I had ventured out many years ago - get in the car and drive miles away and dress and have a wander - but I would say my real first time out would be last May when my partner took me to Leeds for a couple of nights to be me in public.
It was amazing - nerve-wracking but I felt so fabulous being out and about with the woman I love beside me to hold my hand. We ate in restaurants, walked through town and went for drinks. What a wonderful feeling.
My first time out dressed as Emma was late 2019. I was working in London and decided to go to the cinema. But first I wandered around the block a couple of times, just to gauge responses. I was pretty much ignored…at 6ft6 with out any heels I stand out and with a small heel on I definitely do. It seemed that people were only interested in themselves
I had a 15 min walk from the air bnb apartment to the cinema. Got clocked a couple of times I think on the way there but no one said anything, just smile I kept saying to myself.
Got to the cinema, very nearly didn’t go in as I suddenly realised I would have to face someone. Ticket got checked, I said a quiet thankyou, but my voice betrayed me I think but once again, the young attendant just waved me through. Enjoyed the film and walked back. at theis stage it was 11pm at night and I though oh crap, now there are going to be a few drunk people out. I walked past a couple of guys but once again not even really looked at…which is both good and disappointing 😜
Got back to the apartment I was absolutely thrilled I’d done it.
I’ve done a couple of trips to supermarkets dressed, again when staying away for work and in a self catering apartment but I always go the self check in
My most exhilarating outing was in Feb this year. I decided to venture out of my hotel room. It was late - about 1am and the receptionist wasn’t at the desk. I want for a quick walk and when I came back she was at the desk. It was a hotel with a big lobby and as I walked by, as confidently as I could, she said good evening madam. Wow! Now I had no idea if I passed. I was actually in 4inch heels so standing at 6ft10 - Amazonian goddess obviously 😜. I smiled nicely at her and then as I walked by something made me stop and go back and speak to her.
I very politely said hello and asked her what she thought of my make up and dress (for those of you on TVchix, the 3 photos on my profile is what I was wearing) and also whether she knew I was a man as I walked by. She was so kind and said that she thought I looked very good and glamorous. Gotta say, it was one of the most amazing feelings I’ve ever had. Affirming, and shit-scary all at the same time.
Retail park by night does sound a good place to start preferably in the dark but knowing they're usually lit.One thing in London when we went out we realised with car lights, street lights and shop lights it was bright but I was out and thought sod it if people read me as a bloke who cares.Gutted my knee was a problem and it was cut short. My time out dressed not my knee boom boom.Davina
Yesterday we went out to the local retail park. We went from home which was a first for Vikki so was a bit worried about the neighbours seeing. Vikki reckons she was clicked until after we had stopped for coffee. To be honest I never noticed probably because it was not an issue for me. I only noticed one bloke a bit later do a double up and down but to be fair she was walking a bit funny by then. That’s what you get when you wear high heals shopping! So not her first time out but first from home and with me into a fairly crowded retail park.
Now looking for better shoes and a more dress down outfit for the next time x
My proper first time seen in public with my wife I had a dress, jacket and heeled boots probably 2.5 -3 inch heels.. Was a disaster as my knee was injured from playing football but leaving the hotel a very ignorant family got in the lift as I was trying to get out and their child cut me up and I twisted my knee which I later found out was a torn meniscus on my knee. I spent our weekend away and the next 3 and a half months on crutches. I still walked about half a mile and enjoyed being in public dressed but my knee.. What a disaster.Moral of the story if a kid cuts you up ignorantly just walk straight over the top of him 😖😂 show no mercy ✊
I remember you telling us Emma.You want to go out come on let a go out 🤣 very ballsy.Not a bad idea either a retail park after closing for a stroll about with minimal people not too far from the car.The biggest fear I bet is that Neighbours see you leave the house? Davina
Well he was banging on about wanting to go out dressed so I put things ready for him when he got home from work helped him dress then said come on then and off I took a very nervous tgirl out in the car lol.
