in London.
Sorry for my downer here but I'm feeling a bit fed up at the moment, hope everyone else is OK.
Check it out Hannah I made Number One. Hope it attracts more Tgirls and wives and girlfriends here. Mad seeing they kicked me off the site 8 months ago asking me to prove my photos were me.
Forgot to say your blogs the number 18 in the world still in top 20 and you're stopped blogging on it
We've popped back on tvchix but the usual read a few forums and the same old t girls ruling the roost and couldnt find any of the old girls we chatted to but looked up a few from this forum in chix some nice pics of some of the members,
We're ok here avoiding going anywhere, have followed the other Couple here and I've allowed him to dress all week working from home and he's been so relaxed and even eager to switch his computer off on time and get some housework done and cook dinner.
Something to this letting them dress that makes them want to serve us.
Hope you get some Davina time soon Davina after all you are number 2 in the TV chix chart.
He looged in to the old profile as not been in for ages and there you are one place off top spot. I told you when we chatted on Skype you made for a good looking woman. 😘
Seems the site got lively for a bit but then gone quiet again people have busy lives despite the lockdown i suppose.
Frustrated not being able to dress and yes number 2 in the charts i guess i did a good job with my makeup 2nd week of December and used the bathroom spotlights for good lighting a nice pic and seems people agree and have given it a lot of votes plus i hope they think I'm a nice "girl"
This lockdown seems to be going on and on and the UK strain is now spreading fast and we're told a worse mutation with a higher mortality rate. I'm fed up of hearing people say they think the Government has done a good job on protecting the UK as I think they've acted late and not taken the scientific advice when given on time as they call it "Dither and Delay" has cost lives.
We've stuck to the rules throughout and dodged the virus although it's come close and we've lost friends and know quite a few friends who have had Covid. Its certainly hit my work colleagues across Wales and further a field leaving it to companies and industry to set up "covid safe" but complacency is hard to guard against.
Worried about the kids education with one doing well in school but a year and a half away from GCSEs is she getting enough teaching to ready herself and the other has missed 6 months of year 5 and now looks set to miss almost all of year 6 before heading onto secondary education, we have no idea what levels shes achieving and if she's ready for secondary school in September with the prep for this next step ruined by this virus and lockdowns and can only hope she takes to the teaching when they get back to school..
Work is ongoing and seems endless video calls, meetings and forums and is pretty full on.. I can't keep up there's so much to do and deadlines to meet and of course that adds stress along with the groundhog day of working from home and not being able to go anywhere and do anything.. I said to Esme last night another boring Friday wouldn't it be nice to go to the Cinema or the pub, out for a meal, go bowling..
We have to suck it up and crack on in this lockdown and we're coping but under the surface i expect its not just me but everyone is suffering with their mental health to some extent.
Some here I know have their crossdressing outlet and some of us don't and the craving when you can dress but decide not to is one thing but the urge to want to dress not just to unwind and escape the lockdown blues is on my mind daily at the moment. I last dressed 2nd week of December for a few hours 2 days before schools broke up and that was the first time I'd dressed since September when the kids went back to school.
My mind will have to find another outlet and at the moment that's starting a diet this week and as we get lighter mornings and nights will be back out early and after work exercising to loose the winter lbs put on which will help me slink into the dresses i bough from boohoo lol.
This really sucks and we need some normality back.
I hope everyone else is coping ok and hope you're all dodging this virus.
Hi Everyone wow spend a bit of time away and miss 128 notifications.
I must try to be here more in 2021.
So checking in and saying Hi and catching up here.
Good pins Davina no not your legs although they're great I mean the kubler ross curve post, new member hi and the what the forum is about maybe edit your home page a bit to explain at the first glance.
I'll add my support to what you've added as I agree this is a safe space for tgirls and wives.
I have told my other half he can join the forum so we'll see what he has to say about all this also at long last if and when he comes here although he reads what i add here and is in a good place with his crossdressing.
Right, i've had a read of latest posts just thought Id say hi here first i'll add some comments to other posts.
Nice weekend a bit if Xmas shopping masked up and hand gelled every opportunity.Operation Santa will be hard this year to achieve.Today football training was enjoyable and a bit if tidying to, cooked dinner, had a fire out the back burnt a load of old documents.. Played a bit of Xbox with the kids now a bubble bath watching NFL on my Chromebook..Its not a bad weekend.. Oh and went for a walk and social distanced chat with my parents ..Back to working from home tomorrow..
You are a fool Davina take your opportunity to dress you know how it makes you feel and benefits you. Digging yourself a hole with stress Girl! Sort it out work your hours and sod it.
I'm sure Esme will be telling you the same!!
BEhave or i will be forced to get my whip out or lend it to Esme
Covid definitely getting closer to home.. So March about to pull the kids from school when Welsh Gov said schools out for spring and summer.. We had no idea the spread of the virus in schools and yet we pulled .... We let them go back in September testing and tracing still a joke... I'm questioning why?? As now we're seeing school classes and year groups sent home to isolate with my oldest today sent home as they've had one case in their year group and the whole year group needs to isolate for 14 days.. We now have testing and all I'm hearing is upto half the schools in Wales have cases including both my kids schools,
I had friday and monday off mainly to unwind from work and use up leave i should have dressed but didnt I was knackered and work this week is worse so i'd planned shaving tonight and dressing for a few hours tomorrow and wallop a case of covid in school home for 14 days so stress levels up and pissed off with workload etc and my escapism on hold two more weeks.. dressed twice since september.. work work work work work and video calls plus kids off and no escapism oh and thrown in sciatica for the last week making me feel crap.. mental health is pretty shit.
