Hi everybody, Emma here.
I saw the link to this forum on Davina's profile on another site, read some of the posts and immediately felt a lot of affinity with them.
Like many, i'm a long time Crossdresser/Transvestite who enjoys the escapism and sexual aspects but because of circumstances also feel repressed and frustrated that I can't be Emma as much as I would to be.
I'm hoping to learn from others and maybe provide some of my own experiences too. Being part of a community and reslizing you're not the only person in the world who feels this way is helpful just on its own!
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Emma
Welcome to the Forum, nice chatting to you earlier
So many posts here covering all sorts of aspects of crossdressing feel free to comment on any and bring them back to the fore.
The escapism is unreal and hard to explain isn't it. I told my wife i'm still me when I'm Davina / crossdressed but I certainly feel different, more relaxed, less up tight and snappy it's pure escapism leaving the male me facade of an alpha male behind for those few hours and doing something us blokes aren't allowed or supposed to do i suppose best described as feeling feminine.. How can you feel feminine? some women will say.. its hard to explain.. we just do its our escapism.
Sexual aspects... Lots of us feel sexy when dressed and can feel very turned on and there is a sexual element to crossdressing in the overall reasons why people crossdress for most t girls.
Depressed, repressed and frustrated yes i get all that have that now with little to no opportunity to get any time let alone quality time as Davina and i need to sort that in 2023 somehow.
Plenty on here h=who have learnt and moved on but still plenty here to chat to and learn from and discuss and debate why we do this and looking forward to hearing more about your experiences as a t girl.
Nail hit on the head with realising you're not the only person in the world who feels this way and yes that is helpful on its own
Davina
Hi Emma. Welcome. I forget how I found this forum but I've definitely learned a lot from it, it's been a very positive experience. You're never alone, you can contribute as much or as little as you want really, depends what questions you have or experiences you want to share. Circumstances are a bitch, if I could rewind time and do things differently then I probably would, but I know that's not possible. I completely understand the frustration side of things, Suzzanne does not get many opportunities to manifest herself but I try and make the best of them when I can. Saying that though, I'm looking forward to next week as Suzzanne gets her first ever makeover ❤️.