Second time I took him to a retail park out of hours for with Dow shopping people saw us but from a distance.
OK I'll start.It's interesting that this TGirl like everyone who's ventured outside the 4 protective walls of the house was nervous and worried and the conclusion no one noticed or no one cares these days. She looks pretty passable in the video too so little to worry about.I'm sure we've all seen other t girls out and about from the sublime to the ridiculous.I recall walking through Torquay with our family on holiday early one morning as a Tgirl maybe coming back from venturing out for the night approached.. Oh no thought I.. Orangy foundation, and what is she wearing? My oldest daughter comes upto me having learnt people watching and says Dad what's that then my Father in law exclaims what the ruddy hell was that?Similarly myself and Eame in a Morrison's store hear an excuse me in a deep voice from behind us turning a 6ft 6 man with 12 o clock shadow and wig in a dress.. And in London we get on the tube seeing a t girl no idea what she was wearing happened then to sit opposite us and looked very uncomfortable.On the same trip to London another t girl walked past us looking very Glamorous in Wembley high street perfect makeup dressed classy not trashy as Esme says and Esme didn't notice .. I had an inkling as she approached and caught her voice as a he walked past a tgirl and doing a good job of passing.. Last year sat having a pint in Leicester square a woman milling about again it was a t girl picked up on my tgirl radar classy not trashy the tell was a slight sign of nervousness and Adams apple. Out and doing nonharmonic to anyone just presenting as a woman.The thing which is of most import I feel is dressing right for the environment in which your first time out is going to be with the latter girls going unoticed to the majority of people.Some tgirls I've chatted to took their first steps out in the car, driving somewhere remote to get out and just be outside the house or a walk round the block at the dead of night.Mine was when Esme was up her Mums one night years ago when I knew she was out for 2-3 hours after work and she was aware but not so tolerant of my cross dressing.It was around 1900 in winter so dark out .. I turned off all house lights, opened the back door and stepped outside into the dark back garden where no one could see me.. I had on a dress tights boots wig full makeup and one of Esme's winter coats and felt the cold breeze on my legs.. I came back indoors happy with myself then thought I'll do that again then thought I'll put the bins out the front as the eve of bin day then as I'm taking the bins down the side of the house I thought oh this is quite noisy and as I got to the front gate hmm street light right by the front of our house but who's gonna clock me and put 2 and 2 together I put the bins out and stood there probably 30 seconds noting every house blinds closed curtains drawn odds on being seen nil.. Then back in I came pleased with my first adventure and changed back before Esme got home as was our agreement at the time.. Dressing was OK as long as she didn't see it.. Back in the day before she finally met me as "Davina"I popped out the garden a few times over the years in the dark just to get a fix of outside but the most daring real first time was when in a Travelodge in Shrewsbury.. Dressed and happy with my makeup and look sat down to do some work on my work laptop and at the same time to chat on my laptop to other tgirls and wivea on tvchix when my work mobile gives the beep beep battery low noise.. Into my work bag no charging cable.. Its in my car arghhh.Up plucked some courage I'm not changing and wasting makeup.. Up I get key on hand, I'm out the door of my room heading along the corridor as the door to the corridor opens and a couple with suitcases approach.. My dress was pretty ahort my heels about 3.5 inches black stockings too but I proceed with confidence past the couple open the door to reception past the girl in reception and outside where two men were smoking and to my car which I unlock then sit in unplugging my cable.. Sat in my car 5 people have seen me no ones said a word did I pass.. Do they know me? No so who cares, did I look like a woman? As much as I could so maybe I got away with it.. Opened the car door and got out and looked around now I'm out out not in the back garden I savoured it for maybe a minute looking round then it dawned now I've got to go back in past reception.. The smokers gone in I go the girl on reception looks up smiles and says good evening I smile back and nod and then through the door empty corridor and back in the safety of the room a few exhilarating moments seen as "Davina" no one cared, did they notice? Who cares? they don't know me and if they did a few seconds of smirking then forgotten about probably.So I suppose my real first time was the travel lodge retrieval of my phone charger from the car..Lots of well dones back in the tvchix girls only chat room lol. Who's next? Davina
I had ventured out many years ago - get in the car and drive miles away and dress and have a wander - but I would say my real first time out would be last May when my partner took me to Leeds for a couple of nights to be me in public.