We're stuck like this due to a rubbish government and people who just dont care as covid wont affect them but they help spread it.. So thats me at the moment pretty fed up.
Making me jealous you two with your girly nights ... Me and Esme not had a girly night in since 2019 probably this time last yearWe havent had a date night since January where we've been out just the two of us and our London trip out as Girls was 2 years back.I may dress Monday a hectic work week kids back in school after Wales lockdown and I have the following Friday and Monday off I may even have a day dressed Friday and a sort out of dresses Esme will be working so a kinda girls day lol.
I expect fireworks to go on all weekend then no excuses for them until new year.Oh to have a girls night in.. I've been to late some nights binge watching a series till 0130 in the morning and thought everyone is asleep I could be dressed now and what's more its pitch black out I could pop out as Davina for a thrill lol.2020 has been a crap year for a lot of t girls. At least some of us are lucky with accepting wives and can get some time dressed.I so are a thought for t girls in the closet too scared to tell wives who havebt dressed at all in 2020.
9 more days Hannah and hope its bought a 14 day window and hope people in Wales stick to the wash hands, stay 2m apart, meet outdoors, wear a mask etc. Commented on another post about UK Chat I've chatted there too when bored.
Another rubbish half term wet and windy aside from that we're ok he can't dress with the kids off both booked time off with them and they cant be bothered to get off the xbox to do anything with us.
Went in the shed got the kids wet weather gear out you think they can be bothered to go out do anything i might as well have worked today and not wasted a day off work.
Awww Emma a pity i think as might have got it out in the open
Week off work here lots of walking but the weather could be better - no chance of dressing with the kids off
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Hi everyone, I hope everyone is well, still sneaking in a little dressing for an hour or so after my wife goes to bed. Nothing happened or said after her discovery a few months ago.
You're in lockdown Emma from Tuesday and you're in lockdown anyway and hope no symptoms and youre only locked down as a precaution but saw on the news today your area has a much higher cases per 100k than we do and we locked down at half your rate.
This is a right mess isnt it. I can see us going full uk lockdown again before this is over.
No rules on masks in wales in shops were the only family walking round wearing them.So we are protecting others from a virus we've not got others despite welsh gov rules are for too relaxed.OK here apart from no dressing since Feb.Davina
OK here both still trying our best to socially distance not been to the pub have been shopping now shops open with our masks. Hope no ones been effected by this virus.
Hi all Covid check in we're both OK we had a girly night last night and a bit worse for the weather today glad the weathers been so poor from a dress up night all glamour and makeup to a PJ day
Home his job will be OK, I'd hate to be on furlough and worrying about losing my job.But he's lucky hes got an accepting wife and can dreams in lockdown.I've still not looked at making money chatting on web can lol you'll have to post a user guide what to do.. 🤣 chat on cam as t girls for crossdreasing funds. 😂
Must be so hard for you girls who cant dress feel sorry for you he's been dressing as on furlough and stressed about his job so i've said get up in the morning there's lots to do round the house but if you feel like presenting fem go for it so he's dressed a few times per week and we're still making some money from web cam sites teasing people on came and chat which eases the bordom.
Trying to keep busy as no dressing time. It is on my mind quite a bit so trying not to fall down the rabbit hole of crossdressing as the torment would be too much. I've managed to stay sane!
Glad to hear from you Emma the other wives have abandoned us including Esme.. Hope to cjat soon. Glad you're both safe and your husband has crossdressing opportunities.. Will you allow h a profile yet?
First time dressed since MAy 2023 and i feel so chilled out and relaxed its indescribable.. A chance opportunity taken for a few hours this evening and stress busting escapism as a t-girl has worked again..
Hello... ages since I was last here, I think.
I'm very well and rested after being on holiday for 3 weeks.
It's so nice to get back to being able to dress again. Sorry - I know that must irritate those of you who aren't finding the opportunity at the moment.
Here's my check in.
Frustrated.
No quality time at all in 2023 as Davina.
Stressed work work work and money worries which also leaves me feeling depressed.
Not a good mix.. the mad thing is I know a good session as Davina would help but its impossible to find any quality time.
Hooe others here are getting more time to escape to their fem selves.
OK but like you struggling to find time and space to be Sarah!
Had an hour dressed today.. house to myself garantee for the first time since March I was busy with work but thought sod it I'm showering shaving and dressing.. I only dressed for an hour as so much work to get on with but no e to be dressed for a bit.. can still do makeup.. tried a green dress of Esmes on. May dress the next few days make the most if it although being dressed working from home is better than nothing it's a bit meh.
No Davina time since May..
Work is full on and stressful. .. Very stressful.
One child just finished exams and secondary school and off to college near by in September and one now off on summer holidays until September so dressing working from home is now impossible.
September may give some opportunity to dress but the local college is a short walk away and oldest could pop back any time between lectures.
I need to grab whatever opportunity I have for my fix.
