Steam my clothing do not steam your boobs they will be destroyed

You steam your tits? Not tried that.

It can be very kinky if both the good lady and myself are in lingerie. We can have a very special night together wink wink. But that’s between married couples so why not. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom and is very enjoyable. Coleen

Some of my best friends are perverts Emma. Hang on, all of my friends are perverts! 🙈

Oy we're not perverts sounds like you lot are wearing knickers to cure erection problems 🤣

Emma (Wife)

Hours?

Erectile problems wear knickers stockings and high heels and badoing it will stay up for hours 😂

Let’s just be grateful the ad isn’t ‘erectile problems?? have you considered...wearing your wife’s underwear?’. That would be awkward to explain.

Haha yes love having the wives comment here .. Hang on its 13:20 I'm watching football its half time and what advert is on.. Do you have errection problems? Why is that on this time of day. Loads of kids watching.. Dad what's that mean 🙈 Back to the wives great having them comment her is fab and seeing an insight to their level of acceptance. Even better to read they've fully embraced the kinky side to cross dressing. Agree.. Perverts 😂

The sun is out, outside in the snowy garden buds are starting to show, I’ve just epilated my butt cheeks, all is good x

Total respect to the comments on here. I guess maybe I could say if I’m on my own then it’s more about expressing, in some form anyway, a feminine side of myself, it seems natural. If then a partner was involved in a sexual way it’s ‘kinky’ because that’s not generally been considered how ‘normal’ sex happens. But let’s not overthink it maybe - it’s great to be able to speak and hear opinions in a non-judgemental forum (you perverts). x

You've been pretty open yourself Davina we can expect it from Hannah but masturbation when dressed as a woman that's a kink and one it seems you've had since a teenager?

It is kinky if you want to see it that way.

I know there will be some t girls here who will say its far from a kink but think we see a bit of a divide? in that some of you tgirls take this much more serious than others.

I've noticed this in a lot of posts recently here.

Does the "Davina type" crossdresser treat crossdressing with a bit of wit and not as a serious thing? noting like us we have this private joke about our dressing we can laugh and joke about it and I take it Esme found it fun teasing you openly knowing the children wouldn't get the private joke yesterday in your Captain America Pjs 🤣

I'd like to see other wives views here here's mine.

Crossdressing has its serious side but easier to accept more light hearted for a wife if you can laugh about it together and not take it too seriously, hes not running off with the postman as a woman, hes not about to have a sex change its escpaism and fun for him and why not make it fun for both of you.

We have sex with him dressed and I'll agree with Hannah sex with him as a t girl hes certainly more turned on and its very enjoyable i just shut out he looks like a woman first time was in the dark so couldnt see him but could feel what he was wearing but then i was wearing lingerie also i got over it as it was pretty good sex.

So there is a kink to it i think it's kinky dressing my husband up as a woman and having sex I also feel a little bit dominant over him when he's dressed and i think I like that so another bit of kink.

Crossdressing is kinky

Emma (Wife)

Think you're the only couple here this open about the kinky side of cross dressing as a couple. I wonder are there any others who take crossdrssing to more of a level of kink? I'd just enjoy some time dressed to unwind. Davina

Crossdressing doesn't have to be kinky but with us it most certainly is a kink.

His dressing does have an element of relaxation but we're quite a highly sexed couple in our 50s and have over the last 3 years had a voyage of discovery of his dressing, web cam fun, watching guys get off over him dressed as a woman, girl on tgirl fun which i find the sex better than when hes in man mode as he's extra turned on, sex toy fun including pegging (strap on) which is most definitely kinky and no it does not make you gay to have your wife do this to you and we've both explored our sexuality around crossdressing and discovered the thing i was scared of most him being gay or bi is ok its controlled he is bi when dressed and we discovered that together and it scared me but also turned me on to see him with another t girl which again is kinky and a week later the t girl introduced me to his wife and she seduced me so we're both now card carrying bisexuals which i also think is kinky.

So in our relationship crossdressing for us has spiced things up and we are definitely a kinky couple.

For others its not about sex I know and i think that's more main stream dress to relax.

Resident Sexpert and Kinkstress

Hannah (Wife)

I reckon 🤔

Esme says if i went to fancy dress as a woman people would suss I'd dressed before

I wouldn’t say no to being either of those two at the next fancy dress party. Nooo, I mean a likeable character in a boook who happens to enjoy playing Mrs Slocombe (eh?) every now and then. Anyway. So question - if you were invited to a fancy dress party and someone suggested going as a womanly character...would you, and love it? Or would it be obvious you’d made too much effort and were relishing it far too much ?

Davina to answer one of your earlier questions, possibly an effective way to destigmatise crossdressing is to use a sympathetically drawn character as a central figure in fiction. Maybe it’s less explanatory and more revelatory. Maybe I’m blowing smoke up my arse. x

Oops sorry didn’t mean it like that. I meant in the humblest way possible, women have generally an instinctive eye for what works and what doesn’t. Grovel. Ironing? What female attire do you have that needs ironing?! My tits could do with some creases but otherwise can’t think of anything...?

Bring her along then, sure we could use some fashion advice. Maybe she could go into the local village pub first, say do you have a table for me and my girlfriends?...then we can all stumble and totter in heels and ask in a deep voice ‘table for 9 please’.