Me n Esme went to a comedy club last night a nice Friday day evening and night date..
I was in man mode.. it was a hubby and wife date so didn't pack Davina.
A few things.
Hinted again how hard I'm finding it with no escapism and lack of Davina time .. there isn't an easy option for this in pur hectic work and family lives.
The comedy club was a bit weird only because the compare was pissed and the first act froze and bombed out but the next 3 acts were funny and clever.
Last act asked my name called me something else rest of his show but also talked a bit about LGBTQ and joked I look the type who's Bisexual but not told the wife.. Two things from this
I tweeted him as Davina telling him he was one letter put not Bi but LGBTQ next one over T on the Trans Spectrum although no one would ever guess.
And I'll address this somehow with Esme she on reflecting the comedian taking the mik put of me said and he said I was secretly bisexual but she didn't know she looked at me straight faced and said what does he know about you.. I'm assuming she meant that I crossdress or was she asking if I'm bisexual?
She's asked in the past once if I was Gay when I told her I crossdressed but never asked if I'm Bisexual.
Anyway parking that had a vivid dream last night that we went back late to the hotel and she suggested I dress and we go back out vivid dream memory of a photo of Davina being taken by the lifts on my floor the atrium behind us and several landmark photos me showing a bit of leg and heels then I remember coming back past reception and back to the room..
I think where we were and the time of night we got back in I could well have done that had I packed Davina..
Maybe next time.
Anyway I told her I'd tweeted the comedian about the B and T and I'm.not B but am on the T-side of LGBTQ and she said why did you do that grrrr got annoyed as if I'd given my name and address out look at me I'm a crossdresser.. I'm not ashamed to be a T-Girl and hope I've given him a bit of material.. your fellas a crossdresser and calls himself "enter play on male name' and probably a high % of the time may be right as there are more crossdressing men than is realised.
So that was my Friday..
Interesting day out then. It's amazing how maybe men and women see this sort of thing differently. Id say most men would take those comments in the spirit of how they were delivered - just a joke and have a laugh at them. That's what comedians do, pick on audience members to add to their acts. Personally I enjoy Matt Rife, and Jack Dee's comedy and this sort of thing features in their acts. I'm sure my wife would be the opposite and reacted like Esme, there must be something underlying, why would he say that otherwise! Have you met him before? Does he know you. It doesn't take much to prickle my wife's antenna and take her from 0 to 1000 in less than a millisecond.Oh well!
Hopefully Esme won't hold onto negative thoughts too long 🤔