Really missing my escapism time ..
Missing putting on makeup transforming male to fem, the wig, lingerie, hosiery and heels and nice dresses and how it makes me feel and stress level is ridiculous.
Need to get my arse in gear and up and out every morning again as was doing so well with diet and exercise but put what in lost back on..because of work work work..
Need a control for my metabolism and a drive to lose weight again.
How do I find time to be Davina.. "She's" not gone away but there is no time let alone quality time for Cross dressing and chilling out as a T-Girl.
Others tell me it will have to be away from home, t girl events or just book time away to be dressed which adds expense..
So that's me currently a workaholic and a lil depressed.. Groundhog day.
How's everyone else doing?
Davina
Hi all, how is everyone? I've botnhad opportunity to unwind and escape male me since mid May 😵 with work manic and a club I help run in part of the year where its admin intensive so like having two hobs at the moment.
My oldest had prom last night makeup done dress the lot probably 150 all slammed up in prom dresses heels and makeup.. I wonder out of an equal number of boys how many were secretly thinking I wish I could do that lol.
So here's me checking in turned back into a workaholic, need to get back out walking first thing and get my diet back on track and work our a way to get myself some quality time where I can transform for a few hours.. Still not figured out how yet 🤔 but I am interested in whatever makeup tips Esme picked up from our oldest getting her makeup done 😄
How's everyone else doing?
Enjoyed a full day dressed yesterday. Went to national space centre in Leicester then called to get something to eat on way home before getting changed back to male mode in car
Enjoyed a few hours dressed Wednesday so much just relaxed in a red n black dress i vowed to dress Thursday and friday too given lack of video meetings planned, parents away and boss on annual leave so no surprises but thursday and friday turned out to be packed with work and video calls so just the one day dressed this week...
How will i manage this when my oldest finishes school in May then summer hols and then local college in walking distance.. no working from home home alone as Davina ... Need a plan.
Look at me in my new red and black dress and glasses .. And in at #39 to the Top babes of TVchix Davina Legsssssss... Its a long way back to that number one spot I held for 2 months back in Jan and Feb 2021.. 😂 Nice for the ego..
All good here too.
We are venturing out each month to Pink Punters BNO.
It was great this month as we met up with some girls that I have been chatting to on Chix.
About time you ventured out with Esme, Davina!
We still here. Both myself and Chelle went to Leicester to the national space centre last Saturday. Even went as Rachel had wonderful day
Hey everyone!! Is there anyone still on the Forum or have all your problems and queries been answered and you've left me all alone? Rainy Sunday what better to do than to go round shops with your wife and kids seeing things you'd love to buy for Davina lol. I managed to dress weds week before last and last Monday for a few hours and may dress working from home tomorrow as its half term the week after. Hoping everyone is doing OK and getting some fem time cross dressed.. Davina
Shame the window of opportunity to dress will be very small. Maybe a holiday is needed.
Miss some of the wives and girlfriends chatter in here not heard from Emma or Hannah for a while and a few others who would tell me publically or privately to stop working silly hours and make time to dress and chill. I've worked hard the last Month and a bit too hard and got things done and made progress in work for the better only to find out work due to covid and government instruction and restructure is forcing redundancies .. So much for levelling up a 3rd year of no pay rise nor the bonus which was part of what attracted me to the job and part of my pay deal.. Yet still required to hit a high level at performance review for zero reward.. I'm knackered today my brain just wants to rest as next week is just as hectic and if I'm not careful I'll burn myself out. And amid all this diet and exercise in 4 weeks 11lb gone but still feel the effects of covid.. The last 2 weeks all I've thought of is I need to dress, put on makeup and just chill.. Only opportunity video meeting free was Wednesday and I dressed but so much on in work hard to chill and enjoy being dressed so was only "Davina" for 2-3 hours and changed back.. My oldest declared she's got 2 months left in school and then free until college which will bring an end to dressing working from home.. For a few years and by the time she's finished college the next one will be approaching the same stage in life so I'm going to have to figure out how I balance work and life and other things I'm responsible for with my need and it is a need to cross dress.. It has become something to balance my mental health and being a bloke I hide my stress and tension and angst and sometimes depression from the world.. I need some quality time as Davina and a plan for the future and need to take my foot off the gas in work. So that's me at the moment.. Hoping everyone else feels in a better place.
I have to agree with you on this! Whilst my wife and I are still feeling our way forward we have come to some compromises. The other night we had the house to ourselves and I raised the subject of dressing. After the last "wobble" she is not really ready to be around me when dressed, but knows I need to! We agreed I would dress in the bedroom, and this I did, but no makeup or wig (she has not seen me in wig and make up yet) and I spent a couple of hours watching a film and relaxing. After a bit I was dying for a drink but did not want to go downstairs to get one! In the end I changed into my bed shorts and T shirt, went downstairs and we sat and watched a programme we wanted to watch together. When I told her I was gasping for a drink she said "I did wonder if you wanted a coffee but did not want to disturb you". She also asked what I had been wearing and I told her a blouse and skirt, and said I was getting lonely with no-one to speak to! I hope that the next time she will have a coffee with me and we can be a bit more relaxed together. The time I spent dressed made a significant difference to my stress levels (the job is stressful, working for two conflicting line managers) and I felt a lot better. Once she is happy with me dressing and becomes a bit more relaxed then I would like to start wearing a wig and make up but only if she is comfortable with it.
