By: Katie
Subject: Communication
We had a family holiday in Snowdonia the week before last. Full of adventure (Zip wires, white water rafting, cycling etc).
Anyway my wife and I had a brief chat about crossdressing. Nothing much but she bought up the subject of my body hair (it's been trimmed) and a body scrub I'd been using. She also said she was scared of losing 'Me' which was strange.
It wasn't a long conversation and I couldn't really make all the points I wanted to so last week I wrote a long letter explaining everything about my type of crossdresser and that she wasn't going to lose me. I gave her the letter on Friday which she read and made a couple of quick comments but absolutely nothing since.
I told her I wanted to be more open in our communications. I also asked her if it's be OK to wash some of my clothes (it's OK washing them it's getting them dry by the time she gets home that's the problem), if I could shave some of my body hair and about getting stuff delivered to our home.
I don't know what to do now. Do I raise the subject again or do I leave it to her to comeback to me in her own time? I thought that by asking permission she would have to give me an answer either way but she hasn't. Is she still thinking about it or will she never come back to me? What is a reasonable time to leave it?
I'm just a little confused. Everyone says communication is important but when one person won't it makes it really difficult.
She's just carried on as if nothing has been said. I don't know if this is her way of coping (I did ask the question) or not.
Any thoughts?
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Re: Not complaining
Hi Em
We had nice weekend. Unfortunately didn't really have the opportunity to raise the subject. Kids were around the whole time which makes it difficult.
I did throw the letter away as it had been sitting on the dressing table in full sight for quite a few days. No mention was made that it had gone.
On reflection I think that maybe she doesn't want to give me 'permission' to crossdress which is maybe why she hasn't said anything. As Sindy said before maybe she just think 'for gods sake just get on with it, it your choice and your thing just don't bother bring me int it'.
I'm not going to do anything until the kids are back at school anyway so I'll bide my time. It's only a couple of weeks and I haven't dressed for the whole of the school holidays so it's not going to kill me.