First time dressed since MAy 2023 and i feel so chilled out and relaxed its indescribable.. A chance opportunity taken for a few hours this evening and stress busting escapism as a t-girl has worked again..
I'm very well and rested after being on holiday for 3 weeks.
It's so nice to get back to being able to dress again. Sorry - I know that must irritate those of you who aren't finding the opportunity at the moment.
Had an hour dressed today.. house to myself garantee for the first time since March I was busy with work but thought sod it I'm showering shaving and dressing.. I only dressed for an hour as so much work to get on with but no e to be dressed for a bit.. can still do makeup.. tried a green dress of Esmes on. May dress the next few days make the most if it although being dressed working from home is better than nothing it's a bit meh.
Glad you managed some time - occasionally a quick session can still be great escapism. How long does it take you to get make up done - for me it’s nearly 90mins! So defo need a gap of at least 3.5 hours to leave 30mins for removal and tidy up.
One child just finished exams and secondary school and off to college near by in September and one now off on summer holidays until September so dressing working from home is now impossible.
September may give some opportunity to dress but the local college is a short walk away and oldest could pop back any time between lectures.
I need to grab whatever opportunity I have for my fix.
Really missing my escapism time ..
Missing putting on makeup transforming male to fem, the wig, lingerie, hosiery and heels and nice dresses and how it makes me feel and stress level is ridiculous.
Need to get my arse in gear and up and out every morning again as was doing so well with diet and exercise but put what in lost back on..because of work work work..
Need a control for my metabolism and a drive to lose weight again.
How do I find time to be Davina.. "She's" not gone away but there is no time let alone quality time for Cross dressing and chilling out as a T-Girl.
Others tell me it will have to be away from home, t girl events or just book time away to be dressed which adds expense..
So that's me currently a workaholic and a lil depressed.. Groundhog day.
Hi all, how is everyone? I've botnhad opportunity to unwind and escape male me since mid May 😵 with work manic and a club I help run in part of the year where its admin intensive so like having two hobs at the moment.
My oldest had prom last night makeup done dress the lot probably 150 all slammed up in prom dresses heels and makeup.. I wonder out of an equal number of boys how many were secretly thinking I wish I could do that lol.
So here's me checking in turned back into a workaholic, need to get back out walking first thing and get my diet back on track and work our a way to get myself some quality time where I can transform for a few hours.. Still not figured out how yet 🤔 but I am interested in whatever makeup tips Esme picked up from our oldest getting her makeup done 😄
Enjoyed a full day dressed yesterday. Went to national space centre in Leicester then called to get something to eat on way home before getting changed back to male mode in car
Enjoyed a few hours dressed Wednesday so much just relaxed in a red n black dress i vowed to dress Thursday and friday too given lack of video meetings planned, parents away and boss on annual leave so no surprises but thursday and friday turned out to be packed with work and video calls so just the one day dressed this week...
How will i manage this when my oldest finishes school in May then summer hols and then local college in walking distance.. no working from home home alone as Davina ... Need a plan.
Look at me in my new red and black dress and glasses .. And in at #39 to the Top babes of TVchix Davina Legsssssss... Its a long way back to that number one spot I held for 2 months back in Jan and Feb 2021.. 😂 Nice for the ego..
Hey everyone!! Is there anyone still on the Forum or have all your problems and queries been answered and you've left me all alone?Rainy Sunday what better to do than to go round shops with your wife and kids seeing things you'd love to buy for Davina lol.I managed to dress weds week before last and last Monday for a few hours and may dress working from home tomorrow as its half term the week after.Hoping everyone is doing OK and getting some fem time cross dressed.. Davina
Miss some of the wives and girlfriends chatter in here not heard from Emma or Hannah for a while and a few others who would tell me publically or privately to stop working silly hours and make time to dress and chill.I've worked hard the last Month and a bit too hard and got things done and made progress in work for the better only to find out work due to covid and government instruction and restructure is forcing redundancies .. So much for levelling up a 3rd year of no pay rise nor the bonus which was part of what attracted me to the job and part of my pay deal.. Yet still required to hit a high level at performance review for zero reward.. I'm knackered today my brain just wants to rest as next week is just as hectic and if I'm not careful I'll burn myself out.And amid all this diet and exercise in 4 weeks 11lb gone but still feel the effects of covid..The last 2 weeks all I've thought of is I need to dress, put on makeup and just chill.. Only opportunity video meeting free was Wednesday and I dressed but so much on in work hard to chill and enjoy being dressed so was only "Davina" for 2-3 hours and changed back.. My oldest declared she's got 2 months left in school and then free until college which will bring an end to dressing working from home.. For a few years and by the time she's finished college the next one will be approaching the same stage in life so I'm going to have to figure out how I balance work and life and other things I'm responsible for with my need and it is a need to cross dress.. It has become something to balance my mental health and being a bloke I hide my stress and tension and angst and sometimes depression from the world.. I need some quality time as Davina and a plan for the future and need to take my foot off the gas in work. So that's me at the moment..Hoping everyone else feels in a better place.