16/09/21 First time dressed since June.. I've just added a post in Crossdressers thoughts about it as it felt so beneficial to my health and wellbeing as i was on the slippery slopes of work stress.
What an amazing feeling it was to be dressed again fully made up wig stockings heels and fitting in a dress that last time i tried on i couldn't get into.
If you get opportunity girls especially after a long time no dressing don't let the doubt and the feeling of sod it I won't dress cloud your judgement do it its worth every minute of inexplicable stress-busting escapism.
Hoping everyone is ok
Davina
I think it shows new posts at the bottom.. No idea if I can get each category to flag new posts but will see what I can do.
I am happy with the new format but one thing, is it possible for each category to show if there are new posts?
Hi, I've not been on for ages.
Davina I've messaged you separately.
I think like lots here this site has helped Tgirls and partners so much like a breath of fresh air in a google world of why does my husband cross dress.
I think lots of tgirls and wives have come here some read and some comment but most find what they want satisfy themselves and move on.
I've had a quick read through some of the posts and see there are some new tgirls here and one or two new wives since I was here last.
Hoping everyone is OK. We're still having fun with crossdreasing and have been quite bold going out especially now nights are darker earlier for a drive and a walj somewhere with him dressed for some fresh air and the thrill of being out cross dressed for him. Always so nervous leaving the house which I find quite powerful to see him panic a bit in case he's seen.
Emma (wife)
I know the feeling! Apart from a brief 20 minutes as Sarah I have not dressed for weeks. This weekend should have been an opportunity as both kids out but what my wife does not know is that my oldest daughter is coming home from uni for a week, starting tonight. It is hard enough to find time when two kids are out of the house let alone 3! However, it does mean I can spend time with my daughter and wife as again she does not know I have next week off work!
Everyone ok?
I've had a bit if a change following a request ... the forum should show latest posts and also categories which i hope will make it easier to find info on the Forum.
Not dressed since June and despite a week away fairly stressed out and head shot in work and really looking forward to unwinding as Davina in 2-3 weeks time working from home avoiding work video calls as Davina lol
Myself and Esme haven't had a girls night in for a long time due to Covid and in the mean time they've grown up 18 months. In those 18 months they're now of an age where we can pop out and leave them home so they will challenge us with we don't need to go and stay at baby sitters any more so that's our girls night in at home gone for the foreseeable.
Since my wife found out about Sarah we have had a number of nights where I was able to dress, I have been able to buy a couple of dresses (one of which was awful so returned it!) and it makes a huge difference knowing I can discuss some things with her and she is not going to find things I have hidden. At the moment the only time I can dress is when both kids are in work, which is very limiting but I have agreed to one thing. We alternate between one night where we have a night for us (I massage her feet, we sit and watch something together and have a meal) and one night for "Sarah" where I dress.
Everyone OK? Kids off for Summer hols so no dressing and work is full on to the point where I can't even see a gap in my diary where I can take a few days off with the kids. We do have a week booked off Camping soon and can't wait as need a stress release .. Counting Down to September before Davina can make an appearance working from home. Hope you're all getting some escapism time.
Lol my wife was dodgy 🤣 Chinese phone strikes again.. WiFi!!
You might want to edit that first sentence! We have only just gone onto Teams, they tried Skype but it does not work for us, seeing colleagues in the flesh can be a bit disconcerting, I feel like saying "get a shave and put something half decent on" and the men are not much better.
Funny enough are lot are very PC, so if I did "come out" nobody would dare say anything! However we do a lot of meetings on Teams, and it is expected we have cams on (they supply very good kit) and with teenagers in the house it would be impossible to hide away, so I do envy you. What I have noticed is the amount of men who now they are working from home slip into the "unshaven slob" mode with tatty T-shirts and jeans on they would not have worn in the office! Most of the ladies though have managed to maintain standards!
Tape over web cam again today my team had a team brief my WiFi playing up gave excellent excuse not to have my web cam on and tape on just in case and had another 3 and a half hours as Davina nice and chilled out working as they babbled on in the team meeting.. If only they knew I'd have to take out my diversity and inclusion card 🤣
Dressed today yay only 2-3 hours but felt nice and gave me a bit of escapism.. Esme let me borrow a dress and I may grab a few hours dressed tomorrow too.. With tape over the work webcam.
All good here thanks 😀
In fact, it's even nice and sunny here!
Checking in still here from time to time.. Work has been hectic last 2 months I've worked silly hours and not made any time to dress more than the once since Easter with the kids back in school ... Opportunity at home but constant work meetings on video calls. In that time work work work stress high and diet out the window need to lose some weight so back at it again up early and out from today walking or running and diet.. Really have the urge to shave and get made up and dress working from home.. Thursday maybe best opportunity. Hope everyone is OK and finding some normality resuming. Davina
So today should have seen both back in school and right now i'd be running a bath (I am actually) and preparing to shave and get myself ready to transform with makeup, wig, hosiery heels lingerie and a nice dress and chill working as Davina for a few hours avoiding the work web cam.. Alas my oldest had a problem with an abcess which she had to have an operation in hospital to remove and is now living with a packed open wound to recover from which worries me a lot. I can't wait for the nurse time tell us its healed well and closed up. So that's a few more weeks not dressed for me on the cards at least past Easter. Work stress levels are one thing but when your kids have an op and have to go through this sort of healing process is another thing altogether. So no Davina for at least another month. I'll have missed 1/4 year probably before I can dress and unwind and no idea when we'll ever have a girls night in or out.
