By: Sindy

Subject: Other t girls...

I thought I'd throw another question out there - how does everyone feel about what Davina mentioned where crossdressers feel rejected by wives and sleep with each other, and then Sarah mentioning he flirts with others because he's bi and his wife doesn't glam up.

I'm not pointing at you personally either, Sarah, as it's great to get your perspective.

My own thoughts are that this isn't much different than a man sleeping with a younger women because his wife got old. Or sleeping with a thin women because his wife got fat. I don't think that a wife not accepting crossdressing makes it okay for a guy to go off and seek approval with someone else. I think he should accept the person he married and her limits on the dressing or leave and go sleep with men as a single person.

I also don't agree with online sex talk between crossdressers, even for fun. I wonder how many of these men would approve of their wives having sex chats with another man online. Would that be okay? What if they met up? Surely, she's allowed to sleep with other men because your crossdressing is a turn off and she's entitled to sex with a non crossdresser?

To me, there's no logic behind this reasoning and these men are just plain old cheats.

Thoughts?