I think that men are able to compartmentalise their worlds. There is a work me, football me, Dad me, husband me, mates me, crossdressing me and so on.
I don't look in the mirror and see a crossdresser staring back unless I'm dressed.
I wonder how our wives see us. Do they always see a crossdresser staring back at them or are they able to just focus on the person before them. The father, husband etc.
As many of you know I don't tak to my wife about my crossdressing. She is not involved. It's as if it doesn't exist. I think that she has forgotten about that part of my life.
Is crossdressing a constant nagging thought or one that passes only to fall into consciousness every so often?
Katie
Hi Sindy
I think that when I said forgotten I didn't literally mean forgotten what I was eluding to was not looking at me and automatically thinking 'crossdresser'. It's not the first thing she see when she looks at me. I hope she sees a caring husband, good father etc.
As you say unless something triggers the thought I think for all intense and purposes she has 'forgotten' that I am a crossdresser.
As Davina says we've had quite a few in depth chats and I do think that most crossdressers see their dressing as part of who they are but a detached part. It doesn't impinge on them being a good husband, father etc. To a degree it is a separate personaility and I definately do not have the same perspectives as Katie when I'm my male self.
Katie