Chatting to our latest member who wants to tell her wife hes a crossdresser I explained the pie chart and how to visualise why you dress in percentages.
This can vary on your crossdressing journey and things can be added and taken away.
For example for me
30% escapism from male life this can be broken down further into stress relief and relaxation, 30% liking Womens clothes how they feel and look again breaks down to certain types and lingerie etc, 20% loving Women and their femininity maybe broken down to jealousy of how they can dress maybe joining the 30% liking their clothing, 10% feeling sexy dressed and 10% enjoying crossdressing.
That's an example maybe I will break it down further an explain it more and maybe my percentages are off a bit but we can change those over time.
So T-girls what makes you tick? why do you dress and it doesn't have to be the same headlines as me you may have other reasons?
Davina
I've never felt hatred for cross dressing but the guilt most definately not because I'm a cross dresser but because I've had to put my wife through the social stigma of being married to a cross dresser Now I have no guilt and she understands my cross dressing escapism which I'm missing.. But also scary as waaaaay to much time and effort into work beyond the stress into hyper work mode.. I need a break