We’ve all heard of, or experienced, the pink mist which descends on many of us crossdressers when we’re en femme or when we’ve been able to talk to our wives and GF’s and made some progress with acceptance of our Crossdressing.
In terms of opportunity to dress, for most of us it seems, this pink mist usually starts descending a few days or hours before we start getting ready or know we have an opportunity to crossdress and picture what dress or skirt, sexy lingerie, hosiery, makeup and heels plus accessories we’re gonna wear.
Once the mist appears especially if we’ve not dressed for a while we can think of nothing else but getting dressed; getting made up and letting our alter-egos escape for a few hours. It’s been 2 weeks since I last dressed and I’ve got the urge...
Excitement and anticipation, the cocktail of feelings of excitement and euphoria sweep us along inexplicably.. Why do we Crossdress? Who cares?
Our minds will be in a whirl, our senses dulled by the euphoria, yet invigorated by the feelings which we can barely control. When cross dressed, we can feel different temporarily and relaxed, sexy, turned on, calm, de-stressed...
So, what do we do? Well some of us
Well, one thing (chatting to lots of tgirls) Crossdressers do when dressed is to sometimes take risks; at times very big risks. Risks that when we are not dressed en femme we would never contemplate; it would be irrational, and, well, downright risky!
Some examples, t girls have shared with me when en femme and some I’ve done myself:
Risk #1: Getting dressed and going for a drive in the car.. what if someone recognised the car? What if neighbours saw you leave the house dressed to get to the car or saw you coming back? I’ve not done this one myself.
Risk #2: Going into the office / work dressed when no one is there. I’ve heard of a few t girls who have dared to go into the office on the weekend when no ones there and dress.
Risk #3: Crossdressed at home and waited until the last minute to rush back to male mode just before wife or GF got home (I’ve done this one loads of times before Esme knew I dressed)
Risk#4: Crossdressed as payment for house sitting. I’ve heard so many t girls who have admitted to house sitting or checking up on family, friend or neighbours house and decided to try things on or get fully en fem.
Risk#5: Leaving the hotel dressed. One I’ve done when away with work leaving my phone charger in the car I was in the hotel in my highest heels in my room … do I take off all the makeup etc or risk leaving my room and going to the car who cares if someone sees me I look ok.. Lots have done this or gone for a walk around the hotel en fem.
Risk#6: Going for a walk locally crossdressed. The closest thing I’ve done to this is turning all the lights out in the house when dressed at night and gone out the back garden in the dark and once put the bins out as Davina lol, (The noise the bins made eeek) but some t girls take it a bit further and go for a walk around the block.. what if a neighbour saw you leave or return?.. risk is low in winter months with curtains closed in the street unless someone came home in the car or came out of the house as you were passing...
Risk#7: Meeting other t girls. I met a t girl as male me with him in male mode also. He was purging some brand new things (Fake boobs, a wig, some heels) and asked if I would like them so I said ok and ran it by Esme. It was nice meeting someone else and talking about crossdressing not giving the risk a thought of what if he’s a nutter, what if he followed me home and found out where I lived? He didn’t lol but is meeting others and outing yourself a risk?
Risk#8: Going shopping en fem. I’ve heard from lots of T girls who go out enfem shopping or to a makeup counter to have a MAC makeover in an open shop. Brave if you ask me to do this. Risk of abuse more than anything.
Risk#9: Meeting other t girls dressed in hotels or Tgirl venues. Lots of T girls have done this dressed and what’s the risk? Nothing if it’s purely meeting to dress together and talk about crossdressing just meeting another t girl, but some t girls have intentions of seduction in mind which is a risk and awkward if you don’t reciprocate finding yourself in an awkward situation of a t girl coming onto you and there you are dressed can’t just up and leave without getting changed “Awkward”.
Risk#10: Webcam chatting. Yep done this with some wives and some T girls and I suppose the risk is you open the cam and its someone you know so risk of being outed but then if you’re chatting to someone in the T world and you recognise them you’re both outed. Even worse is working from home en fem and you join a web ex meeting and realise you’re broadcasting live to work as a t girl.. Yep I’ve done that and got away with it lol.
