Another Video - Before I start my summary let me talk direct to the wives "We want you to willingly wear sexy Lingerie for us, that is matching lingerie, stockings with heels, basques and not necessarily as daily lingerie wear but as a surprise in the bedroom but if you do wear it out and about telling us you're wearing stockings under your dress / skirt or sexy lingerie it will turn us on"
A question for the wives and girlfriends - "Why don't you wear sexy lingerie for us?" - Are we asking too much that we get to see and feel you in sexy lingerie? See my other post from December are you embarrassed buying lingerie? Trust me if yu need to spice things up or just keep your men happy Sexy lingerie goes a long way.
Some of us wear sexy lingerie ourselves as you don't not to say we'd stop but as kids we tried sexy things on as where will we see a woman or feel lingerie on someone (including us) as kids) and where our wives dont wear sexy lingerie its the same reason.. This may enter the halls of kink or fetish but we're trained from an early age to love seeing women in sexy lingerie.. and it feels great on.
My comments on the video
1. Crossdressing and Transvestisim is different - Wrong its all in the definition and face it call yourself a crossdresser, t girl tranny etc we're transvestites we all wear womens clothes and some of us present as women when we can and enjoy it
2. Kinky aspects of wearing lingerie - more so than dressing fully i used to only wear lingerie and get myself off more of a kinky back then than it is not but i still feel sexy in lingerie
3. BDSM and forced feminisation - This exists and sounds pretty kinky and ok to me if my wife forced me to crossdress i'd love it albeit I'm a crossdresser so would welcome it
4. Its Gay - no it's not!! its lingerie its clothing it could be a red blooded alpha male who cant stop thinking of sexy women in lingerie putting it on himself feeling aroused and sexy back to kinky maybe
5. Anal play - This does not mean you're gay or want a man to have sex with you.. I've been here through more guilt enjoying anal play than i had for being a crossdresser but i'm over it i like my backdoor played with it feels nice not to bee too graphic fingers ... toys we have a g spot there God knows why maybe a joke on us men but its there trust me
6. Want to be women - many men who just crossdress in lingerie are far from wanting to be women that's not on their agenda and not on most of our agendas
7. Women will come round to the idea in the end - this needs a lot of conversations so maybe shes got this in the wrong order and it may even be a generational thing or an open mindedness thing on the wifes part to play here
8. Shame - sod the shame its fun
9. TV programs with men crossdressed (not Ru PAuls drag race but something else) - Test the waters on her thoughts of men crossdressed but remember those men aren't her husband or boyfriend it may be ok them doing it but not you.. this is an arggghhhhh moment
10. Educate your partner in crossdressing - easier said than done to have these good honest conversations in how you feel yourself about crossdressing - get your own head in order first about why you do it shake the guilt and shame and get your reasons straight before engaging your wife or gf
11. Sexy lingerie for men not come across this but i'd prefer a nice pair of lacy boxers or french knickers any day
Onto the video