By: Sindy
Subject: Full time dressing
I've mentioned this before but I know it's a big concern of wives - progression. Most assume this means transition. And then I stumbled on a forum link to a podcast about an ordinary Davina type crossdresser who has decided at age 40 to dress full time. He still identifies as a dude!
I find this bizarre yet it begs the question - how many Davina crossdressers would dress full time if they wouldn't be labeled 'weirdo?' This guy (I'll post the link if that's allowed?) has lost a wife and girlfriend over his dressing. He's clearly not in control of it in the way you and Katie are. OR, has he just allowed himself not to care anymore?
He also says he wants to get back into dating and his friend doing the interview can't quite wrap his head around how he will manage this dressed as a girl. Remember, this guy is a straight dude like you. Yep, I think he'll find it impossible...I'm not sure how many women would find a man attractive in this permanent crossdressed state. But, he sounds nice and 'normal' enough so who knows.
Anyway, it makes for interesting listening (I seem to feel obligated now to find things to chat about here...like a civic duty haha) and maybe you can shed some light on why a guy who identifies as just a crossdresser might do this to his life. He even works presenting as a woman now, yet freely admits he's still a man. He even acknowledges that he's probably causing problems using the women's toilets yet he does it for safety reasons. Unusual situation, or is this the secret ideal of crossdressers everywhere? In a crossdressing utopia where men walked around in dresses and it was the norm, would you do this? I guess this guy just decided not to wait for utopia to become real.
Here's the link:
http://brian-parra.com/there-s-no-time-to-explain-podcast/102-there-s-no-time-to-explain-21-rich-klechner.html
By: Davina
Subject: Re: Full time dressing
Straight man attracted to women has an intense desire to wear womens clothes and express himself as a woman…
Dressing as a woman full time ergo not a “Davina Type crossdresser” more a full blown Transvestite?
Progression stops here as far as the Davina type Crossdresser is concerned .. I have no intention or thought of dressing full time, it remains a bit of fun, escapism, sexy, relaxation, stress buster, feels nice, looks nice, love women.. love my wife, love female fashion and how women look … when they make the effort to look their best which the weird women of the world seem to do less and less!!
Progression does not mean transition as there are bus stops on the way.. wearng lingerie, trying on a dress, trying makeup, a wig.. different stops on the way and most stop short of dressing full time and waaaay short of transition.. We’re crossdressers not transvestites or transexuals.
How many Davina type crossdressers would dress full time – None!!
if they wouldn't be labelled 'weirdo?' None!!
Its an occasional thing we can separate our male selves from the escapism of Crossdressing easily.. the non-Davina type crossdreser struggles to do this.
I think he will struggle to find a partner..
Keep up your civic duty Sindy.
If it was the norm that we could dress how we liked and no one thought it was weird .. not so sure as how I dress I try to look attractive and as convincing as possible so even if it was accepted would men be attracted to me as Davina.. I dont want that!!