Any other Risks you’ve taken we could add here?
Davina
Must admit wev e done some of the list of can be quite exciting being in public and worrying how people may react but looking the part helps. A lot of us here have come a long way accepting crossdressing and allowing it to grow.
Rebecca (wife)
You've pushed most of that Emma hope you're having a good Girly night in
WE were hoping for a night out hubby and wife but no baby sitters :(
Risk #1: Getting dressed and going for a drive in the car.. We've done that
Risk #2: Going into the office / work dressed when no one is there. Not done that
Risk #3: Crossdressed at home and waited until the last minute to rush back to male mode. He says he did this a lot of times before i found out.
Risk#4: Crossdressed as payment for house sitting. He's admitted to doing this.
Risk#5: Leaving the hotel dressed. We've done that.
Risk#6: Going for a walk locally crossdressed. We've done that at a local out of town shopping centre after hours.
Risk#7: Meeting other t girls. Kinda done this when he went for a makeover there were other t girls there we had a chat.
Risk#8: Going shopping en fem. Not done this technically lol the shops were shut.
Risk#9: Meeting other t girls dressed in hotels or Tgirl venues. Not done this but contemplating trying BNO / Sparkle those sorts of things maybe.
Risk#10: Webcam chatting. Yep done this with Davina x.
Risk#11. I've been for a makeover in my home town. Not in our home town but did go for a makeover i recommend it both you and your wife could have one together and some pics.
Risk#12. I've been to see a personal shopper. Not done this.
Risk#13. Booked an appointment with a make up artist. Not done this
Emma (Wife)
I don't think they would know me either to be honest, one if my friends on fb put a post up saying they where out in a shopping centre fully made up and dressed, they bumped into someone they knew, but that person hadn't got a clue who my friend was, didn't even bat an eye, if your reasonably good at your look then the muggles walk right past you, not a clue.
Showing your face is a risk i agree.
Could say if people recognise you what are they doing on here or tvchix et c
Still think the risk is small as one theyr e on a crossdressing site and two they'd have to recognise you.
I don't think anyone would recognise me.
I just realised, a risk thats not on your list, it's possibly not a big one in the grand scheme of things, but showing my face openly on here and face book and other social media, there is always the risk of someone that knows me probably recognising my smile more than anything.
But as i have mixed more with crossdressers and transgender people and seeing how they conduct themselves at different levels of either making themselves visible online or out in public I've become more confident about being Catriona, and less concerned about someone i may know realising it's me.
I'm not saying I want to be Catriona any more than I am already but just easier being her.
Cat x
Risk 11. I've been for a makeover in my home town. About 30 mins walk from where I live.
Risk 12. I've been to see a personal shopper. Went in drab, dressed there and then went home in drab.
Risk 13. Booked an appointment with a make up artist. Unfortunately it was cancelled but sent her a photo of me dressed.
Katie x
I've got to admit I have only taken one or two of these risks.
Going out in the car I've never done, the logistics of doing this carries a very high percentage of being caught or spotted getting into the car, we live in a terraced house and my two nearest neighbours are either constantly in and out of their house or can see my car from inside their front rooms, my next door but one nieghbour is a nice fella but very nosey! He has a mirror positioned from where he sits so he can see down the road, and hence has a good view of my car, he never closes his curtains! I'd have to be a ghost to get out unnoticed. Lol.
The riskiest thing I've done whilst dressed is sitting in the back garden fully dressed and made up, it was a lovely sunny day so I decided to try and sit in a reasonably secluded spot and had a brew, if someone had just happened to look out of their back window long enough they would of seen me, especially walking into or out of the back door, I've got to say it was a nice feeling to be outside dressed in a skirt.
I did question myself why did I risk it? Well maybe it was a bit of wanting to be seen, but also a longing to experience being out of the house in the open air but still relatively safe.
The only other risk is leaving it till the last minuet to get changed mainly because of wanting make the most of it, not to get caught so much.
Never met another tgirl face to face dressed or otherwise, I wouldn't mind though, just to chat over a drink and not just online.
So there you go, I've not taken an awfully lot of risks to date.
Cat xx