Hi
After Hannah burst back on the scene I thought it would be worth exploring the sex and sexuality of crossdressers.
The number one misconception of wives / partners is that we dress to attract men and are, therefore, gay. I think that this view is over simplistic and ignores a whole lot of other factors that come into play. Most t girls dress for their own benefit and not that of anyone else.
Gender and sexuality are not intrinsically linked. There are gay, straight and bisexual crossdressers just as there are in any other group. I do, however, believe that increasing gender options does challenge the binary options of gay v straight. A t girl can be found attractive by straight men (https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/nov/26/boyfriend-looking-up-men-wearing-lingerie-online-is-he-gay). It is not necessarily what is in her knickers that is attractive but the highly feminine way in which she presents. This has bought into play new terms such as Gynesexual (https://www.bolde.com/gynesexual-what-how-tell/) which is the attraction to women and femininity.
I also believe that the majority of the population is not 100% straight or gay but somewhere in between (despite what they say). This is more prevalent amongst younger people who have less stigma attached to being gay, bi or whatever (https://yougov.co.uk/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2015/08/16/half-young-not-heterosexual). I do believe that attraction plays an important part in our lives and we should not limit ourselves to just to fit one held prejudice.
So Hannah and her t wife are happily exploring their sexual attraction and sexuality without the confines of the usual gender stereotypes. As they are both consenting adults, then no judgements should be made, and good luck to them. Maybe if we could all cast off our inhibitions in the same way then we'd be a lot happier than having to conform to societies rules.
We are all individual and made up of a cocktail of sexuality, gender identity, gender expression and should be treated as such. We should not judge others who don't conform with societies norms and maybe we'd all be happier if we did not have these pressures on us. If gender didn't exist and we just found people attractive how ever they identified we'd all get on a lot betters.
Try the following:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androphilia_and_gynephilia
Happy New Year.
Katie x
I am going to say I'm not het up on my sexuality, I'd freely discuss this with anyone! But not on here, it's just not the place for it, Davina has requested a few times that we don't get to deep into this subject, if anyone wants to ask me about it your quite welcome to contact me on Skype.
What I will say is that honestly I have no attraction to men, and as far as other t-girls go I'd say it's admiration for their work but nothing else, so as I've said before being able to attract a cis bisexual woman as Catriona is my biggest turn on! And that's the lesbian in me.
When are Davina and Esme getting drunk as girls again lol and will we ever get to read about their drunken debourcherie maybe a new erotic fiction thread?
Haha could do with a girls night in would be nice and the debocherie.
as you know you can raise anything on here but im hoping no one will add smutty things so maybe an erotic fiction thread isnt for here...
Why are you girls so het up on your sexuality - because we arrrrrrrrre just like pirates (thats a joke read it back with a bristol accent there you go)
I know it's if you admitted to.yourselves you're not 100% straight when you dress and you get off on being dressed yourself and some get off chatting to others who.are dressed I know all about it I've chatted to enough t girls including a few on the forum. - thats a lot to digest Hannah is anyone 100% straight Katie has brought that up before. in all intents and purpose we're straight t girls.
Don't fret about your sexuality and definitely don't bottle it up.- agreed
I think it's ok for us to admit attraction to other t girls who look convincing is it attraction or admiration .. its the same with women its admiration i think.
When are Davina and Esme getting drunk as girls again lol and will we ever get to read about their drunken debourcherie maybe a new erotic fiction thread?
Why are you girls so het up on your sexuality I know it's if you admitted to.yourselves you're not 100% straight when you dress and you get off on being dressed yourself and some get off chatting to others who.are dressed I know all about it I've chatted to enough t girls including a few on the forum.
Don't fret about your sexuality and definitely don't bottle it up.
Your wife of gf will not like you admitting to anything other than straight thoughts after all she married or wants to date a straight man but you can't help attraction to the female image. Now I'm talking other t girls and women here not men.. Men is another matter that's really bisexual as it's not the image of a woman.
Debate
Hannah (wife)
It's better when drunk as you let your inhibitions go and go for it
Hannah
Oh my you got her drunk then took advantage
She needs to try it sober lol then you can lay claim to playing as Davina with Esme xx
Emma (Wife)
She said she couldnt remember so it didnt happen.... but i know what i know lol
Cats out of the bag there Davina hope you didn't get Esm e drunk and then let Davina have her wicked way
No you're not the only wife ... Esme will kill me lol Drink was involved lol.
I don't think it all matters and is for some not part of crossdressing and as I've said he's getting sex from me as man and as tgirl so why would he seek sex elsewhere.
Am I the only wife and Hannah who has sex with my husband when he's crossdressed?
Very well put Katie.. The world and opinion is on the move.. we know more now than we did in 2017 and 2019 is now here.
Each to their own and sod the norm.
Happy New Year
Davina