Dont go Hannah we all cope differently.

Youve found something which works for you and elements of it may be of use to others.

Whens the next night in guys?

We Managed Two over Christmas and his fem Self got more Presents than him lol

Emma (wife)

Hi Hannah

Wise words.

Katie

Hi all offering appologies being to Pushy

Ive seen a few posts and I'll admit I've gone a little OTT with my suggestions.

I guess I just want to help and also help push acceptance .

I wish someone had pushed me to Where i am Now with the fun i get from his fem side Kinky as it may sound.

The Forum is all about helping come to terms with crossdressing and ladies take it at your own pace but believe me its not the end of the world to be married to a tgirl or crossdresser same thing So go your own pace believe me when you find your comfort zone in all this youll wonder what the initial worry was.

HANNAH (wife)

Ooopps Hannah

I guess we all have different diverse things around crossdressing and I guess your coping mechanism is control.

Maybe take the girls advice as far as the Forum is concerned.

Don't let this put you off posting.

Soz Hannah agree with Rebecca step off the gas a little.

Emma (wife)

Nice you got to chat today

Hannah looks like you've gone the Dom route.

I like to tease my husband about his crossdressing and it is nice to feel in control but maybe some suggestions a little too BDSM and less supportive.

I dont mean to be rude but we dont want to scare people away. Its a nice forum and blog we dont need to get too kinky or rude and hope you dont mind me saying this its been fun to tease the guys in here about camming etc but dont want to mislead people concerning the Davina type crossdresser turing it into a fetish.

Please dont take that the wrong way Hannah whatever works for you works abd you seem to enjoy it.

RebeccaRebecca (wife)

Don't think my wife will be impressed lol.

Virtual whipping by Dominatrix Prime.

I await the email eagerly lol

I think you've been well and truly spanked Davina!

Ok

Esme don't take any crap off this one I can tell he wants you to be Dom when he's dressed but will say he doesn't

Have fun and make him earn his girly nights in.

Hannah (wife)

I know Hannah pulling your leg .. Me and the wife look forward to the email (too rude for here lol)

You have the crown of Dom Wife in here for sure.

I'm gonna catch up with the other posts now as have a few notifications .. nice to chat with you and promise to Skype as Davina some time with you for a chat.

Not that sort of toys Davina don't play innocent I've read all the posts here (gspot) I'll email you

Hannah (wife)

My hair got on her nerves but nice to kiss. Have to ask her

Yes no rudeness here its a clean Forum email me if you like lol

I have Star Wars toys in the attic.

You've proven a pussy lol so I bet you're a sissy submissive if Esme came Dom on you.

Spice things up you've kissed did she enjoy it?

I have more suggestions depends if you want them here or email as involves toys maybe too rude here?

I dont think of myself as a Sissy when dressed and not sure what Esme would make of me teasing people on cam.

But agree we need to think of things to do on our girls nights in to vary them.

Thanks for your suggestion lol Mistress Hannah lol

One of the things yes. Again makes him nervous makes him submissive as payment for my acceptance makes him a sissy.

Has turned him on and me making him do as requested on cam. Won't get too rude here.

Esme may like it.

Lol ok is that what you make your husband do flirt on webcam crossdressed

I didn't say chat I said flaunt and flirt as Davina see that you can be desired see how it makes you feel and how Esme feels as being out you will be admired if you look convincing you need to be prepared.

She will have to let me know if this is something she would think of doing in a future girls night in ie being more dom.

No I'm not writing off chatting on web cam its a step short of being out and yes could get peoples opinion how i looked.

Correct Esme is your mistress and I'm sure she has this in her and will enjoy you obeying her.

I see you're not writing off going on web cam you want to flaunt Davina don't you.

I thought you weren't my Mistress lol this would be entirely upto Esme

You're not my submissive so less of the cheek you belong to Esme.

Now about you flaunting yourself.

Esme needs to put you on webcam you need the opinions of others seeing you as Davina and Esme needs to see that there are people who will fancy you as Davina.

She will tell you what to do on webcam and you will do exactly what she says including mincing about, adjusting your stocking tops, showing your long legs and agreeing to any requests people make over cam you need to be in character as Davina and flirt as instructed. Understood?

OMG Yes mistress haha

Omg you are a pussy .. excuses excuses!

Not only woukd I have made you get the take away that 2 seconds but id hope you flaunted those long legs you say you have. Earn the girls night in.

2nd scenario Esme would decide it of course as she's in charge but if she told you to get in the car as Davina you must do it if she's willing to do it you make no excuses get your crossdressed backside out like you've been told.

OK yes i admit going out is something i think i want to do at some point no idea why maybe to feel being out instead of being in.

Yes i could have easily got that take away seeing i was by the door it was a "hi thanks bye" 2 second thing.. sure i could have pulled that off. but what if a neighbour had been out there?

Going out in the car trickier id have to leave the house into the car assuming id go in the back darker windows lol and she could have driven with me in the car gone in the take away place and driven home then negotiated back into the house odds on neighbours seeing me would be low in the dark winter night agreed but not upto me. My luck friends would have been at the take away too noticed someone in the car .. Me as Davina.

You are a pussy ! Esme tell him he can skype me as a man.

Ok suggestions.

You wanna go out right?

So Esme needs to make you go out.

Esme he will squirm you will see him more nervous than ever you will love this control.

