Davina - This will be interesting to see what the writer thinks on this.

As crossdressers, we get to a point where we feel addicted to it- I’m personally guilty. 

It’s so fun and stimulating for us that it’s hard to stop. 

For many of us, crossdressing is an outlet to express our true selves. 

Davina - and a way we can escape our male selves

It can be difficult to give that up, even if we want to. So why is it so hard to stop crossdressing?

There are a few reasons why it’s so hard to stop crossdressing. 

For one, crossdressing is a way to escape the reality of our lives. 

It’s a way to forget about our problems and just have fun. 

It’s also a huge confidence booster. 

When we’re crossdressing, we feel more attractive and confident. 

We get compliments and attention from others, which many of us don’t get in our everyday lives. 

If you’ve found yourself in the same situation, don’t worry. 

You’re not alone. 

Many crossdressers have difficulty giving it up, even if they want to. 

Just remember that it’s okay to take a break from crossdressing if you need to. 

There’s no shame in taking some time for yourself. 

We all deserve happiness and confidence, so don’t be afraid. 

1. Crossdressing can provide an escape from the stresses of daily life

It’s no secret that many people find relief and even enjoyment from crossdressing. 

After a long day at work or taking care of the home and family, it can be nice to relax in some lingerie or your favorite dress. 

For some people, this is simply a way to let off some steam and unwind. 

But for others, crossdressing can provide a much-needed escape from the stressors of daily life. 

For transgender individuals, in particular, crossdressing can be a vital outlet. 

In an unwelcoming and hostile world, dressing up in clothing that makes you feel good about yourself can be empowering. 

It can support you to feel more in control of your own life and body and retell you that the expectations of others do not define you. 

Of course, there are also those who crossdress for sexual reasons. Whether it’s because they find it arousing or simply enjoy the sensation of wearing something different, sexual pleasure is a common motivator for crossdressing. 

Whatever the reason, it’s clear that crossdressing can be beneficial for many people. 

However, there are some challenges to consider. 

For instance, crossdressing can be expensive, depending on how elaborate your wardrobe is. 

It can also be time-consuming, as you may need to spend time shopping for clothes or doing your makeup. 

Additionally, if you’re not careful, crossdressing can lead to isolation from friends and family who don’t understand or accept your hobby. 

Overall, crossdressing is a personal decision that should be made based on what is right for you. 

If you find that it brings you joy and relief from stress, then it may be worth pursuing, despite the potential drawbacks. 

However, if you’re struggling to balance crossdressing with other aspects of your life, it may be best to reconsider how much time and effort you put into it. 

Ultimately, the most important thing is to do what makes you happy and feel comfortable in your own skin. 

2. It can be a way to express yourself and your creativity

Crossdressing can be a form of self-expression and creativity. 

It lets us express ourselves in a way we may not be able to do with our everyday clothes. 

It can also be a way to discover our gender identity and expression. 

For many people, crossdressing is a fun and harmless way to express themselves. 

However, some people crossdress because they feel they need to or are uncomfortable with their assigned gender. 

For these people, crossdressing can become a compulsion or an addiction. 

It can be hard for them to stop crossdressing, even if they want to.

There are many reasons why someone might find it difficult to stop crossdressing. 

Some people may feel like they are not really themselves unless they are crossdressing. 

Others may feel like they need to crossdress in order to be accepted by others. 

Still, others may have a deep-seated fear of being found out or rejected if they stop crossdressing.

Whatever the reason, it can be very difficult to break the habit of crossdressing. 

If you are struggling to stop crossdressing, it is important to seek help from a counselor to help you figure out your motivations and find other ways to express yourself.

3. For some people, it’s a way to feel more comfortable in their own skin

• It allows them select clothes colours that match their skin colour; thus, they look more attractive.

• Crossdressing also provides a way of hiding their masculine features and showing off their feminine side.

• It is a form of sexual expression. Crossdressers feel more sexually aroused when they dress up in women’s clothes.