My parents had both jabs they're not intending to mix. The plan is still wait for the late spring and into summer and meet in the garden and outdoors. All we're doing mixing is shopping and with mask and keeping distance. It will be typical if the kids go back to school next week and bring covid home from some selfish family. I'll be livid
Had mine last Thursday x
My jab is on Monday.
Checking in seems a bit of chat since last time i was in and new members welcome all.
Still dodging covid the both of us hope everyone else is
Has anyone had a job yet?
Sunny weekend had a lazy one yesterday and some beer watching the Rugby.
Plan today a walk up a mountain path we can see from the house then turn up the mountain and have a picnic up there as the weather is fantastic.
Hope everyone is ok!!
Davina
Have told you off about work Davina and now you're even working weekends for free and with no bonus or overtime and a two year pay freeze jeez you're a sucker!
Get what you need to get done done then start working your flat hours and look after yourself.
Now that's off my chest how is everyone good i hope.
Hes had a stressful week in work he even had an argument with someone on a Teams call raising his voice unusual for him so sat next to me now dressed chilling with a gin.
I see more yellow weather warnings on the way just what we need for the weekend to keep us locked indoors but a Mersey Derby and Wales v England to entertain us this weekend in the rugby I'm sure we'll see some posts here,
Emma (Wife)
Evening all another busy work week rushed by and i think 11 weeks since i last dressed work is hyper busy and even though we've been told there's no pay rise probably for the next 2 years and bye bye to our performance related bonus stupidly i will be getting up early tomorrow and try to get a project finished so i can get on with other things i need to work on.
Hope everyone is ok .. maybe have the little one back in school 15th march if safe to do so but no idea of when the older one is going back.. worried about both their educations and mental health.
Have a good weekend
Davina
Definitely stop working too hard then if no pay rise or bonus
Hi sorry Davina we had a girly night also last night as he's had a stressful working week and i could tell so did my usual ran him a bath with instruction to shave and put things out on the bed for him to wear and he spent the night en fem and chilled out with wine and a film.
You need to take your foot off the gas in work.
Hope everyone here is ok?
Emma (Wife)
Making new jealous our last girls night in was in 2019.. Fed to of this now All work work work and its mentally draining. Davina
Hi all we're ok still dodging the covid glad to hear the over 50s will be getting a jab soon in Wales and the rollout of the jabs are going well.
Had a nice night in last night and hes still in bed dressed now we were up pretty late and went few a few bottles of wine a nice sexy girly night in.
Hope everyone is ok.
Hannah (Wife)
Checking in still top babe in TV Chix Hannah and my score has accelerated me away from 2nd place and my chix mail inundated with messengers.. I'm all work work work.. I've got some control of things I'm doing ans some people o the run at the moment so striking whilst the iron is hot to solve problems and some quick wins and keep my status as the best in my field putting untold pressure on myself living on the stress of it which is dangerous times as this sort of stress and workload although driving me its driving my alpha side more than my fem side and even if i could when it gets this heightened i'd put off dressing in favour of getting work done..
Struggled to sleep last night and up wide away 0530 by 0615 i was on the work laptop catching up and emailing sad isn't it..
Lockdown sucks we're staying in working and weekends are so boring with trying to stay away from people. Tomorrow we're planning a walk up the mountain it will probably bucket down then there's Wales in the 6 nations, Liverpool v Man City and The Superbowl and knackered next week after staying up till 2 watching it.
Today has been boring took my mam for her covid jab then home and a quick stint on the xbox with youngest then gcse maths with the oldest for an hour showing her the bits her maths teacher skipped over in this on line tutorial.. this this and that then we get his and then that hang on how dis he get to that from this.. he missed a step that's poor teaching right there and think she learnt more form me and in hour about transposing formulae than hes taught her since spetember.
And thats me set to have a bath then watch westworld series 2 as Esme has the con and its crapolo tv on a Saturday night in her planner.
Hi all and Tvchix top babe 😘🤣 how is everyone.
Most people seem to have fallen into work work work from home then collapse at the weekend.
Nice to read of some of you guys getting to dress and escape and unwind my husband is lucky in this regard too but feel for you girls who cant dress and even more for the girls whos wives have no idea and you're keeping it your deep deep secret must be frustrating.
Have a good weekend all
Hannah (Wife)
January did fly didn't it and I'm so engrossed in work at the moment it's unhealthy and no unwinding crossdressing and the other thing is I'm missing alone time for me and Esme .. not had a husband and wife date for 12 months alone and then there's the bit of the other lacking as never alone.
Frustrations all round
Me again its thursday how did that happen the weeks are flying by January gone and still in lockdown hope everyone is ok
Emma (Wife)
P S Just read up and oh my Davina you made it to the top babe on TV chix i remember these polls you've done well and it sticks two fingers upto the stuck up girls who got you suspended from the site.
