Well I realise I've only been a member for a couple of days but already finding this site to be a haven and I'm checking in as frequently as possible to explore and learn. I'm really grateful to Davina who established this site and for introducing me to it without a doubt.

Whilst in online chat with her in I touched on a subject that she suggested would be good for a forum post. To be honest there's a few things I'd like to write about but I'll stick to the principal reason for now.

As no doubt others will relate I began dressing up more often in lingerie after marriage given the access to a ready supply of skimpy things and like lots of men found such garments so appealing. Rather than just feeling them my when my wife wore them (rarely it should be said and many items I purchased for her were just used drawer liners) I eventually wondered what they would feel like to wear myself... leading to Davina being conceived.

Over a period of time I introduced them to our now less frequent love making (blame parenthood) and showed her how to tease me by rubbing them on me etc eventually leading to getting her to put me her knickers and hold up stockings on and later a lycra bodyshaper/teddy.

I should at this point state that she had told me about a weeks holiday she had when single with a g/friend of hers and the b&b only had a double bed. This led to them turning over into one and another leading to them holding hands, then kissing before playing and bringing each other to climax.

My dressing in her undies etc brought about an opportunity for me to tuck myself and 'create' a vagina of sorts. She went completely along with it and licked away acknowledging that it was kind of like licking a real woman. During another session she put me some lipstick on and some false nails and on another, after a bout of sexting while I was out doing some photography work, when I got home we raced to the bedroom and she pulled this satin dress over my head and we had the most amazing sex.

Fast forward to a year or two later and I took the chance knowing she was out one Friday evening for a drive, but unbeknown to me she came home very early. I had made the crazy error of thinking I'd get home first and returned in full femme mode at which she absolutely freaked! The next week or two were horrendous and she barely acknowledged my presence. Eventually time healed things and life returned to normal but the events of that evening have never been discussed.

Over the years either at home (along time ago) and more recently on holiday when in L/Vegas and when we went to Thailand she said she'd like to go to drag shows though the ones in Thailand are far from drag!

I try to rationalise this mixed outlook and what it is about my dressing (maybe it was just seeing me fully femme?) that she doesn't seem to accept. Since then we haven't explored using what little lingerie she still has though I'm slowly coming round to reintroducing it ......in hope.

Thanks for reading x