She should have either made you answer the door to the delivery take away person or put you in the car and driven you to go get a takeaway you could have stayed in the car but would have been out and seen people walk past and they'd have seen you but who in a glance woukd tell you're a man.

Lol no I'm a Pussy isnt that what you called me in another post.. Not camming as a man wife wouldnt like that .. I'll Skype you as Davina one day tho.. So whats your suggestions?

Ok cool pity you're not dressed you owe me a Skype chat Davina as Emma and Rebecca have had one are you brave enough to Skype as a man?

Just checking in as saw lots of new notifications yes on line for a few mins whilst watching NFL wifes at her mums works drink thing but im not dressed got to pick the kids up soon last day in school.

Oh wow are you online now are you dressed?

I might regret this such as??

Maybe your wife needs to find her Dom side and be Dom with you and do things to you or get you to do things to her for girls night in payment..

Hannah (wife)

Omg ak at Hannah trying to pass on her Dom knowledge to my wife.

And as long as it's take Hannah and not graphic add what you like it's your Forum.

We've got a joint wardrobe sharing dresses and lingerie, coats etc.

So just a kiss you two nothing more?

Don't forget Esme with him dressed you can make him your bitch or your sissy get him to do anything you demand.

This goes past what Davina intended for this forum as support I'm debating if I should add how I Dom my husband when he's crossdresses or not as don't want to scare others off lol I can get quite kinky and get a thrill out of our deal.

I accept his dressing and when he's dressed I get to be the boss.

So remember Esme you're in charge ok.

I left the door a little ajar but she decided not to go in!

Be good to get them down and washed - can get a little musty in the loft. I remember one of my wife's main concerns was how clean my clothes were if I stored them in the loft. I had to explain that I did wash them!

Katie

Yep at least 30 dresses all discarded by my wife over the years all in a suitcase in the attic.. she did say they needed ironing and i should put them back in the wardrobe on the stairs so we could share dresses..lol So will do that after Christmas.

You missed out on an "in" there to discuss crossdressing with her again Katie

Hi Davina and Esme

Glad to hera it all went well. 30 dresses! How much wardrobe space does Davaina need? That's more than my wife and me put together ;-).

I've got no chance of sharing. My wife is an 8/10 and I'm 16/18. I did confess to her the other day that I went out wearing some of her clothes. She looked a bit puzzled then I told it was a pair of socks she'd put away in my draw. Hadn't relaised until it was too late!

Katie

Hangover from he'll never drinking again blah blah until next time.

Glad you had a good night and glad to hear of plans for the next time.

So what you gonna do next time ?

Got to vary these things.

You still tempted to try the outside world?

Smoochie Smoochie lol is that as far as it went? You don't have to tell if you don't want to lol.

Hannah (wife)

Thanks Em it really is worth sharing this with your wife or girlfriend and finding the right path to explain it.

Still it must have been surreal for her seeing me try on about 30 dresses and high heels but I value her opinion on how I look although no plans of going out dressed still want to look the part.

She also said about our next girly night in in January woop woop lol

I coy t myself very lucky to have her accepting of this side to me xxx

And she's wearing a dress today claimed back (borrowed) lol

Glad you had a nice night in (and a kiss)

Well done

Emma (wife)

P.s next time take him out lol

Mmm kissing but my hair bugged her when we did it (note to self next time she offers a snog have a bobble to hand to tie hair back lol)

Ps I kept one or two short ones you never know when you feel like dressing a lil slutty haha

Oh and she claimed back quite a few dresses and she tried some on too mmm love her in dressed note to wife wear more dresses she also pointed out some of what I deemed dresses were tops to wear with jeans or leggings haha.

Looks like we might be having more girly nights in which is fab so nice to unwind and not nervous at all dressed in front of her like I was the first time and so nice to just dress and relax as opposed to working whilst dressed the night seemed to go on and on.

Then time to reflect back in male mode lol spent the night dressed as a woman a few years ago id be thinking why did I do that but those thought are behind me it's just something I enjoy doing a part of me.

We also got an invite to a party over christmas they said it could be fancy dress .... no chance

Hi ladies

Thank you for your messages

It was a lovely evening, davina tried on all her dresses, it was fun seeing how different styles suited her more. Yes some dresses were way to short lol.

Yes we did have a little smooch, felt a little strange but not horrible. Planning another night in for jan.

Esme x

Hi girls thanks for the messages and we had a nice night in.

I managed to thin out a few dresses (ones she said were too short lol)

Had a go at contouring too first on myself and it looked ok especially with the new wig my wife picked out sorta brown with blonde streaks.

Then had a go at contouring on my wife .. did her full makeup but contoured too high but we know for next time.. So much easier on yourself.

Wine and two chick flicks and a take away (delivered) no I didn't go out dressed lol.

But wife answered the door to the delivery guy it was like 2 seconds "hiya thanks byebye" lol i think i coukd have got away with that haha.

So a nice night in with my wife as Davina and hope she enjoyed it too.. She's fast asleep on the setee as imim taking makeup off and having a quick bath and moisturize lol

Night all hope you girls had a good night and home safe tucked up in bed.

Daviba5

Have fun guys x

If you get a hot flush Davina you can always step out the back garden in the dark to cool down then you can say you went out on your girls night in haha.

Have fun Esme you're in charge of him or her tonight.

Rebecca (wife)

Work do for me tonight too yay

Have a nice night in or out if you're feeling brave and Esme relax and have fun.

Got to run I'm out from 16:00 till late

Hannah (wife)