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Sep 18, 2021
I have to agree with you on this! Whilst my wife and I are still feeling our way forward we have come to some compromises. The other night we had the house to ourselves and I raised the subject of dressing. After the last "wobble" she is not really ready to be around me when dressed, but knows I need to! We agreed I would dress in the bedroom, and this I did, but no makeup or wig (she has not seen me in wig and make up yet) and I spent a couple of hours watching a film and relaxing. After a bit I was dying for a drink but did not want to go downstairs to get one! In the end I changed into my bed shorts and T shirt, went downstairs and we sat and watched a programme we wanted to watch together. When I told her I was gasping for a drink she said "I did wonder if you wanted a coffee but did not want to disturb you". She also asked what I had been wearing and I told her a blouse and skirt, and said I was getting lonely with no-one to speak to! I hope that the next time she will have a coffee with me and we can be a bit more relaxed together. The time I spent dressed made a significant difference to my stress levels (the job is stressful, working for two conflicting line managers) and I felt a lot better. Once she is happy with me dressing and becomes a bit more relaxed then I would like to start wearing a wig and make up but only if she is comfortable with it.
Step by step .. Very similar to what we did It took 8 years for Esme to meet me as Davina but was a eureka moment for us both and developed further from there.Emma on here on the other hand the wife of a tgirl took this advice by the balls so to speak and met her husband dressed in a matter of months and found that eureka moment but each couple is different and sou D's like you're on the right track 👍
16/09/21 First time dressed since June.. I've just added a post in Crossdressers thoughts about it as it felt so beneficial to my health and wellbeing as i was on the slippery slopes of work stress.
What an amazing feeling it was to be dressed again fully made up wig stockings heels and fitting in a dress that last time i tried on i couldn't get into.
If you get opportunity girls especially after a long time no dressing don't let the doubt and the feeling of sod it I won't dress cloud your judgement do it its worth every minute of inexplicable stress-busting escapism.
First time dressed since MAy 2023 and i feel so chilled out and relaxed its indescribable.. A chance opportunity taken for a few hours this evening and stress busting escapism as a t-girl has worked again..
Hello... ages since I was last here, I think.
I'm very well and rested after being on holiday for 3 weeks.
It's so nice to get back to being able to dress again. Sorry - I know that must irritate those of you who aren't finding the opportunity at the moment.
Here's my check in.
Frustrated.
No quality time at all in 2023 as Davina.
Stressed work work work and money worries which also leaves me feeling depressed.
Not a good mix.. the mad thing is I know a good session as Davina would help but its impossible to find any quality time.
Hooe others here are getting more time to escape to their fem selves.
OK but like you struggling to find time and space to be Sarah!
Had an hour dressed today.. house to myself garantee for the first time since March I was busy with work but thought sod it I'm showering shaving and dressing.. I only dressed for an hour as so much work to get on with but no e to be dressed for a bit.. can still do makeup.. tried a green dress of Esmes on. May dress the next few days make the most if it although being dressed working from home is better than nothing it's a bit meh.
No Davina time since May..
Work is full on and stressful. .. Very stressful.
One child just finished exams and secondary school and off to college near by in September and one now off on summer holidays until September so dressing working from home is now impossible.
September may give some opportunity to dress but the local college is a short walk away and oldest could pop back any time between lectures.
I need to grab whatever opportunity I have for my fix.
Really missing my escapism time ..
Missing putting on makeup transforming male to fem, the wig, lingerie, hosiery and heels and nice dresses and how it makes me feel and stress level is ridiculous.
Need to get my arse in gear and up and out every morning again as was doing so well with diet and exercise but put what in lost back on..because of work work work..
Need a control for my metabolism and a drive to lose weight again.
How do I find time to be Davina.. "She's" not gone away but there is no time let alone quality time for Cross dressing and chilling out as a T-Girl.
Others tell me it will have to be away from home, t girl events or just book time away to be dressed which adds expense..
So that's me currently a workaholic and a lil depressed.. Groundhog day.
How's everyone else doing?
Davina
Hi all, how is everyone? I've botnhad opportunity to unwind and escape male me since mid May 😵 with work manic and a club I help run in part of the year where its admin intensive so like having two hobs at the moment.
My oldest had prom last night makeup done dress the lot probably 150 all slammed up in prom dresses heels and makeup.. I wonder out of an equal number of boys how many were secretly thinking I wish I could do that lol.
So here's me checking in turned back into a workaholic, need to get back out walking first thing and get my diet back on track and work our a way to get myself some quality time where I can transform for a few hours.. Still not figured out how yet 🤔 but I am interested in whatever makeup tips Esme picked up from our oldest getting her makeup done 😄
How's everyone else doing?
