The advantage of the kids being a bit older is they can stay home together whilst we go out somewhere for an hour or 5..
The disadvantage is nights in dressed could be a thing of the past as they could say we don't need to go to baby sitters any more..
Anyway as in the title its good to talk, me and Esme went out out yesterday for a few drinks in our local a 35 min walk nice view and beer via Phoene app .. Had a few and got onto the subject of all sorts of things and one of them cross dressing.
It a good to open up and discuss and reassure every now and then on the subject..
Its mad the angst it caused early on in our relationship me admitting I was a cross dresser but looking back its was like now few and far between the urge came and went until the time she asked to dress me as a woman which introduced me to makeup and how I could look..
That now is my problem I have to go all the way makeup wig clothing or not at all and that
Means shaving and time to dress unobstructed by the kids and work video calls..
I need to make time next week before the summer hols. One more chill session but I'm longing to have some quality time dressed, have a good sort out of all those dresses in the attic and see how I can style and look in the other two new wigs I bought 18 months ago.
Its reassuring talking that Esme is still OK with me cross dressing so its good to every now and then touch base on the subject however hard it is to bring up..
How's everyone else doing?
I know some of you feel you can't talk to your other halves about it and some struggle to bring it up after telling but we tgirls like to talk and reassure our wives and gfs about what we do.. Good to get things off your chest on both sides.
Funny enough we have talked more but this week I made a major error. One night when the kids were away I told my wife I was going upstairs to "change" meaning I was putting on Sarahs things. I came down in silk pyjamas over bra and panties. My wife was shocked and after a few minutes became tearful. She had not understood what I meant by "change" and I should have made it clear! After a few uncomfortable minutes I changed into male pyjamas and we talked more. It was not the clothes but the unexpected sight of me dressed that she was not prepared for and we have agreed to use a code so she can be prepared for me being dressed. In some ways it was good, as we talked more and came to a much closer understanding, but I realised I took advantage of the situation and should have asked her if she minded before I dressed.