It was amazing - nerve-wracking but I felt so fabulous being out and about with the woman I love beside me to hold my hand. We ate in restaurants, walked through town and went for drinks. What a wonderful feeling.
My first time out dressed as Emma was late 2019. I was working in London and decided to go to the cinema. But first I wandered around the block a couple of times, just to gauge responses. I was pretty much ignored…at 6ft6 with out any heels I stand out and with a small heel on I definitely do. It seemed that people were only interested in themselves
I had a 15 min walk from the air bnb apartment to the cinema. Got clocked a couple of times I think on the way there but no one said anything, just smile I kept saying to myself.
Got to the cinema, very nearly didn’t go in as I suddenly realised I would have to face someone. Ticket got checked, I said a quiet thankyou, but my voice betrayed me I think but once again, the young attendant just waved me through. Enjoyed the film and walked back. at theis stage it was 11pm at night and I though oh crap, now there are going to be a few drunk people out. I walked past a couple of guys but once again not even really looked at…which is both good and disappointing 😜
Got back to the apartment I was absolutely thrilled I’d done it.
I’ve done a couple of trips to supermarkets dressed, again when staying away for work and in a self catering apartment but I always go the self check in
My most exhilarating outing was in Feb this year. I decided to venture out of my hotel room. It was late - about 1am and the receptionist wasn’t at the desk. I want for a quick walk and when I came back she was at the desk. It was a hotel with a big lobby and as I walked by, as confidently as I could, she said good evening madam. Wow! Now I had no idea if I passed. I was actually in 4inch heels so standing at 6ft10 - Amazonian goddess obviously 😜. I smiled nicely at her and then as I walked by something made me stop and go back and speak to her.
I very politely said hello and asked her what she thought of my make up and dress (for those of you on TVchix, the 3 photos on my profile is what I was wearing) and also whether she knew I was a man as I walked by. She was so kind and said that she thought I looked very good and glamorous. Gotta say, it was one of the most amazing feelings I’ve ever had. Affirming, and shit-scary all at the same time.
So, I’m looking forward to venturing out again!
Retail park by night does sound a good place to start preferably in the dark but knowing they're usually lit. One thing in London when we went out we realised with car lights, street lights and shop lights it was bright but I was out and thought sod it if people read me as a bloke who cares. Gutted my knee was a problem and it was cut short. My time out dressed not my knee boom boom. Davina
Retail park by day Karen braver than us we did it when it was closed in the evening it was thrilling for him to be out and seen.
I knew he wanted the experience of being out dressed and he does look passable so I just out him in the car and out we went.
Emma (wife)
Yesterday we went out to the local retail park. We went from home which was a first for Vikki so was a bit worried about the neighbours seeing. Vikki reckons she was clicked until after we had stopped for coffee. To be honest I never noticed probably because it was not an issue for me. I only noticed one bloke a bit later do a double up and down but to be fair she was walking a bit funny by then. That’s what you get when you wear high heals shopping! So not her first time out but first from home and with me into a fairly crowded retail park.
Now looking for better shoes and a more dress down outfit for the next time x
I remember you telling us Emma. You want to go out come on let a go out 🤣 very ballsy. Not a bad idea either a retail park after closing for a stroll about with minimal people not too far from the car. The biggest fear I bet is that Neighbours see you leave the house? Davina
Well he was banging on about wanting to go out dressed so I put things ready for him when he got home from work helped him dress then said come on then and off I took a very nervous tgirl out in the car lol.
Second time I took him to a retail park out of hours for with Dow shopping people saw us but from a distance.