• For some crossdressers, it is also a way of dealing with gender dysphoria. Dressing up in the clothes of the opposite sex helps them feel more comfortable in their own skin.

• It allows them to wear makeup and other accessories that make them look more feminine.

Crossdressing is not just about wearing the clothes of the opposite sex. 

It is also about adopting the mannerisms and behaviors associated with the other gender. 

This can be difficult to give up, especially if it has been a part of your life for a long time. 

4. It can be comforting and satisfying to dress up in women’s clothing

Crossdressing is comforting and satisfying to dress up in women’s clothing because of the following reasons:

•  The first reason is that crossdressing allows men to feel feminine and pretty. Wearing women’s clothes makes them feel good about themselves and boosts their confidence.

• Second, men who crossdress enjoy the attention they receive from others, especially members of the opposite sex. Dressing up in public usually turns heads and gets people talking, which can be a real ego boost for some men.

• Third, many men find the act of crossdressing to be sexually gratifying. Wearing sexy lingerie or tight-fitting dresses can be a real turn-on for some men and can help them get aroused and achieve sexual satisfaction.

• Finally, some men simply enjoy the challenge of trying to pass as a woman in public. They get a thrill out of trying to fool others, and it can be a fun game for them to play.

 Davina - Some of this rings true

These are some of the explanations why we, as male crossdressers, find it hard to give up crossdressing. 

For many men, crossdressing is a way to escape from the everyday pressures of life and explore their femininity safely and comfortably. 

It can be a basis of great gratification and enjoyment, so it’s no wonder that many men find it hard to give up. 

5. Crossdressing can be a sexual turn-on for some people

Crossdressing offers sexual seduction in the following ways:

 1. The allure of the opposite sex

One of the key attractions of crossdressing is the opportunity to adopt the mannerisms, styles, and behaviors of the opposite sex. 

This can be a powerful draw for those who do not fit perfectly into their assigned gender role.

2. The excitement of breaking social norms 

There is an ecstasy to be had in doing something considered taboo or off-limits. 

Dressing up in attires typically linked with the other gender can be a way of subverting societal expectations and rules.

3. The appeal of dressing up 

Many people simply enjoy picking out and wearing clothes, regardless of whether they are “male” or “female” garments. 

For some, crossdressing is simply a way to express their love of fashion and style.

4. The lure of fantasy 

Crossdressing can escape the everyday grind, allowing people to step into a different persona – one that may be more glamorous, confident, or sexually alluring than their “normal” selves.

 5. The draw of sexual arousal

For many crossdressers, dressing up in women’s clothing is sexually arousing. 

The sight of oneself in the mirror wearing feminine attire can be a huge turn-on, as can the prospect of being seen by others in public while dressed up. 

These are just a few reasons why crossdressing can be such a hard habit to break. 

Once you’ve started exploring their femininity (or masculinity), it can be tough to resist the allure of continuing to do so. 

After all, crossdressing offers a way to tap into attractiveness, confidence, and sexuality – things that most people crave. 

So, if you struggle to give up your crossdressing habit, know that you are not alone. 

Other people understand the temptation and the challenges involved in trying to quit. 

6. It’s become such an important part of your identity

Crossdressing is an important part of our lives, not something we take lightly. 

If you are thinking about stopping, there are a few things you should consider first. 

But ultimately, the decision is yours, and only you can decide what is best for you.

Whenever we get reasons to quit crossdressing, we face many reasons not to hang our boots. 

It’s always a tricky situation for most of us. 

The main reason why it’s hard to stop crossdressing is that it’s an addictive behavior. 

Like any other addiction, the more you do it, the harder it is to quit. 

The addiction can be psychological or physical, and it can be very difficult to overcome. 

Although the ultimate decision lies with you, I hope this article gives you some insight into the whole dilemma. 

There’re more reasons to stick around than there are to quit.

Davina - with Crossdressing giving us more positives than negatives as men the fun the escapism and the stress release i can see why its hard to give up. I can also see why wives may think wtf? Its just dressing up but its a bit more than that its pure escapism and sooo hard to explain how it makes us feel.