I've actually chatted to Sam the girlfriend a while ago ion TVChix.

Her Boyfriend looks quite stunning and passable who would notice him in public as a guy.

over 250,000 men in the UK escape the pressures of male life byt crossdressing. I would say there is a lot more than this crossdressing to some extent in the UK.

This guy lives openly as a transvestite so not the same as us mere crossdressers.

Also he's tried to be the big man but feels the fem side is more him where I'm the opposite as the fem side when I crossdress is an ocassional escapism from the big man.

He was 8 when he started dressing i think i was about 6 dressing to some extent tights and silky things so like him i've crossdressed for 30 years and it has been on and off 30 years of pent up emotion, worry and guilt and pent up "Tranyism" when there's periods you cant find time or opportunity to crossdress and find it hard to talk about.

All so complicated for something so uncomplicated compared to more pressing things in life

He feels he could have been a woman or should have been a woman I dont feel this and he loves feeling feminine as a natural thing .. maybe us mere crossdressers do too as part of our escapism a release from the stress of being and acting the big man alpha male