Enjoyed a full day dressed yesterday. Went to national space centre in Leicester then called to get something to eat on way home before getting changed back to male mode in car
Enjoyed a few hours dressed Wednesday so much just relaxed in a red n black dress i vowed to dress Thursday and friday too given lack of video meetings planned, parents away and boss on annual leave so no surprises but thursday and friday turned out to be packed with work and video calls so just the one day dressed this week...
How will i manage this when my oldest finishes school in May then summer hols and then local college in walking distance.. no working from home home alone as Davina ... Need a plan.
Look at me in my new red and black dress and glasses .. And in at #39 to the Top babes of TVchix Davina Legsssssss... Its a long way back to that number one spot I held for 2 months back in Jan and Feb 2021.. 😂 Nice for the ego..
All good here too.
We are venturing out each month to Pink Punters BNO.
It was great this month as we met up with some girls that I have been chatting to on Chix.
About time you ventured out with Esme, Davina!
We still here. Both myself and Chelle went to Leicester to the national space centre last Saturday. Even went as Rachel had wonderful day
Hey everyone!! Is there anyone still on the Forum or have all your problems and queries been answered and you've left me all alone? Rainy Sunday what better to do than to go round shops with your wife and kids seeing things you'd love to buy for Davina lol. I managed to dress weds week before last and last Monday for a few hours and may dress working from home tomorrow as its half term the week after. Hoping everyone is doing OK and getting some fem time cross dressed.. Davina
Shame the window of opportunity to dress will be very small. Maybe a holiday is needed.
Miss some of the wives and girlfriends chatter in here not heard from Emma or Hannah for a while and a few others who would tell me publically or privately to stop working silly hours and make time to dress and chill. I've worked hard the last Month and a bit too hard and got things done and made progress in work for the better only to find out work due to covid and government instruction and restructure is forcing redundancies .. So much for levelling up a 3rd year of no pay rise nor the bonus which was part of what attracted me to the job and part of my pay deal.. Yet still required to hit a high level at performance review for zero reward.. I'm knackered today my brain just wants to rest as next week is just as hectic and if I'm not careful I'll burn myself out. And amid all this diet and exercise in 4 weeks 11lb gone but still feel the effects of covid.. The last 2 weeks all I've thought of is I need to dress, put on makeup and just chill.. Only opportunity video meeting free was Wednesday and I dressed but so much on in work hard to chill and enjoy being dressed so was only "Davina" for 2-3 hours and changed back.. My oldest declared she's got 2 months left in school and then free until college which will bring an end to dressing working from home.. For a few years and by the time she's finished college the next one will be approaching the same stage in life so I'm going to have to figure out how I balance work and life and other things I'm responsible for with my need and it is a need to cross dress.. It has become something to balance my mental health and being a bloke I hide my stress and tension and angst and sometimes depression from the world.. I need some quality time as Davina and a plan for the future and need to take my foot off the gas in work. So that's me at the moment.. Hoping everyone else feels in a better place.
I have to agree with you on this! Whilst my wife and I are still feeling our way forward we have come to some compromises. The other night we had the house to ourselves and I raised the subject of dressing. After the last "wobble" she is not really ready to be around me when dressed, but knows I need to! We agreed I would dress in the bedroom, and this I did, but no makeup or wig (she has not seen me in wig and make up yet) and I spent a couple of hours watching a film and relaxing. After a bit I was dying for a drink but did not want to go downstairs to get one! In the end I changed into my bed shorts and T shirt, went downstairs and we sat and watched a programme we wanted to watch together. When I told her I was gasping for a drink she said "I did wonder if you wanted a coffee but did not want to disturb you". She also asked what I had been wearing and I told her a blouse and skirt, and said I was getting lonely with no-one to speak to! I hope that the next time she will have a coffee with me and we can be a bit more relaxed together. The time I spent dressed made a significant difference to my stress levels (the job is stressful, working for two conflicting line managers) and I felt a lot better. Once she is happy with me dressing and becomes a bit more relaxed then I would like to start wearing a wig and make up but only if she is comfortable with it.
16/09/21 First time dressed since June.. I've just added a post in Crossdressers thoughts about it as it felt so beneficial to my health and wellbeing as i was on the slippery slopes of work stress.
What an amazing feeling it was to be dressed again fully made up wig stockings heels and fitting in a dress that last time i tried on i couldn't get into.
If you get opportunity girls especially after a long time no dressing don't let the doubt and the feeling of sod it I won't dress cloud your judgement do it its worth every minute of inexplicable stress-busting escapism.
Hoping everyone is ok
Davina
I think it shows new posts at the bottom.. No idea if I can get each category to flag new posts but will see what I can do.
I am happy with the new format but one thing, is it possible for each category to show if there are new posts?