I knew I wasn't the only kinky on here .. touching your mans g spot if hes dressed as a man or a woman is not bisexual

This needs a new thread shall i start one?

Hannah (wife)

Rebecca you thinking “omg I'm getting off on this am I bisexual?” is a good point

Do any other wives think this if having sex with husbands or bf’s crossdressed? But the answer is no you’re not as under all the lingerie and makeup hes a man, but I get what you mean.

Saying to him “get on your knees and suck it” I guess you’re accepting his dressing and you’ve just asked him to do something and he wanted to please you.. Esme said something to me out of the blue one day which was a bit of a shock but also a lil kinky but shes not put a vibrator between her legs and told me to suck it off.

“is he bi does he want to suck for real” you’re his wife its a rubber one lol just a bit of fun between the two of you doesnt mean he wants to do it with a real one.

“Ok what if I held it here and thrust it somewhere else?” - Is this a progression thing as 3 wives have now admitted with blushing cheeks to have done this and I’ve admitted we’ve toyed in this area too.. why put our g spot up there!!

What you did tho Esme has said to me dont ever ask me to “do” “you” with it lol.

I don’t know why we go coy and get embarrassed about being touched or using a toy there we need to get over it lol.

Is the title right as we’ve moved onto the embarrassing chat about touching and toying the male g spot which with wives doing it is not in the least bisexual.

Davina

It's a funny and sometimes worrying one wev e had sex many times with him crossdressed and it's always been a good experience but I've sometimes thought omg I'm getting off on this am I bisexual? I mean he looks like a woman kissing touching et c and it's getting me off here's my turn to blush as a few times iv e for a toy out and held it erect between my legs and remember the first time saying to him get on your knees and suck it and he did and rather expertly too which made me think omg he just got on his knees no.questions and sucked it off is he bi does he want to.suck for real so after doing it a second time.I said would you suck for real and he said this is real it's rubber you're my wife You told me t o do something and I did it and I said but you got off on it he said yes it was exciting being told to do it when dressed but it's with me not with a man.

I took it further omg to admitting this and said ok what if I held it here and thrust it somewhere else and he said ok so we did and it got me off too holding it between my legs pushing it between his hitting his g spot which wev e now done 3 times.

Comfortable he's not bi both a little embarrassed about using a toy that way but at the time it's very empowering and enjoyable but we both go so coy after about it.

He said he never imagined his shy wife would accept his crossdressing let alone me telling him to suck a vibrator or peg him with it. There iv e typed it iv e joined the blushing gang Hannah and Emma.

Rebecca (wife)

Secrets out of the bag lol

It does feel weird (or embarrassing) it does make you feel Gay well not Gay as its not with a man just ingrained in us up the bum is gay despite it being a ridiculous place for the male gspot but at the same time OMG it feels weirdly nice to be touched there (Blush)

"Love Button" OMG LOL

Emma you dark horse you and cheeky Cow lol

I'll say it again if your wife pleasures your gspot you're not bi and yes we do have a strap on and yes used it not ashamed to say.

Try it ladies its empowering and pleasurable to both

Hannah (Wife)

Here goes hands up yes to put it blunt and sound like Hannah Yes I have fingered him and him as her and he goes 'doolally' when hes touched there and has the most intense orgasms when i doubly arouse him if you know what I mean.

Yes we've moved on from fingers and I have used a male g spot toy on him pushing the button switching up the vibrations sends him even more doolally and I enjoy seeing him squirm and get off this way he's gone through the "We shouldn't do this it's gay, I shouldn't like this it's wrong" to which I've said did you or did you not just have an intense orgasm "Yes" ok I'm your wife and its my fingers and its me using the toy on you and I expect you're used the toy on yourself (Blushed and admitted yes he had when dressed) so its not bi or gay to massage your prostage G spot. Guys it doesnt make you Bi to use sex toys of finger your G Spot and it doesnt make you Bi if you go a step further as I suspect Hannah has gone and have sex with that toy in a srtap attached to your wife (Sorry Hannah making a grand assumption here lol well you are the kinkiest here)

So you can be a tgirl and be straight and it's not your faults that God put your g spot up your ass lol

Emma (Wife) Please don't tell me that me and Hannah are the only wives to discover a mans love button lol.

Hands up yes it feels nice to be touched there and yes it's embarrassing to admit it.

What a silly place to stick the male g spot. No it's not gay agreed.

You are right as chatting to lots of t girls a lot are Bi or become Bi or whatever sexuality or is where t girls fancy other t girls. So it's not something we can ignore on this forum.

I remember your worries that your husband may be Bi and now you're both Bi.

Not something wives would be happy with i suspect.

I shall watch the video when I can.

Sexuality and the Crossdresser

As more and more people have come to appreciate and accept gender isnt binary and there are far more shades of gender than simply “1” and “0” or “man” and “woman.”

Many of the sexual preferences and orientations have long been well-known.

