By: Sindy

Subject: Gender issue?

We've all been busy I assume, which is good as if we're sitting around thinking about crossdressing all day then we need help lol! Anyway, here's a question for you today. I have seen this written a lot. Thoughts are appreciated.

The question is: Are ALL crossdressers dealing with a gender issue?

Yes, it's been repeated many times here that it's purely fun. My husband says the same. Over and over. And yet, so many others say cross dressing, even for fun, is a gender issue.

I know you might hate me, but I'm inclined to agree. And not because I think you're a bunch of sissies who are pretending to be men. I mean, because I think you were little boys with a more balanced idea of gender. You liked things about girls. You admired them. You wanted to experience things from the other side.

We girls do this too.

So I do think it's a gender thing. I think it's light and fun and you're certainly not TG (in my mind, only those in the wrong body should be considered trans), but behind it is a more serious need to express something of yourselves that society says you're not allowed. Traits that girls seem to have. Testosterone just comes along and complicates the whole thing for you.

Anyway, back to busy. :-)