Two sides to every story but no good if people don’t debate and talk

The title of this post is the beginning

I have my thoughts on Crossdressing.. It’s just something I do, I enjoy, I sometimes get a kick out of, a sexy feeling, a turn on, relaxation, stress-busting and escapism..

10-12 times per year if lucky… would I dress more if I could .. Sure I would but have a duty to be a man 99% of the time in work, for my wife, for my family and wouldn’t sacrifice that by over doing the crossdressing and don’t need to overdo the crossdressing as once satisfied the feeling or urge to want to do it can subside.

We can overdo the crossdressing ie dressing two days in a row the 2nd day may be for the sake of it with the urge satisfied the day before and working from home 9-1430 the one day may be 9-11 the next as you just don’t feel like it.

Suppressing it for a long period of time isn’t good.

Some wives accept it see it as “something he does” and “Harmless” and some see more in it and look for more in it and as we’ve seen agony aunts are 9 times out of 10 against crossdressing blaming the man for infecting a relationship with crossdressing.

Sindy makes some great points which I can agree with and some from my own point of view I disagree with as I see what I do as very simplistic but I don’t want to put Sindy or other wives off commenting as I can only comment from my point of view and what I’ve learnt from chatting to other T-girls .. we are all very different and motivated differently why we dress.

For me and hopefully Esme it’s just something I do nothing to worry about and I’m grateful for Esmes acceptance and the journey we’ve been on with my crossdressing, likewise Emma and Rebecca and Hannah on here have accepted dressing to a different degree and for different reasons but its all around really good debate and communication.

We will never all agree as we’re all so different but it’s good to debate and agree / dissagree.

Davina