Issues of gender and sexuality can be confusing as people are not 100% sure about their own sexual preferences or scared to admit some attraction or scared to experiment with their own body as some things are thought of as Gay.

They make sex toys for men, you men have a g spot, its not gay to stimulate it especially if your wife or girlfriend is stimulating it but you all get so coy over it don’t you? I’m lucky my husband enjoys being stimulated there even more so when he’s crossdressed.

If you have seen or read the results of the surveys and I’ve looked this up when I feared he was Bi back last year, you will be aware that a very high percentage of men who crossdress claim to be completely heterosexual.

Some surveys put this figure at over 90%. This means that their declared sexual preference is to be with a woman. Davina has stated this.

They like to dress up as women but not to attract men.

I think having chatted to Crossdressers on skype that there is a significant element of sexuality denial involved.

Some deny that it is a sexual turn on most I think get turned on dressing.

Some crossdressers I have chatted will admit that when they have been crossdressed, they have fantasized about being with a woman, a tgirl or even a man and want to be treated as a woman, who can caress them and hold them, and who can admire them as a woman.

And some fear that if things of a sexual nature were to happen they’d let it happen.

Most Tgirls keep this as a fantasy and will probably never act on this.

The fact that they have contemplated it and if the chance really arose, they might take it is enough to convince me that the number of crossdressers who say they are 100% hetero are not! My husband fell into this bracket.

Then, we have the crossdresser who maintains he’s straight, but while Crossdressed engages in sexual activity with other crossdressers. My husband has done this.

Nothing wrong with all of this if it’s consenting and done with trust, but there’s no point to deny that your sexual preferences can change depending upon the clothes you wear and/or whether your presentation is male or female and the situation you may find youself in when you’re crossdressed.

There is nothing wrong with being bisexual or bi curious. I think most t girls have the fantasy? How many crave sex with wives and girlfriends? How many are embarased that you like to be touched and your g spot stimulated? How many would let their wives peg them? This doesn’t mean you’re gay or bi relax and enjoy it if that’s what you want. I have posted a good youtube video on this.

At the end of the day, you are what you are! There should be no guilt or shame attached to being a crossdresser or to what fantasies you come across when crossdressed.

As hard as it might be, we should simply own up to and accept the fact that none of us are 100% this or 100% that when it comes to gender and sexuality.

I suppose fears are that wives wont want to accept that you’re bisexual or have fantasies after they’ve accepted crossdressing.

I’m just rambling as my crossdresser has come out to me as Bisexual and I’ve discovered I’m Bisexual myself and can’t think that we’re the only ones.

If anything take away something from the fact touching or having someone touch your gspot isn’t gay and you can have an amazing orgasm.

Hannah (Wife)

Worst of the bible lol as is crossdressing if religious and you believe in all that.

If you're a single tgirl and you think you're bi or want to experiment as a tgirl no har m done but if married shame on you.

Younger people do seem more open about their sexuality and who they fancy maybe a change in society in the fut ure

Pansexual, bisexual.. All the worst of the bible one of Dantes rings of hell?

I think it's being normalised amongst the younger generations but also think it's always been here.

Look at the years it was illegal to be gay then watch programs on Freddy Mercury in Germany and America in the Gay nightclubs and probably pansexual partys.

It's i big deal to our generations sexuality and a straight marriage or relationship.. Will this change n the future?

Maybe this help

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/feb/14/the-pansexual-revolution-how-sexual-fluidity-became-mainstream

No Esme has not put a falic object between her legs and told me to suck it as Davina lol.

But yes we've played with toys are you satisfied now? Lol

Davina

So you didn't say if you'd done it only if Esme told you to do it you would don't be a prude I bet you've played with toys nothing to be ashamed of lol I got him to suck mine and he looked like he knew whatbhed was doing lol. I'll stop now I'm trying to behave but I do get carried away. Sorry lol

Hannah (wife)

Go for it it's not gay as it's with your wife it's just a bit of erotic fun acting as the woman role reversal switch it on she'll get a thrill but it might break your teeth lol.

Hannah

If Esme was to do that i couldn't refuse as if she did put a falic object between her legs and say suck it it would be the kinkiest thing shes ever done so id be down there yes miss Esme lol

Oh Davina i call your she s never asked and raise you assuming Esm e has a Falic object trying to keep it clean and you're dressed and she puts it between her legs and tells you to give it a BJ would you?

I can confirm I've not done that with Esme... she's never asked 🤣🍡

And come on is he the only one?

Update I showed him what I posted he said I was still drunk from new years eve to post that and that he's now embarrassed now you all know he performed oral sex on a sex toy held between my legs hahaha I feel so evil lol

There's a queue on tvchix asking if I'm into anything other than just chatting to others.

I have seen lots of t girls I've chatted to over the years trying things in what Katie calls situationally bi scenarios and enjoying it.

I think it safe to say wives who enjoy a sexy time when their other halves are dressed run less risk of their crossdresser being tempted to the dark side.

I knew Emma was a wife who enjoyed the sexy side but didn't realise she was so kinky lpl