Emma (wife)
OK I'll start. It's interesting that this TGirl like everyone who's ventured outside the 4 protective walls of the house was nervous and worried and the conclusion no one noticed or no one cares these days. She looks pretty passable in the video too so little to worry about. I'm sure we've all seen other t girls out and about from the sublime to the ridiculous. I recall walking through Torquay with our family on holiday early one morning as a Tgirl maybe coming back from venturing out for the night approached.. Oh no thought I.. Orangy foundation, and what is she wearing? My oldest daughter comes upto me having learnt people watching and says Dad what's that then my Father in law exclaims what the ruddy hell was that? Similarly myself and Eame in a Morrison's store hear an excuse me in a deep voice from behind us turning a 6ft 6 man with 12 o clock shadow and wig in a dress.. And in London we get on the tube seeing a t girl no idea what she was wearing happened then to sit opposite us and looked very uncomfortable. On the same trip to London another t girl walked past us looking very Glamorous in Wembley high street perfect makeup dressed classy not trashy as Esme says and Esme didn't notice .. I had an inkling as she approached and caught her voice as a he walked past a tgirl and doing a good job of passing.. Last year sat having a pint in Leicester square a woman milling about again it was a t girl picked up on my tgirl radar classy not trashy the tell was a slight sign of nervousness and Adams apple. Out and doing nonharmonic to anyone just presenting as a woman. The thing which is of most import I feel is dressing right for the environment in which your first time out is going to be with the latter girls going unoticed to the majority of people. Some tgirls I've chatted to took their first steps out in the car, driving somewhere remote to get out and just be outside the house or a walk round the block at the dead of night. Mine was when Esme was up her Mums one night years ago when I knew she was out for 2-3 hours after work and she was aware but not so tolerant of my cross dressing. It was around 1900 in winter so dark out .. I turned off all house lights, opened the back door and stepped outside into the dark back garden where no one could see me.. I had on a dress tights boots wig full makeup and one of Esme's winter coats and felt the cold breeze on my legs.. I came back indoors happy with myself then thought I'll do that again then thought I'll put the bins out the front as the eve of bin day then as I'm taking the bins down the side of the house I thought oh this is quite noisy and as I got to the front gate hmm street light right by the front of our house but who's gonna clock me and put 2 and 2 together I put the bins out and stood there probably 30 seconds noting every house blinds closed curtains drawn odds on being seen nil.. Then back in I came pleased with my first adventure and changed back before Esme got home as was our agreement at the time.. Dressing was OK as long as she didn't see it.. Back in the day before she finally met me as "Davina" I popped out the garden a few times over the years in the dark just to get a fix of outside but the most daring real first time was when in a Travelodge in Shrewsbury.. Dressed and happy with my makeup and look sat down to do some work on my work laptop and at the same time to chat on my laptop to other tgirls and wivea on tvchix when my work mobile gives the beep beep battery low noise.. Into my work bag no charging cable.. Its in my car arghhh. Up plucked some courage I'm not changing and wasting makeup.. Up I get key on hand, I'm out the door of my room heading along the corridor as the door to the corridor opens and a couple with suitcases approach.. My dress was pretty ahort my heels about 3.5 inches black stockings too but I proceed with confidence past the couple open the door to reception past the girl in reception and outside where two men were smoking and to my car which I unlock then sit in unplugging my cable.. Sat in my car 5 people have seen me no ones said a word did I pass.. Do they know me? No so who cares, did I look like a woman? As much as I could so maybe I got away with it.. Opened the car door and got out and looked around now I'm out out not in the back garden I savoured it for maybe a minute looking round then it dawned now I've got to go back in past reception.. The smokers gone in I go the girl on reception looks up smiles and says good evening I smile back and nod and then through the door empty corridor and back in the safety of the room a few exhilarating moments seen as "Davina" no one cared, did they notice? Who cares? they don't know me and if they did a few seconds of smirking then forgotten about probably. So I suppose my real first time was the travel lodge retrieval of my phone charger from the car.. Lots of well dones back in the tvchix girls only chat room lol. Who's next? Davina