I miss Emma and Hannah like Esme and Rebecca and Sindy and a few other wifes maybe got what they needed from the site and moved on.. also like lots of t girls.

Thats the pleasing thing about the site we can talk about all sorts including masterbation and some can relate in this wide ranging subject of why do men crossdress .. some t girls don't think the site is for them some it's helped pluck up the courage to talk to their wives etc.

But onto the subject yes Coleen i think most of us t girls get off on being dressed at some point and wank off and yes it is erotic to masterbate as a couple.

All men wank I do it when I'm dressed and when as a male. And I think anyone who says they don't is telling porkies. I watched a woman sitting swinging her leg and she got faster and faster then her leg went straight. I told my wife this and she said she would be self pleasuring herself. I told her I wished I could do that and said I would have many pairs of dirty panties to wash. We are open about self help and have watched each other many times it's erotic for us both its not dirty for most of us just messy. I do not change back to male mode I did before not now.

Some do some don't It doesn't matter if you do or don't. It no longer affects me if I do but it used to make me change back if I'd cum.

Think its something at some point you all have in common and my husband gets off usually before changing back too and he says he used to feel guilty about it but doesnt any more.

He said if he masterbated when dressed he used to have to get changed back in disgust at what he'd done but now if he does get excited like that he knows taking off the makup and dress and things he will regret it 30 mins later and want to put it all back on so he says if he does masterbate dressed he either wont climax or he'll make himself remain dressed

In the early days god yes, I'd put a suspender belt and stockings on, get completely turned on and wank (it shorter to type) with a copy of Club or Mayfair etc. Models had to be fit, big boobs and wearing stockings themselves or it didn't do it for me. We males are a very visual creature and without the extra stimulus I be hard pushed to 'crack one out' anyway. I'm sort of past that now. Yes I still wank when the urge takes me but it's generally watching porn on the phone or the laptop (the girls still have to have big boobs and be wearing stockings) but dressing is a different sort of pleasure now. Its not sexual to turn me on but a bit of a release, something different, when I can look good and feel good about myself, even if I'm only sat on the sofa watching the TV in some decent lingerie and a fab dress.

Lies Davina 😜

Dreadful Emma I've never done it 🤭

Its anonymous here Hannah so who cares lol

I like to see him do it to be honest i find it kinda kinky if hes him or dressed to watch

Right thats me done on this subject getting embarased

Emma (Wife)

Nothing wrong with getting yourself off as the resident sex expert here i reccomend everyone masterbates alone or together.

Oh Emma you dirty girl its the nice quiet ones you have to watch like Emma haha.

It's certainly not cheating to play with yourself as theres no one else there unless its in front of someone else.

Hannah (wife)

Dirty the lot of you

Oh I commented first oops

Yes its perfectly normal

Haha

He read what I posted and mortified

Emma (wife)

This is a touchy subject isnt it ive had friends of mine on a girls night out discuss their boyfriends or husbands masturbation habits and catching them at it in the shower or bath or in bed or watching porn.

Id no be happy if he was (almost typed wanking oops i did can i type that word?) masturbating watching porn unless he was watching it with me.

Its not cheating to get yourself off I quite like to watch him get himself off he gets a little embarassed but i've told him to show me once and it turned me on,

He's not on here or reads this so not embarrasing him when i say ive watched him masterbate as he and as she which looked rather erotic.

And yes i do it too don't we all.

Rebecca (wife)

I agree nothing wrong with playing with yourself 😳

I wont embarrass Esme like you've embarrassed your husband but will hold my hands up i sometimes get myself off as Davina and as male me 🙄 its not cheating unless your not allowed to self love yourself lol.

Ooo or unless Davina is like another woman and i'm getting her off 🤣

I wonder if Esme thinks me getting "Davina" off is cheating 🤔 She will probably just call me a crazy fool.

If she ever comes in to comment ahem!!

Davina

OMG who doesn't do this? Masturbating isn't cheating its just getting yourself off.

Can't wait to read Hannahs take on this lol

In terms of Crossdressing links to this my husband gets turned on when he dresses and admits he masturbates when hes dressed sometimes (I've seen it with my own eyes lol) and i know he does it in manly mode (Seen that too lol).

That will embarrass him when he reads this later.

Emma (Wife)