I've been trying to figure out how to explain the feeling I get when crossdressed. It's hard to put into words and even harder for my wife to understand. I thought that maybe a better way was to explain it from a way she may understand. So this is really to all the wives and girl friends of crossdressers. Can you empathise with this?
Assume that you've been told that you cannot wear make up, that you must cut your hair short. that you cannot remove your bodily hair, that you have to wear dull, boring clothes that do not flatter your body. Imagine that your girl friends are having a night out and invite you along. How would you feel going out like that.? You are being denied the opportunity to express your femininity. What would peoples reaction be - she must be a lesbian! I wonder if she want's a sex change?
A lot of crossdressers live with this need to express their feeling of femininity, This is denied us by society. Imagine after months of denying your femininity your were able to express that femininity. How would you feel?
Katie x
Aww Esme
i was like that once and saw a) how it was effecting him and b) how it had effected me and how people.perceived me as some.librarian pleasantly surprised the day i strolled into work new hair do a dress and heels .
He's right though he won t stop.dressing if you did go back to.dresses and heels it's a bit of an addiction now and is say for Davina a coping mechanism for stress.
I still have my flats and trousers days but I've joined Davinas black tights brigade the last few weend
If lacking confidence nothing better than retail.therapy and a makeover
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Debenhams do a good joba makeover i had a lesson and he watched im sure making mental notes.I
Emm