I've seen you dressed on cam so know you look passable and do a good job with your makeup so would vouch for you if we were still on tvchix.
Congrats
Emma (Wife)
I've got 300+ notifications of updates it's been busy in here and new topics I'm not even part of yet.
Husband had a frustrating week in work so I said to him we don't need to go out on the weekend and we have a yellow weather warning all weekend sweeping over us so let him get up Saturday shower shave and dress and he'll get up today and put his man clothes on after having all weekend fem. It was fun and I find he does more to help round the house when hes dressed but he has found out it's nice to take the bra off at the end of the day.
Sorry if that makes you jealous Davina I'm sure it won't be much longer and you and the other girls get to dress again.
Emma (Wife)
My sister said another friend volunteers in hospital. Her job is to hand out boxes of possession to the families of deceased parents. They're piling up. If these people were made to face people in the covid wards and speak to deceased peoples relatives I'm sure they'd soon change their minds. She also had a patient in one of the ward. New patient - quite young. He tested positive. Ward sister had been chatting to him earlier outside his door. Had a funny feeling something was up. Went back down to his room and he was fitting on the floor. Went into a coma. Now in hospital and still in coma.
Not that good really. Bad nights sleep. Knackered. Had a chat with my sister earlier. She works at a mental health hospital. Said loads of new patients in with breakdowns because of the lockdown 🙁
Katie x
53 days since I dressed last.. January 2020 through to September 2020 was bad and then September through to start of December was more bearable but impossible to dress but i didn't expect not to so far have had opportunity to unwind in 2021 so far.
It's hard to explain to Esme I need to dress the urge this time is huge for some reason, crossdressing constantly on my mind, work really exhausting my brain and weekends we cant do anything apart from go for a walk somewhere and with the rain and horrible weather its a nightmare.
My mental health is certainly affected its all work work work and play is out the window in terms of escapism with dressing and doing things we like to do.. look forward to the weekend all week then weekend comes and its boring and im already thinking of next weeks work and workload..
I've been playing Star Wars Battle front 2 on Xbox and really enjoying, re-watching the Mandolorian, There's the Masters darts only watching as two Welshmen doing well .. Price in the Semis and Clayton on a come back now i hope to get there too fingers crossed hes 7 6 down at the moment and then Liverpool v West Ham please let Liverpool take 3 points but seen the team no Mane and Bobby not starting so it will be a struggle.. time for Origi to come out of his shell and pepper the West Ham goal.
Everyone is struggling we've had a few slagging matches here between me and Esme who's mental health is also crap and with the kids over school and silly arguments over nothing everyone on edge and fed up of lockdown.
A session dressed would do me wonders but no hope.
'how's everyone else doing?
Davina
Another groundhog day. Worked till 1830 last night having started 0730 on what's supposed to be a 7 hour day.. Work work work.. You know when you're an expert in your field and someone questions you or goes behind your back to get a piece of work done which you've told them is a no go at the moment and that rage that boils up which face to face you show in your eyes well I'm actually missing that part of the job. Some have added Darth to my first name in work such is my Alpha maleness and character for getting things done. But im fair and open minded and like to lead a team as US not me and them but do have this darker side if I'm let down or if someone opposes me when I know I'm right about the now and the future.. Working from home is nice but you do sometimes need that face to face 'listen here matey boy I'm telling you now what the risks are and you put your name to it and when it goes wrong don't drag me into sorting the mess out or going to court".. So much going on in work at the moment and my time is central tonits sucess not just here but across the UK and in lockdown groundhog day I will admit here my mental health isn't 100% noones is top notch I know but it doesn't help when ones sports teams who you look forward to watching lose either.. Need some positive news and some positivity around this virus soon.
And I need to ease off work but there is so much to do.. Filled in my tax return yesterday it doesn't sometimes pay to move up the pay ladder and progress your career when you have kids. The tax return estimate another kick in the teeth.
Got to take another lump sum hit and will make ourselves £250 worse off per year by cancelling child allowance but can't afford to pay this big lump back every year.
Money always worries me.
No hope of escapism as Davina jealous yesterday seeing Esme in my mustard dress.. Love that dress, its the one I bought and wore out in London.
Sorry for my downer here but I'm feeling a bit fed up at the moment, hope everyone else is OK.
Davina
Check it out Hannah I made Number One. Hope it attracts more Tgirls and wives and girlfriends here. Mad seeing they kicked me off the site 8 months ago asking me to prove my photos were me.
Forgot to say your blogs the number 18 in the world still in top 20 and you're stopped blogging on it
We've popped back on tvchix but the usual read a few forums and the same old t girls ruling the roost and couldnt find any of the old girls we chatted to but looked up a few from this forum in chix some nice pics of some of the members,
Hannah (wife)
We're ok here avoiding going anywhere, have followed the other Couple here and I've allowed him to dress all week working from home and he's been so relaxed and even eager to switch his computer off on time and get some housework done and cook dinner.
Something to this letting them dress that makes them want to serve us.
Hope you get some Davina time soon Davina after all you are number 2 in the TV chix chart.
He looged in to the old profile as not been in for ages and there you are one place off top spot. I told you when we chatted on Skype you made for a good looking woman. 😘
Seems the site got lively for a bit but then gone quiet again people have busy lives despite the lockdown i suppose.
