Autogynephilia (derived from Greek for 'love of oneself as a woman') is the termcoined for
"A male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought of himself as a female", intending for the term to refer to "the full gamut of erotically arousing cross-gender behaviors and fantasies".
I was up late last night sleeping downstairs boiling hot so grabbed my laptop and went on tvchix for a late night chat and one of the fab wives from here was on line.
I was being chatted up by admirers and t-girls and told the wife about it to which she said eww..
I confided the only t-girl is do is myself and we got onto chatting about that.. she very nicely told me i was one of the "hotties" as a t-girl on tvchix and i said well I's do me lol and thats the point of this post.. I do like how i look and how i feel when I'm dressed and possibly this is where Esmes "Its a Fetish" comes from.
I do fancy myself as a woman which is part of that overall pie chart of why i dress a percentage will go down to liking how i present / look and how sexy i feel as Davina and the fact over the years i've got off on myself a lot so i have an Autogynephilia towards my fem-self my crossdressed form and persona.
Am I alone in this or do others here get off on themselves dressed?
Davina
I always get a thrill of excitement/ pleasure when I dress... pulling on my tights in the morning always gives me a little shiver 🤗
So yes, dressing for me is a huge turn-on, although I manage keep myself under control very well (a good tuck helps in that respect too!). I don't know if I 'fancy' the me in the mirror when I'm dressed, as I'm usually aware that it is me under the makeup, but sometimes I will catch a glimpse of myself and think that I do actually look pretty good, in a way that is probably very narcissistic!😮😊
I'd.agree with Colleen....to a degree. Sexual arousal was definitely there in the beginning but it was just stocking for me. Gradually things moved on and I bought bras and breast forms and more bras and more lingerie. It's only as I've got older that I've moved on again and bought wigs, dresses and shoes to get more of the 'look', sexual arousal being dressed isn't in the equation any more. However, there was one time that I did get horny when dressed. I think it was when I'd got my first corset and cinched myself in. I'd gone the whole hog, for me anyway which is basically fully dressed, wig and everything, but no makeup. My figure was definitely more womanly with my waist noticable smaller in a shorter, knee length dress. I thought I looked great and remember feeling aroused with my achievement. First and only time!
We all do get off on ourselves dressed one of the very first feelings when we started. Even if it is subconsciously. We all love it to different degrees when we are told we look very good or sexy dressed. Some people act on the praise most acknowledge that we love it deep down.