Davina - Racy post for a change - I believe I’ve had one of these “blush” lets see what this is all about with reference to the post on here about wives pegging their husbands.. #kinky 

This doesnt have to be about Crossdressing i always picture Christopher Walkens voice in pulp fiction with the tale of the soldier hiding his watch up his ass so the viet kong couldnt get it .. but in terms of Chris saying the male g spot… is up.. His ass.. Sorry i’m humouring myself hearing him saying it in my head i’ll move onto the article lol - One thing i will say is there is nothing here that affects your sexuality this is something that can be achieved between husband and wife or indeed in solo play.. I've added it to sex and sexuality more for sex than the sexuality aspect tho it can make you feel a bit weird as a bloke experiancing anal play for the first time or the first few times.. Read on..

Kinky topic - Sissygasms! If you are having trouble reaching one or have no clue what this is and how much you can enjoy it, don’t worry! You can find all about it here!

Most social constructs around gender are very restrictive in their sexuality. 

Lots of rules and standards that make up for a “proper” way to enjoy sexuality and oneself. 

For many crossdressers, the love for feminine things only starts with clothes. 

But we can’t forget about one of the more obvious aspects of gender, sexuality! 

Let’s talk all about it here, without any “taboos”!

What Is a Sissygasm? 

A sissygasm is reaching sexual climax without touching your penis. 

Davina - Thats what i thought it was an “blush” have achieved this with Esme. No details!!

This is mostly achieved through anal and prostate stimulation, but there are other ways. 

Ear play or nipple play are some of the most common alternative methods. Using sex toys and edging for a long time will help you get there more easily too. 

The general rule of a sissygasm is to embrace the feelings of a naturally feminine orgasm. 

Davina - I don’t know about this but what i do know is “Chris Walken” my g spot is up my ass and having had it stimulated i had an orgam unlike one i’ve had before.

Some practices involve restraining oneself from sexual activity, whether with the aid of a chastity device or not. 

I always recommend caution and starting slowly. 

Rushing things can get you hurt and ruin the whole experience that you are looking for! 

Explore the most sensitive parts of your body carefully, minus your bits, and you will get there before you know it!

The Power of Feminine Sexuality 

As crossdressers, in spite of being assigned male at birth, we are not very fond of the masculinity others demand of us. 

Davina - I dont know about this we’re masculine 99% of the time and it has its advantages.

We have a natural tendency towards femininity that rarely gets explored. And even when we do, it is often very shyly, or in private where we are our only teachers. 

There are many reasons why this is both good and bad at the same time. First, let’s go over the nice part. 

We have no limits. 

We are alone with ourselves and our body is ours. 

Discovering new pleasure spots in your body parting from a feminine perspective is like going through puberty all over again! 

Remember the first time you felt something during your “alone time”? 

That multiplied by a thousand times! 

Followed by a warm and fulfilling sensation all over your body! 

You will not only feel like a “femme fatale” but like a goddess! 

How Can it Boost Your Feminine Energy?

As said before, achieving sissygasms will bring you much closer to the experience of going through puberty like a teen girl than you can imagine. Allowing yourself to discover your body in a girly fashion will strengthen your female persona. 

“Standards” demand that the masculine part of a sexual relationship takes up the dominant role. 

This old-fashioned statement, sadly, still rules over the growing up of many kids, which sets a constrictive and limited vision on gender and sex. Exploring the feminine sexual side of yourself is a must if you always have been drawn to femininity, in one way or the other. 

Not only you might have a great time, that’s really up to you, but it will surely make you a better lover and understand the other part of a sexual encounter.

How to Get There? 

Building up for a few days and edging can help you reach a sissygasm more easily than you can imagine. 

Playing with “pleasure spots” in your body other than your genitalia can make you sissygasms without further help. 

These are some of the non-intrusive and most common ways to sissygasm.

If you still can’t, you can always play with your prostate through your anus. If you are trying to reach a sissygasm this way for the first time, start very slowly and carefully. 

Use one of your fingers and lube to facilitate the whole process. 

I don’t recommend spending any money other than on lube to start. 

This DOES NOT mean that you should use anything phallic-like object you find lying around in your house. 

Only when you are accustomed to the size of your finger can you think of getting a small dildo! 

Practice, Practice, and Practice Girl!

Don’t be frustrated if you can’t get there at first. 

Feminine sexuality is less depicted in the media and taught thoroughly. 

You are not the first nor the last gal that ends up unsatisfied after sexual stimulation. 

Also, do not rush to get something enormous to reach a sissygasm, it doesn’t work like that. 

Try laying in different positions, never do it in a rush, and take your time to explore where it feels nicer. 

I have found that feminization hypnosis is a fun gimmick that can help you get in the right state of mind to reach climax. 

Hypnotube is my to-go site whenever I feel like taking the experience even further! 

Having a comforting voice speaking to your ear, telling you to embrace your femininity that you are trying to hold back has an unbelievable impact! 

Safety Is the Number One Mistress

As I mentioned before, when we are learning and exploring our own bodies with no one but us to guide our hands, we can hurt ourselves. 

Desire can be very powerful and lead us to commit mistakes that lead to injuries. 

Whether you are only starting to walk this path or have been having sissygasms for a long time, be cautious when looking to upgrade the experience. 

Also, when looking for dildos, look for the ones that have a base on the bottom of them. 

This will prevent your new best friend from sliding up and getting stuck in your intestines. 

The same principle applies to any other kind of toy you are looking to buy. Check also for the specs sheets on the manufacturer’s page to see if the material of which the toy is safe to use. 

And don’t forget the lube! 

I hope that this has awakened your curiosity about experiencing a female type orgasm! 

As I said, I do not only think that everyone reading this should experience it for their own pleasure, but also will change how you see sex as a whole! 

If you want to know more about it, don’t hesitate to leave a comment down below to let me know! 

Davina - Wow so there we go a racy post for the Forum to follow Kimms Cox post on pegging. I’ve only once experienced a sissygasm but not whilst crossdressed. It is hard to get over the “thing” of liking a finger up your bum or a sex toy and as Chris Walken says “Why did God put a g spot up our asses” if you experiment with this have fun be prepped for your head to pop off!!