Hoping everyone is ok and avoiding the virus
Hannah (Wife)
Hi everyone, How is everyone doing?
This lockdown seems to be going on and on and the UK strain is now spreading fast and we're told a worse mutation with a higher mortality rate. I'm fed up of hearing people say they think the Government has done a good job on protecting the UK as I think they've acted late and not taken the scientific advice when given on time as they call it "Dither and Delay" has cost lives.
We've stuck to the rules throughout and dodged the virus although it's come close and we've lost friends and know quite a few friends who have had Covid. Its certainly hit my work colleagues across Wales and further a field leaving it to companies and industry to set up "covid safe" but complacency is hard to guard against.
Worried about the kids education with one doing well in school but a year and a half away from GCSEs is she getting enough teaching to ready herself and the other has missed 6 months of year 5 and now looks set to miss almost all of year 6 before heading onto secondary education, we have no idea what levels shes achieving and if she's ready for secondary school in September with the prep for this next step ruined by this virus and lockdowns and can only hope she takes to the teaching when they get back to school..
Work is ongoing and seems endless video calls, meetings and forums and is pretty full on.. I can't keep up there's so much to do and deadlines to meet and of course that adds stress along with the groundhog day of working from home and not being able to go anywhere and do anything.. I said to Esme last night another boring Friday wouldn't it be nice to go to the Cinema or the pub, out for a meal, go bowling..
We have to suck it up and crack on in this lockdown and we're coping but under the surface i expect its not just me but everyone is suffering with their mental health to some extent.
Some here I know have their crossdressing outlet and some of us don't and the craving when you can dress but decide not to is one thing but the urge to want to dress not just to unwind and escape the lockdown blues is on my mind daily at the moment. I last dressed 2nd week of December for a few hours 2 days before schools broke up and that was the first time I'd dressed since September when the kids went back to school.
My mind will have to find another outlet and at the moment that's starting a diet this week and as we get lighter mornings and nights will be back out early and after work exercising to loose the winter lbs put on which will help me slink into the dresses i bough from boohoo lol.
This really sucks and we need some normality back.
I hope everyone else is coping ok and hope you're all dodging this virus.
Davina
Hi Everyone wow spend a bit of time away and miss 128 notifications.
I must try to be here more in 2021.
So checking in and saying Hi and catching up here.
Good pins Davina no not your legs although they're great I mean the kubler ross curve post, new member hi and the what the forum is about maybe edit your home page a bit to explain at the first glance.
I'll add my support to what you've added as I agree this is a safe space for tgirls and wives.
I have told my other half he can join the forum so we'll see what he has to say about all this also at long last if and when he comes here although he reads what i add here and is in a good place with his crossdressing.
Right, i've had a read of latest posts just thought Id say hi here first i'll add some comments to other posts.
Emma (Wife)
Nice weekend a bit if Xmas shopping masked up and hand gelled every opportunity. Operation Santa will be hard this year to achieve. Today football training was enjoyable and a bit if tidying to, cooked dinner, had a fire out the back burnt a load of old documents.. Played a bit of Xbox with the kids now a bubble bath watching NFL on my Chromebook.. Its not a bad weekend.. Oh and went for a walk and social distanced chat with my parents .. Back to working from home tomorrow..
Hi @sopheveonthetown have you joined as a couples account or are you both setting up here nice to have another wife around and accepting
Emma (Wife)
Fantastic to have another couple join us here for healthy debate and shared experiences around Cross dressing
I know really got cold turkey with no dressing
Hi all .. new to the site (Thanks Davina) Looking forward to joining in on the discussions. Eve (Dresser) & Sophie (GF) xx
Quick check in could the urge to dress please go away till 2021
I know wasted opportunity when off work Friday and Monday brain dead from work.. Now no dressing till after 4th dec when oldest lockdown over.
You are a fool Davina take your opportunity to dress you know how it makes you feel and benefits you. Digging yourself a hole with stress Girl! Sort it out work your hours and sod it.
I'm sure Esme will be telling you the same!!
BEhave or i will be forced to get my whip out or lend it to Esme
HAnnah (Wife)
PS We're both ok still avoiding covid
Covid definitely getting closer to home.. So March about to pull the kids from school when Welsh Gov said schools out for spring and summer.. We had no idea the spread of the virus in schools and yet we pulled .... We let them go back in September testing and tracing still a joke... I'm questioning why?? As now we're seeing school classes and year groups sent home to isolate with my oldest today sent home as they've had one case in their year group and the whole year group needs to isolate for 14 days.. We now have testing and all I'm hearing is upto half the schools in Wales have cases including both my kids schools,
I had friday and monday off mainly to unwind from work and use up leave i should have dressed but didnt I was knackered and work this week is worse so i'd planned shaving tonight and dressing for a few hours tomorrow and wallop a case of covid in school home for 14 days so stress levels up and pissed off with workload etc and my escapism on hold two more weeks.. dressed twice since september.. work work work work work and video calls plus kids off and no escapism oh and thrown in sciatica for the last week making me feel crap.. mental health is pretty shit.
We're stuck like this due to a rubbish government and people who just dont care as covid wont affect them but they help spread it.. So thats me at the moment pretty fed up.
