It seems most have this no matter what level you work in an organisation.
I have University credentials but its not something i boast about in work and i wanted to work my way up so started low learnt and worked up earning respect along the way until i achieved my goal of becoming an Engineer.
We must all wonder and deal with senior ranking people above us and think how are they in charge and who put them there.
Theres the Chief exec at the top then far too many layers of beaurocratic management then the Engineers and Managers who deliver and constantly have to rethink strategy as those above make cuts and add to their ranks.
It all leads to frustration and stress particularly if youre in the minority of experts who will speak up let down by those who wont and by unions who make deals with the upper management.
Im there right now this weeks been a howler and today could do with a few hours dressed to unwind before a busy weekend of rugby, Football and NFL then back to work.. but even working from Home no time to dress, Cant have a Girls night in and keeping the stubble for the weekend activities.. Not dressed for a few Weeks and need to quell the urge and de-stress.
Anyone else get like this ... Does work stress sometimes drive the urge?
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I dressed monday as had opportunity and had been about a month ago the last time i dressed.
It was ok i chatted to Katie on Skype but didnt really have the urge to dress.
The previous week work was stressful but that subsided over the weekend but monday afternoon after undressing work got stressful but tuesday i was too engrossed in work to dress and if anything hit that stress level where i just have to get the work done and dressing wouldnt have helped.
So today I Had the urge more to dress so did it for a few hours updating a spreadsheet mundane and boring as hell but nicer in a dress and makeup but didnt really enjoy it all that much dressed but working and it hasnt brought down my stress levels with a mundane pointless meeting tomorrow i have to attend all day as far as im concerned a day lost of productive work putting me a day behind.
Work causes me stress as its so frustrating being an engineer where Management not Engineers are in control and they dont listen yet when things go wrong its the Engineers they blame .. The other thing that frustrates me is the other enginerrs are yes men and bow down to management instead of speaking up and speaking thHeir minds letting management walk all over them.. .. all causes me stress and frustration and the two cures ive found are crossdressing and playing sport where i get my aggression out.