We've done the girls nights in which are still fun.
He will sometimes ask if we can have a night in and sometimes i can gauge his stress levels after work and I'll arrange it either with mutual agreement or by laying out some things for him to wear when he comes home from work for a friday night in dressed.
We've both learnt so much about makeup over the last year and a half and have perfected our look as women for different occasions and activities.
I took him out of his comfort zone a few times as he wanted to go out dressed so i facilitated it initially in the car and a walk round a shopping centre after hours .
Hes had a makeover which was expensive but we learnt a lot and wow did an expert make him look convincing and we've recently gone and both had a makeover telling the lady in advance I wanted a makeup lesson and confirmed it was ok for my husband to also get dressed and made up as a woman. What he didnt know was when we left he'd be walking up a High street en fem back to the car and Home no point in getting a makeover then wiping it off.
The lady was very professional but he was the first trans person shed given a makeup tutorial for he was so nervous hardly spoke and very embarrased lol especially when she complimented him on his figure and his long eyelashes lol.
We got home not having anyone bat an eye lid at him in black jeggins, boots blouse jacket and handbag lol and then he admitted how much of a thrill it was being in the full public eye and no one noticing he was a man or not caring if they did notice.
We wish We'd stayed out and chanced a pub or restaurant as we were a distance from Home.
Maybe next time
Em (Wife)
Ask Esme what shes comfortable with
Simple
Em (wife)
We've done the girls nights in 3 - 4 times and due another soon hint hint Esme.
I've asked tho be nice for Esme to gauge my stress levels after work and arrange baby sitters come home to her laying out some things for me to wear for a friday night in dressed.
I've learnt so much about makeup over the last year and a half and Esme wants to learn more.
There's a woman in Cardiff who does Trans makeovers sounds similar to what you did with your other half I wonder what Esme would say to us going there for a makeover me as Davina see what we can both learn and opportunity to be out of the house dressed in a safe environment .. guess if she reads this she may give me an answer lol. Not sure she'd be ok me leaving the makeover place as Davina tho walking up a high street. Jecca is the name of the lady she's won awards for Trans makeovers and her work with trans people
Agree wiping off a makeover is a waste but would have to see how convincing i looked to leave dressed if we ever did anything like this.
I'm up for Esme taking me out of my comfort zone but can't see her taking Davina for a drive or to a closed shopping centre afraid someone we know will see us.
Still have the thought of doing something away from home dressed for the thrill and experiance maybe
Davina
Hi Emma
You trying to making an old crossdresser very jealous. You've just ticked two off my bucket list in one go.
I bet it was a real buzz for your other half. He's very lucky that you are so supportive and I hope that he appreciates everything you do for him.
Katie