By: Katie

Subject: Tipping point

Hi Sindy

I'm fascinated by the fact that you'll accept a man in women's clothing as long as he still looks like a man. You mentioned that the wig, make up and false boobs are the point when he becomes to feminine.

What I was wondering is what you think your tipping point is.

This morning (in drab now) I was wearing a black pencil skirt, burgundy blouse, heels, lingerie and tights. I had no wig or make up on with a slight stubble (no gasps of horror Davina!). I did, however, have my false boobs on to fill out the bra. Would that have been acceptable or is it just the boobs that would have tipped it over the edge?

You see to me the top half would have been wrong because there were no boobs in either the bra or to make the blouse fit properly. It is after all cut to include boobs.

My guess it that at some point it becomes overload for you and a man switches from being a man to being a woman.

Guy's have long hair, they wear nail varnish and make up. They shave their bodies and groom their eyebrows. All acceptable but would a guy in a skirt with make up be OK? Would a guy with long hair in a blouse and tight jeans be OK? Would a guy dressed as a woman but with a beard and no make up be OK?

Does the 'eeeeewwwwww.........' feeling start to grow as more items are added or is it just OK up to a point and then 'Noooooo.....'?

I'm wondering if had your husband looked awful dressed as woman (man in a dress) then would it have been more acceptable?

You might overtime have actually helped him become more 'feminine' and without noticing actually made him into the very thing that makes you go 'eeeewwwwww' without even noticing or caring.

Maybe this is how some women cope with the shock. They think well 'X' if you're going to have to dress as a woman then I'm going to make you look as a passable as possible. It's the mothering / nurturing gene coming into play.

Just a thought.