Making me jealous you two with your girly nights ... Me and Esme not had a girly night in since 2019 probably this time last year We havent had a date night since January where we've been out just the two of us and our London trip out as Girls was 2 years back. I may dress Monday a hectic work week kids back in school after Wales lockdown and I have the following Friday and Monday off I may even have a day dressed Friday and a sort out of dresses Esme will be working so a kinda girls day lol.
We ok fed up of fireworks dogs hate them but no girly night here 😢
Hi Checking in all ok here avoiding Covid we also had a girly night in and a drink and fed up of fireworks
Hannah (wife)
Hi all been a hectic week for both of us in work
tonight we shall be having gin and a girly night in and hope people are now fed up of fireworks
Emma (wife)
9 more days Hannah and hope its bought a 14 day window and hope people in Wales stick to the wash hands, stay 2m apart, meet outdoors, wear a mask etc. Commented on another post about UK Chat I've chatted there too when bored.
Hi all WE're ok 9 more days in lockdown Wales but seems England is in it until december
I've been chatting to randoms on uk chat a free chat site so many people say this is nonsense and others scared to death
Hannah (wife)
Another rubbish half term wet and windy aside from that we're ok he can't dress with the kids off both booked time off with them and they cant be bothered to get off the xbox to do anything with us.
Went in the shed got the kids wet weather gear out you think they can be bothered to go out do anything i might as well have worked today and not wasted a day off work.
Rant of the day
It's gone past black tights season and into wet weather gear and welly season wet wet wet. I used to like wet wet wet lol
Yummy 👍
I have been saying one day for an eternity Davina, but one day maybe 😀
shame you don’t have a chance to dress, it’s getting to the time of year for the kind of clothes I like
Awww Emma a pity i think as might have got it out in the open
Week off work here lots of walking but the weather could be better - no chance of dressing with the kids off
Hi everyone, I hope everyone is well, still sneaking in a little dressing for an hour or so after my wife goes to bed. Nothing happened or said after her discovery a few months ago.
Hi checking in
Hi checking in
Emma (Wife)
Hi Rebecca no sign of Sindy hope she's OK and returns to the Forum. It is a written off year 😒
Hello just checking in.
I logged into my gmail email which i set up when i joined here and saw hundreds of notifications so have some catching up to do.
Fairly ok with him dressing and seeing and being with him dressed.
Both avoided this horrible virus so far and fed up of it.
We need a vaccine and need to learn from this incase it happens again its written our year off.
I'll try to come in more regularly and check the postings.
Has Sindy come back on?
Rebecca (Wife)
You're in lockdown Emma from Tuesday and you're in lockdown anyway and hope no symptoms and youre only locked down as a precaution but saw on the news today your area has a much higher cases per 100k than we do and we locked down at half your rate.
This is a right mess isnt it. I can see us going full uk lockdown again before this is over.
Oh no I've just seen on the news a rise in cases where you live. Not looking good here in Wales either. I Hope you continue to be symptomless.
Hes working from home dressed here now too and will probably stay dressed for the rest of the day not planning to go anywhere.
Hannah (Wife)
HI not been in for a few weeks.
Hope everyone is avoiding this virus.
Some bad news for me and hubby is someone where I work has a positive test so both myself and husband are locked down for 14 days.
He's been working from home anyway and I'm not showing any signs of symptoms.
I'd love to go for a test but with no symptoms and a shortage of tests whats the point.
So watch this space and fingers crossed we're not infected and in 2 weeks time can resume normal life.
I can do some work from home so can keep busy.
He's dressed today so this can also count as a check in for him dressing lol
Stay safe everyone
Emma (Wife)
No rules on masks in wales in shops were the only family walking round wearing them. So we are protecting others from a virus we've not got others despite welsh gov rules are for too relaxed. OK here apart from no dressing since Feb. Davina
OK here both still trying our best to socially distance not been to the pub have been shopping now shops open with our masks. Hope no ones been effected by this virus.
Emma (wife)
Hi all Covid check in we're both OK we had a girly night last night and a bit worse for the weather today glad the weathers been so poor from a dress up night all glamour and makeup to a PJ day
Emma (Wife)
Here's hoping we can cam again soon, Davina. X
Home his job will be OK, I'd hate to be on furlough and worrying about losing my job. But he's lucky hes got an accepting wife and can dreams in lockdown. I've still not looked at making money chatting on web can lol you'll have to post a user guide what to do.. 🤣 chat on cam as t girls for crossdreasing funds. 😂
Must be so hard for you girls who cant dress feel sorry for you he's been dressing as on furlough and stressed about his job so i've said get up in the morning there's lots to do round the house but if you feel like presenting fem go for it so he's dressed a few times per week and we're still making some money from web cam sites teasing people on came and chat which eases the bordom.
Hope everyone is ok
Hi Katie glad you're OK and aww the torment of not being able to dress sorry you and Davina and many others can't dress
Emma (wife)
Same on my mind too. Glad you're OK
Hi
Trying to keep busy as no dressing time. It is on my mind quite a bit so trying not to fall down the rabbit hole of crossdressing as the torment would be too much. I've managed to stay sane!
Katie x
Glad to hear from you Emma the other wives have abandoned us including Esme.. Hope to cjat soon. Glad you're both safe and your husband has crossdressing opportunities.. Will you allow h a profile yet?